A Humorous and Heartfelt Wedding Speech
Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen - I would like to start by thanking Frank on behalf of the bridesmaids for his kind comments and echo the fact that they look wonderful and performed their role fantastically well, despite the inevitable and healthy rivalry that can sometimes occur. In fact, just before the service I overheard a furious sisterly argument about who was going to be first to dance with the best man. Understandable, I thought - until I got closer and heard them saying, 'You!', 'no, you!'
I've known Frank for the best part of 20 years now and of course there are plenty of things I could tell you about what we got up to in our younger days. Unfortunately, I did consult my
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Many a time I arrived home to be told, ‘Oh, you’ve just missed Frank, and he’s eaten your tea.’ However, it is a small price to pay for such a friendship, and being friends with Frank has been a lot of fun.
We grew up in the same road and I fondly remember some of our childhood highlights were playing cowboys and Indians. Everybody's porch down the street fulfilled a different function. Mine was the bank and, tellingly, I now work for Lloyds. And yes, that's right - Frank's porch was the saloon. Another popular game was ‘Hide and Seek’… although Frank was a little bit tubby in those days so all he could play was ‘Seek’.
Frank’s favorite pass time though was reading Mr. Men books. If you know Frank well, you should be able to guess which Mr. Man he now most takes after, and its not Mr. Messy, Mr. Bump or Mr. DirtRingo. For those of you on Lisa’s side, I’ll give you a couple of clues. Think of the Mr. Man who after five pints of Stella can communicate only by winking his right eye, is addicted to playing fruit machines in pubs and likes to have sausages and bacon for his Sunday breakfast.
That’s right you’ve guessed it, the Mr. Man Frank most takes after is Mr. Winky Eye Fruit Porker… available in all good bookshops.
In all sincerity, Lisa, if Frank is half as good a husband as he has been a best friend to me, then you will have left here with a man that epitomizes
He then goes to the hospital to see Deborah Ann Kay and is deeply affected by it. He feels this is his chance to do something right and wants to provide fair justice for her instead of just taking the money. He doesn’t take the settlement or tell the Donaheys about it which he is supposed to tell them. He also stole mail from Maureen Rooney to get ahold of Kaitlin Costello Pryce. Frank did all of this because the end would justify the means. Even though some of the things he did weren’t right he wanted to do the right thing by providing justice for Deborah Ann Kay.
Frank morphs his personality into whatever someone wants him to be. To others he has the perfect family; however, he has a secret. When he is with Kenny he is rude to Tub. But when he is with Tub he seems to be himself. His affair with the babysitter is killing this supposed family man. He doesn't want to leave his wife simply because she's been good to him. The obvious reason of love isn't even mentioned in relation to his wife. When Frank tells Tub about true love it's as if he is a fifteen-year-old girl himself. The way he describes it one could easily imagine the same conversation happening in the girls' bathroom of a high school after a first kiss. "`Tub, have you ever been really in love?' `Well-' `I mean really in love.' He squeezed Tub's wrist. `With your whole being.' `I don't know. When you put it like that, I don't know.' `You haven't then. Nothing against you, but you'd know it if you had.' Frank let go of Tub's arm. `This isn't just some bit of fluff I'm talking about'" (Wolff 88). Frank is extremely immature. His views on life and love make it evident that he would make a connection with a fifteen-year-old. He believes that a friend should be
Frank’s need for stimulation could clearly be seen as an adolescent when he, after running away and surviving on cashing fraudulent checks, desired to partake in even more daring crimes as a result of the mere exposure effect in which the thrill of committing these crimes without any repercussion led to his increasing preference for them. In a way, the deceptive fraudulent checks that Frank created were directly representative of his deceptive nature since they could not easily be validated and had to travel weeks across the country. Frank’s desire to partake in increasing risky crimes during his merge led to the furthering development of his antisocial personality disorder as he took on greater impulsive acts of social deviance such as impersonating a Pan Am pilot and forging Pan Am payroll checks for over two million dollars. Utilizing his superficial charm, pathological lying, and lack of empathy Frank impressed and exploited people to feed his id-driven desire to commit more impulsive, daring crimes. The thrill of living on the edge of getting caught by the FBI, reached a turning point when Frank confidently impersonated the alias of a secret service agent and lied to avoid getting caught by Carl Hanratty, the lead investigator for his case. Realizing, he had just walked past the chief FBI
Since Frank spent part of his childhood in America, he learned how the society and working class functioned. Frank looks at America as a classless society where his goals will be realized and his talents would be rewarded, despite his lower-class upbringing. Frank’s first experience with this is presented when Angela goes to the market with no money and the clerk states “… you always pay your bill sooner or later and you can have anything you like in the store” (McCourt 28). I believe that this instance opened Frank’s eyes to how many more opportunities he would have in America than in Ireland. Frank understands at an early age that he will never be able to return to America unless he saves money and escapes the slums because only “rich” people are able to save money. This is proven when Frank says “I'd like to be a Jesuit some day but there's no hope of that when you grow up in a lane. Jesuits are very particular. They don't like poor people. They like people with motor cars who stick out their little fingers when they pick up their teacups” (McCourt 245). Even though Frank is a strong believer that sinning sends you to Hell, he is willing to write life-threatening letters for Mrs. Finucane to her customers who owe her money. Frank is so determined to escape Ireland and to escape the bottomless pit of Ireland’s society class that he would even go against everything he believes
In 1939, Frank fulfilled one of his lifelong dreams; he married his childhood sweetheart Nancy Barbato. He had three kids: Nancy Sandra, Franklin Wayne Emmanuel (Frank Jr.), and Christina. However, in 1949, Frank divorced Nancy after ten years of marriage because of an affair involving Frank and Ava Gardner. This ran his career into a severe crisis. He was fired from his radio show, Columbia wanted him out, and six months later his New York concerts flopped! To make matters worse, he lost his voice do to vocal cord
"That night the jars began to break" (151). The novel Montana 1948, written by Larry Watson is a book about family and tragedy. The Hayden name is popular in Bentrock. David Hayden is a young boy who was taken for an adventure one summer when his sheriff of a dad, Wes, was informed of his brother sexually assaulting his patients. Family is important, but morals are what drive your actions.
Unlike Holden Caulfield, Frank tired in school, had parents that depended on Frank to help with the other children. Frank was expected to grow up faster than most kids by having to take care of his sibling when his parent started to fall apart. Frank many times had to find small jobs to help support his family because his father as we know kept on drinking all the money he made away. Frank has the biggest heart, for an example of why he has the biggest heart is before he had a job he would say how he would get a job and wouldn’t drink it away. Referring he would be different than his father, better father, and really wanted to do as much as he could for the family, think like an adult. He was Striding to be a better person in general. Even
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. On behalf of the bridesmaids, I must thank Donald for his kind words. I must also thank all of you for coming today - I know how hard it is to get a day release.
Frank is also dedicated to his children. He loves to talk about Lola and Frankie, and lights up when he does. He has expressed that he works hard to provide a safe and happy environment to raise his children, and I have tremendous respect for Frank in regards to his desire to be reunited with his children.
When his father takes him to be an altar boy, he is turned away due to the poverty of his family. This is disturbing to young Frank, and begins thoughts of discontent in his mind. Also, when he goes to look into enrolling in secondary school with his mother at his side, the Christian Brother there slams the door in his face due to his street appearance. Regardless of his high intelligence, he is denied a higher education by the Church based on his economic status. The night before his 16th birthday Frank drinks his first pint and strikes his mother; on attempting to confess to a Jesuit priest, the door is again closed to him: “He says, Go away. You’re drunk. Child like you drunk as a lord ringing for a priest at this hour. Go away or I’ll call the guards…. You’re drunk and you’re not in a proper spirit of repentance (340).” Frank is panicked about the condition of his eternal soul but is forced to remain in a state of sin because of the lack of compassion by this priest. The transformation is complete: Frank is no longer the innocent little child who runs to the Church to unburden his soul, but instead he is a cynical adolescent who has lost his faith in God.
Frank’s interesting in performing music began at a very young age. Growing up he would sing at his family functions or at his parents tavern to get some spare change. When he was finally old enough to get a real job, he began trying to sing on radio shows before his mother convinced a local singing group to take him on. Sinatra never learned how to read music, he would just listen and learn everything by ear. This group would go on to win a contest which awarded them a six month gig singing around the country and on the radio. This band 's success landed Sinatra a job as a singing waiter at “The Rustic Cabin” which was a popular dining spot. During his time here he married his wife Nancy, who his mother did not approve of. This job got him a recording spot the radio show The Dance Parade where he recorded his first song “Our Love”. This song caught bandleader Harry James’s
Frank is one of the main characters in the story who surfaces in the movie as a man wearing a rabbit’s costume. He only appears to Donnie when Donnie takes the prescribed
In the novel Catch Me If You Can by Frank William Abagnale, Frank is a well defined static character. Even though he faces different challenges throughout the novel, he remains the same a the end of the story as he was in the beginning. Being said this, he still continued to run away from his problems and did cons. He is a confident individual who ran away from home at a young age to find a life for himself. Frank is a smart, young and charismatic boy. During his early teen years, his parents started to go through a divorce, which left him torn between whom to choose to stay with. After learning about the divorce that was about to take place, Frank decides to runaway. Frank states, “One June morning of 1964, I woke up and knew it was time to go.
Frank Begbie was an interesting character for me because he has lived two different lives over his life and they feature two very different people with very different personalities. His personality as Jim Francis is a very calm character who is happy with life as a sculptor whereas Frank Begbie which is his original identity is obsessed with violence and loved to play tricks which would harm people. Occasionally one character will appear while acting as or being the other like when Jim was punching and kicking Santiago on the beach. The conversation between the pair went like this. Santiago screams in pain “Please don’t hurt me anymore Jim! Please oh please!”
And like all friends, we’ve certainly had our downs as well as our ups. I remember back to times when a petty argument would arise from nowhere. Then Scott would call me smelly, and I’d call him ‘big ears’ – because underneath that carefully-crafted hair there really are a couple of satellite dishes. And then it would spiral out of all proportion and we’d each end up running home in tears. But sure enough, the next day, Scott would drop an email from work and we’d make up. As good mates do, however old.