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The Struggle In Milkman's Song Of Solomon

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A common struggle through life is one’s struggle with “growing up” and forming identity. The culmination of a loss of culture, a misconception of life’s travesties, and a general apathy to what is and what isn’t during adolescence can often lead to a clash between parent and child. Since there is always wisdom to be learned and new experiences that promote growth, a person is never fully grown, never fully an adult; consequently, older children raise younger ones. Among these childlike parents are those who have not attempted to understand their inner emotional turmoil. They often leave their own children scarred, resulting in a mentally damaged cycle that continues endlessly until someone reaches a sense of internal peace. Song of Solomon …show more content…

Milkman, the main character, is inflicted with apathy and is spoiled by his family. His father disregards everything from his wife to human emotion in the search for wealth. Milkman’s grandfather was killed at the hands of white men while his father watched. What is the disconnect here? A father who refuses to acknowledge his own emotional trauma and the pain the African American community faces raises Milkman. Macon Jr. is an adult age-wise, but since his father’s death occurred when he was young he lost sight of what was important in life. A child mentally while an adult physically raises milkman. The conflict between the two is subtle, only present if looked further into their relationship. There is no communication between the two and no emotional interactions, which only fuels Milkman’s mental disconnect. Therefore, Milkman cannot process his emotions either and has no connection to his culture just like his father, “As the stars made themselves visible, Milkman tried to figure what was true and what part of what was true had anything to do with him.” Their detachment from their culture also results in a lack of identity. Macon Jr. has passed down his own emotional trauma onto his son, resulting in an apathetic, ungrateful child. Milkman only feels regret for the way he’s lived his life and the way he’s treated his family and lover after he’s learned about his heritage. Even then, the rift between father and son has not been resolved due to Macon Jr.’s own personal

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