Those who’ve ruined your life are the poison ivy in this world, and after dealing with them, one will still never learn to stay away and instead go back to those same people. In other words, “One dreadful affliction from poison ivy should have taught one a lesson. But clearly it hasn’t, when they savor the taste of venom and allow the ivy to suffocate themselves with the way others form their life for them.” These were the words that came from a woman who gave me a new perspective of life.
Last summer, I traveled to Chicago to my dad’s work for a “bring your kids to work” week program. Around noon, the kids had a break so I went to a record shop that was a block away. On my way there, a woman crying with a bent over posture on a bench, had caught my eye. Normally, I
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She was taking care of her infant who had a type of breathing problem and needed a special tube to breathe from along with frequent doctor visits, all without her boyfriend who had left her. Also, she had a job that didn’t pay much so she couldn’t pay all the medical bills, rent, etc. To make things worse, she got herself into drugs and was ashamed that she wouldn’t be the perfect mother for her child. Going on forever about how everything was getting worse, she included her saying of the poison ivy, that stuck with me.
This conversation, made me look upon my life and relate to certain feelings when I felt helpless, but realized I had unconsciously overcome those feelings with determination and that was what she needed. When she had finished, I gave her the best advice that one could give and I told her that she was the strongest woman I had ever met and her child would look up to how hard she was working. Asking her if she believed in God, I then told her that He has a plan for everyone, and things happen for a reason because they’re meant to
Mrs. Ivy Conner is a 77 year old female who grew up in rural Pennsylvania on a farm. Ivy was the youngest child born to Jane and Bill Conner. Growing up on a farm, proved to be difficult for Mrs. Conner and her Siblings. First, their parents worked long hours, so they were left in the care of their nana. Second, they experienced financial hard times when the farm unprofitable. Most of her young life, the client and her family were poor. Then when Ivy was 16 her mother passed away from stomach cancer. As a result, Mrs. Conner suffered from grief and depression as an adolescent.
She felt like a loner. She was fighting her mum a lot, and said to her mother "maybe there's something else you'd like to find wrong with me while you're at it!" She didn't think about what other people felt. She was a
to lose her grip on her past. Ivy Rowe, in Lee Smith's Fair and Tender
Rose simply isn’t the same anymore, she is quiet, depressed, and angry. She is finally forced by her mother to go back to school for Rose only wanted to sit by Ivy’s hospital bed. The thought of her older sister waking up without Rose by her side hurt the teenage girl even more. Rose hears the people talk about her sister, saying Ivy is a “human vegetable” so Rose quickly shuts her peers up, still not giving up on Ivy even after the doctors said there was no hope. Everyday William T., the Latham’s neighbor, and Rose go to the hospital after school to see Ivy.
As she interacted with other children, paranoia had grew, as she thought that any type of comment amount them is aimed towards her and the way she looked. Of course some of it was true, as some of the the children did stare and laughed. She later blames it on the lack of money that her family had. It was the root of all the unhappiness that surrounds her. It didn’t help that she was diagnosed with cancer, an expensive illness, which of course Grealy saw the bills and causing her parents to fight. She blamed it on herself. She was envious of rich and healthy children, she was hurt by their parents that saw them as danger. She ends the story with her being photographed for examination, and how she would’ve have liked an alternative photo of her and a pony just like the other
Finally, a personal struggle that happened in my life was what happened with my mother’s friend, Lynzee. Lynzee had six children, four girls and two boys. She really wanted to have another addition to her family. So, when she found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl she was filled with joy. Sadly, her baby was born too early and was fighting for her survival. Her first name was Violet and her middle name was Hope. Violet fought hard and long for her life, but her body was just too weak. She ended up passing away two years after her birth. Lynzee and her family were devastated at the loss of their family member. She overcame this difficult struggle by being with her family and looking on the
Everyday people all over the world try to improve the qualities of their lives. Nonetheless, they forget that what they do can have severe harms and damages on the environment and other organisms. In the excerpt “A Fable for Tomorrow” from the book Silent Spring, Rachel Carson describes the disastrous and horrific effects of pesticides on the environment and animals of the town. In the essay “Our Animal Rites” by Anna Quindlen, she shows the inhumanity of animal hunting by human. Furthermore, she argues how human migration is destroying the natural habitats that belong to the animals. In the excerpt “Reading the River” from the autobiographical book Life on Mississippi, Mark Twain describes how he loses the ability to perceive the
Every individual during some point in their life has experienced a bad day or perhaps a rough patch. The feeling of an overwhelming sensation of hopelessness can be without a doubt exhausting. For several individuals, the aid from family and loved ones is necessary when trying to recover. However, for Amy Winehouse, it seems as if every inner-struggle the star had brewing inside was swept under the rug by her mother and father. It is evident that ignoring mental health issues will never have a positive end result and that is demonstrated in Amy. In order for the audience to step in her shoes for a few hours, Amy is re-presented to the audience by fragments of footage of herself and interviews of her closest friends and loved ones. With that
Without a doubt, his statement allows others to sympathize with those who are not capable of deciding where their children may go, but rather placing their child’s future in a bouncing ball. In addition, the usage of dismal music that corresponds to the definitive moment in the documentary appeals to the audience. In particular, Guggenheim applies this specific tone of music in times of children crying as well as times showcasing the families laying their best efforts to reach the most exceptional outcomes for their children and their children’s futures. By doing so, the audience can envision this scenario in their own shoes, which provides an element of
The poem, “A Poison Tree,” by William Blake, and the short story, “Enemies, by Tim O’Brien share a theme that suppressing anger and wrath may lead to a violent result. One can learn this theme through the poem’s first person point of view and the story’s omniscient narrator.
These past two years have made it hard for her to go through life. I asked her if the loss of my brother was something hard for her. She told me that she was very devastated, very sad, and that she felt that the world turned upside down. She always had thoughts of thinking if there was a future, but all in all, she takes it one step at a time. She always knows that God is there to help her. I connected to this question as well, I understood how we both felt, her tone of voice changed immediately, and I knew that right from the beginning. This was probably the hardest question to
Especially because I don't want you to end up like me.” The conversation is still fresh in my memory and tears form in the corner of my eyes when I think about it. My mother was aware that her life was no walk in the park and I think that's what hurt me the most. I would never want my children to see me in such a state that I've seen my mother in. At the same time I would want her to see that hard work truly pays off. A miracle is just another word for the result of hard work. Some people are born with silver spoons in their mouth and I've seen how meaningless their lives turn out to be. My mother proved to me that your struggles make you stronger and define who you are. Struggling is almost impossible to avoid and rather than sulking about it, I'd rather use it to make me a stronger person, like my mom
Reading her story has helped me see my insecurities in another light, and realize that if I am open and up front with my friends and loved ones, that they are likely to lift me up and give me the support to relieve my anxieties rather than confirm my
Christian Lous Lange once said,”Technology is a useful servant but a dangerous master.” What Lange said fits the theme of the short story “The Veldt” by Ray Bradbury. In the story “The Veldt”, the parents of Peter and Wendy, George and Lydia, buy a very technologically advanced house that does everything for them. Eventually, the kids become very spoiled and feel like they don’t need their parents because the house basically is their parent. One room in the house is called the nursery; the nursery is a room in which wherever a person thinks of it can take that person there. The kids start becoming angry that their father wouldn’t let them take their rocket to New York by themselves. So the kids turn the nursery into Africa, which makes the
The meaning of the poem A Poison Tree is how hatred can be a powerful weapon that can lead to both physical and mental injuries if not controlled on time. In the first stanza of the poem the speaker gets angry with a friend and a foe. The speaker seizes their wrath with the friend, however, the speaker allowed their wrath to grow with their foe, “I was angry with my foe; / I told it not, my wrath did grow.” Throughout the second stanza, the speaker grows their wrath with mixed emotions, “And I water’d it in fears, / Night & morning with my tears: / And I sunned it with smiles, / And with soft deceitful wiles.” As the speaker kept growing their wrath, it blossomed to form new anger, new tricks and plans for destruction, “And it grew both day