At the end of my freshman year, a couple days before summer, I realized that I barely at all talked with any girls at all, and I needed to change something in my life in order for me to be happier. Being one of 1650 students at an all boys school makes it difficult to be more outgoing and stand out. One thing that I did end up changing was the way that I carried myself, and the amount of work that I put in. Luckily for me things changed to be in my favor, the narrator in the poem, A Love Song by J. Alfred Prufrock and I have the same goals for women and fulfillment, but one lacks the courage to pursue what he wants. In the Love Song, by J. Alfred Prufrock, the narrator is completely aware of what could make him happy, but is still incapable …show more content…
Prufrock assures himself that he has enough time to do what he wants, “and time for all the works and days of hands” (Eliot 27-28). In this text, Prufrock alludes to Hesiod’s Works and Days, a poem that emphasizes the importance of making life meaningful and worthwhile, by having nothing held back in life, and living with no regrets. Contrast to the theme of Works and Days, Prufrock lives his life constantly regretting everything and has a meaningless life. Prufrock’s pressure to talk to women stems from wanting to seize the day and make his life fruitful and happy, but is more comfortable not trying than having a chance of failure. Prufrock explains how he can change his impression with a few minor changes, “For decisions and revisions which a minute will reverse” (Eliot 34). In this text, Prufrock talks about how he can reverse time in terms of his feelings, how he can be unhappy, happy, and unhappy in seconds because of his decisions, and the revisions of those decisions. Prufrock explains what goes through his head when he talks about women, and how systematically he analyzes himself. Prufrock is a man who enjoys leisure, and his approach to women is very uptight and systematic, which is polar to his true self. Even if Prufrock makes the right decisions and revisions in talking with women, he will not be fulfilled with that women until he is his true, relaxed self. The narrator sets the tone of the poem To His Coy Mistress, “Had we but world enough and time” (Marvell 1). Throughout the entire poem, Prufrock consistently talks about his fading youth, and how he says that there will be time. This talk of time and a carpe diem theme alludes to Andrew Marvell’s poem, To His Coy Mistress. Similar to the narrator,
The “eyes” (55) and “arms” (62) that Prufrock claims to “have known” are synecdoches for women; since he does not say he is familiar with their hearts, which would metaphorically imply experience with their love, Prufrock only knows women physically. He gives one explanation for this by noting the “perfume” and “dress” (65) that make him “digress” (66) from presumably his goal: instead of fostering relationships, Prufrock focuses on sexual/sensual aspects. In spite of this, Eliot provides insight to Prufrock desiring more than physical intimacy through the repeated mention of meals: “toast and tea” (34), “tea and cakes and ices” (79), “marmalade” (88), “tea cups” (102); these references indicate a wish to no longer dine alone, and Prufrock saying, “Among the porcelain, among some talk of you and me” exemplifies his aspiration for domestic life.
J. Alfred Prufrock constantly lived in fear, in fear of life and death. T. S. Eliot divided his classic poem into three equally important sections. Each division provided the reader with insight into the mental structure of J. Alfred Prufrock. In actuality, Prufrock maintained a good heart and a worthy instinct, but he never seemed to truly exist. A false shadow hung over his existence. Prufrock never allowed himself to actually live. He had no ambitions that would drive him to succeed. The poem is a silent cry for help from Prufrock. In each section, T. S. Eliot provided his audience with vague attempts to understand J. Alfred Prufrock. Each individual reader can only interpret these
Detail 2: As can be deduced from the poem, Prufrock spends all of his time pondering how to behave, and to act in society, as he wants to become a man of action. Prufrock imagines himself achieving great things for himself and having everything he desires. Nonetheless, he cannot find a way to realize his wishes. Prufrock is well aware of his tragedy, and he makes sure the audience understands that he is a flawed man full of fears, whims and self-fancies. Again, just as we find in Hamlet’s character, Prufrock’s personality makes him cautious of acting towards any goal he might have, and his over-analytic persona makes him incapable of taking control of any situation. Prufrock explains his problems through a simple example from one of his failures. He recounts that he was incapable of asking a girl to date him, and despite his loving for her, he did nothing to make his love count.
'I have measured out my life with coffee spoons'; (line 51), shows how Prufrock thinks of his own life, unexciting and unheroic. In his mind he has nothing to offer these women. He returns to wrestling with his thoughts that allow him to desire the love the women have to offer but talk himself out of the task by gentile reminders of the risk. He tells the reader that he knows these women and even begins to rehearse an opening remark, 'Shall I say, I have gone at dusk through narrow streets / And watched the smoke that rises from the pipes'; (lines 70-71). This thought is quickly lost however as Prufrock imagines how easy it would be to be a creature that had no need for love, 'I should have been a pair of ragged claws / Scuttling across the floors of silent seas'; (lines 73-74).
In the struggle of everyday life, taking a somewhat small risk can sometimes feel like an incredibly daunting task. “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T.S. Eliot describes one such experience as a man, Prufrock, describes his evening with a woman with whom he’d like to be in a relationship with. However the task of bringing this up to the woman appears too daunting for Prufrock, and as his insecurities overtake him, he fails to gather the courage to ask her. “The use of allusion in the love song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by Andrew McCulloch analyzes several literary allusions throughout “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” and eventually comes to the conclusion that only those who relate to the poem will gain full emotional satisfaction from it. The article begins by giving a brief description of modernism in literature and how “The Love Song Of J.
“The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T.S. Eliot perfectly captures the soul of the modern man of his era. In this poem, Eliot delineates Prufrock as being a figure of elite status, fighting internal battles against his mind of how he is supposed to be seen in society. Throughout the poem, Prufrock attempts to figure out if he should stay a man of society or become the person he has always wished he could be; however, he possesses a conscience that does not allow him to stray too far from conformity. He sees the potential qualities of conformity all around him, like having his own religious beliefs, having a relationship, and becoming his own self, but his fear of what other people of his class might think and his uncertainness of what might happen prevents his fantasy from becoming a reality. Through these qualities, Eliot paints a picture of the inside of Prufrock’s mind to get a glimpse of how society used to be; bowing down to acquiescence and dismissing the notion of individuality.
Eliot begins “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by using an epigram from Dante’s Inferno to set the theme of the poem. By alluding to a story about a journey through Hell, readers can infer that Prufrock will also take readers on a journey through Hell, only this time it is a living hell. Upon examining the first couple of stanzas, it is clear that Prufrock is afraid of living his life, so much so, that time has become illusory to him. Eliot writes, “Time for you and me, and time for a hundred indecisions, and for a hundred visions and revisions, before the taking of a toast and tea” (369). The poetic device of repetition to portray never-ending time proves Prufrock fools himself into believing he has all the time in the
Images and allusions aren’t Prufrock’s only fragmented features though; Eliot also uses the rhythm, and the rhyme is irregular throughout this poem. Throughout the poem, the rhyming schemes differ and constantly changed and evolved. There are instances when it is an unrhymed free verse, and instances where it would go for a longer period of time, then to shorter periods. The rhyme scheme creates a chaotic feeling, as well as feelings of disorganization and confusion, just as the world Prufrock resides in, and it does a good job portraying the anxiety that is rooted in the social world. He is afraid to confront those talking pointlessly about Michelangelo as well as he is intimidated by the thought of engaging in a gathering, believing that “there will be time” (23), and that he has "time yet for a hundred indecisions, And for a hundred visions and revisions", indicating that his life and his social life is a bore, with repetitive routines that remains the same. Prufrock’s constant worrying is also shown in not merely the
Loneliness is a feeling that we have all felt here and there. A man in the poem “ The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T.S Eliot feels trapped which caused him to have disorders. Nothing has never changed from living in the same city and not using his time wisely. He tried numerous ways to approach women but his low self esteem stopped him from moving forward. Although Prufrock seems like a miserable person, Prufrock suffers from obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, and paranoia that caused him to feel this way.
When reading the title of T.S Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” it is believed we are in store for a poem of romance and hope. A song that will inspire embrace and warmth of the heart, regretfully this is could not be further from the truth. This poem takes us into the depths of J. Alfred Prufrock, someone who holds faltering doubt and as a result may never come to understand real love. “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” takes us through Prufrock’s mindset and his self-doubting and self-defeating thoughts. With desolate imagery, a tone that is known through the ages and delicate diction we see a man who is insecure, tentative and completely fearful.
In the poem, The Love song, written by T.S. Elliot, J Alfred Prufrock is a man who is very lonely and insecure. He goes throughout his life wishing for a change, but never stepping up to the plate and actually making a change. The title of the poem portrays to the reader that the poem is going to be full of love and romance. The reader soon found out later that the poem is just the opposite from the title, a sad, lonesome man who is not only lacking love, but also lacking self confidence and self esteem.
Throughout the poem, Prufrock seems anxious. He tells the reader that “There will be time, there will be time,”(Eliot 26). Alfred is telling the reader about a potential date with a woman. He is nervous because he doesn’t want this woman to see his imperfections. As time goes on, he becomes more nervous about his physical attributes.
“The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T. S. Elliot is a poem that tells a character’s story with the use of emotions and imagery. The character J. Alfred Prufrock is first introduced as taking a walk and describing the surroundings such as vacant streets and dreary sights. Women are also introduced as talking about Michelangelo. The setting is covered in a yellow fog that stretches over every detail of the town. Prufrock’s emotions at first seems to be confident with the ladies. As the poem progresses, Prufrock is seen more as an average middle-aged man, but also a sad honest man. He seems to stick to a routine and does not stray from it much. His bland personality is not much of an appeal to the women, thus making him pathetic. In “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock”, T.S.
“And indeed there will be time” (23). Prufrock is musing about all the time there will be for gossip later. Again the yellow smoke slides down the street, tempting Prufrock to give in. With the gossip goes the gossipers and as they arrive back at their homes you see the yellow smoke of gossip “Rubbing its back upon the window-panes” (25). Now, Prufrock has time to think about what he has to do. In the poem he seems to be in a dream-like state. He is wondering, the rhythm in lines 26-34 gives me the impression that he is pacing the floor. He is preparing to meet someone, a woman, and he is conflicted about how to tell her what he must tell her. Prufrock feels overwhelmed by what he must do, and yet he is trying his best to focus on the task at hand. Just as
Eliot’s poem “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” is written as though Mr. Prufrock is playing a game of tennis through Eliot’s back and forth style. It may be hard to follow, but this unevenness of thought shows how the “Modern Male” thinks. His inability to be decisive illustrates that it is now considered masculine for men to think and feel, rather than just act out before thinking. This belief is a major change from Week 1’s Romanticism era, where men were more focused on action, rather than thoughts and feelings.