“A Room of Distorted Mirrors”
An investigative journalism piece by Kylie Bell
The Cries of a Girl
She lay awake at night listening to the cries in the next room. The cries of a girl who never felt good enough. One night she stepped out of bed, and walked towards the cries. She saw two people sitting on a bed, one crying on the other’s shoulder. “Momma what do I do?”, the girl’s cries turned to sobs and she struggled to get the words out. This was the first time she had seen the girl cry even though she heard them every night. People had criticized the girl to the point where she couldn’t handle it and broke down. My heart ached for the girl. The people were criticizing her because in their minds she was “just too skinny for normal.”
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The girl in the picture is Kristina Saffran who started suffering from anorexia nervosa at just ten years old. Anorexia is an illness which means “loss of appetite”. When someone gets so obsessed with losing weight they self starve and ignore their body’s need to eat. Her struggles stopped a year later when she started middle school. Kristina was finally happy again. She would always tell her friends, “I couldn’t be anorexic again if I tried,” but that was a lie. At thirteen (just before middle school ended) Kristina’s eating disorder came back. “(Her) eating disorder came back with a force that (she) hadn’t even remotely felt when she was ten,” and on her visit back to her specialist she was admitted directly into the hospital. Now you may be wondering “Was she ever even ‘fat’?” which is a question that most people had asked Kristina. The answer is no, not at all. In fact, she always regarded herself pretty highly, at least in terms of thinness. Usually people with anorexia develop a distorted body image and their mind tells them they are fat even if they are dangerously thin, although that wasn’t the case with Kristina. She always considered herself an “eight out of ten,” but she wanted to be a ten out of ten. Kristina wanted to be “perfect” and in her mind what she was then wouldn’t cut
According to Mirasol Eating Disorder Recovery Center, 20% of people with anorexia nervosa die if they do not get treatment or professional help. This eating disorder is 12 times higher than any cause of death for females 15-24 years old. Furthermore, 10-15% of males have anorexia, so it is not only women who have it. How would you feel? Wanting to know a certain number and maintaining that number so you can feel great about yourself, but slowly hurting or maybe killing yourself by doing it? Elena Dunkle goes through this everyday; knowing that a certain number on a scale will make her feel beautiful. In Elena Dunkle’s memoir, Elena Vanishing, Elena, who has anorexia nervosa, shows the reader the struggles, the fighting and the demons that
Kristi Belcamino is a mother of a nine-year-old daughter who had suffered from an eating disorder. The eating disorder that her daughter was suffering from is called Anorexic. Anorexic is a life-threatening eating disorder that can cause a person to be extremely obsess about their weight, and what they eat. Kristi Belcamino daughter was showing signs of Anorexic at the beginning of the article. Like for example Kristi Belcamino daughter bones was sticking out, lost interest in foods she liked, unusual fears and concerns.
Ethos is Haines credibility about this topic; and nearly this entire article is about her experiences and a run-down of her and her sister’s adolescent years. techniques was that she used personal stories. She describes how girls in junior high girls would go on extreme and strict diets, that nearly restricted any type of food that they could eat. Haines is generalizing that most of the popular girls are the girls who are beautiful, thin and starving themselves. In this case, Haines sister does fall into the stereotypical category. Her sister would starve herself to nearly anorexic (171). Then later on her sister became ill because she wasn’t eating. Girls who starve themselves are hurting themselves more that helping. Anorexic is a very concerning eating disorder that can lead to long term mental and physical
While watching the documentary “Dying to be Thin”, I felt an overwhelming feeling of sadness and discomfort. These women don’t see themselves the way everyone else does. They see themselves as fat and ugly; when they are really thin and beautiful. This aspect of eating disorders has always fascinated me because it is almost as if the patient is blinded by what is actually in front of them. They are in complete denial of their looks.
Ever started gaining weight at age 10 after her mother died. She tried all sorts of diets and nothing seemed to work. After breaking a chair at a school assembly and a talk with her step-sister Brielle, Ever decided to undergo gastric bypass surgery. Some reasons for this surgery was to try out for the school play and to land a date to the school dance. A couple weeks after her surgery, she started losing a great amount of weight, but she couldn’t eat as much so she became famished all the time. People at school soon noticed her weight loss and she became very complacent with herself. Eventually, her outlook on life changed and so did her friendships. Shortly after the school year started, she got engrossed in the “popular” crowd. She soon
A single father watched his daughter, 17 years old, dwindle down to 72 pounds. He begged her to eat, but she would cry and push the plate away. He was irritated and turned to his friends at work complaining his daughter was taking dieting way too far. He would scream at her “Stop! This is nonsense, just eat!”. This father, like many other Americans, did not understand that his daughter could not just stop being Anorexic. The common misconception is that Anorexia Nervosa is just someone obsessed with losing weight. Many people believe that Anorexics look in the mirror and smile at their thinness and progress. This is so untrue, they look in the mirror and wish for a way out.
There are several bio-medical definitions of anorexia; The NHS refers to an anorexic as someone who tries to keep their weight as low as possible, by restricting diet, often over exercising and in some cases through the use of laxatives and diuretics (NHS, 2014). The DSM-V definition similarly suggests that anorexia is characterised by a refusal to maintain body weight at or above the minimally normal weight for age and height (DSM-V, 2014). Both definitions highlight an intense fear of gaining weight and a hugely distorted perception
In certain cases, some adolescents develop an eating disorder. They forget that being healthy is the most important thing during this time of their life. A lot of adolescents go through puberty and if they do not eat properly, it can cause harm to their growth. In the movie, Regina wanted to lose 3 pounds. She did not eat and decided to only eat the protein bars that Caty gave to her. Regina thought the protein bars would help her lose weight. However, adolescents do not know that a healthy diet and exercise can actually help them lost weight. Instead, adolescents choose to become anorexic or bulimic. Anorexia is when an individual “voluntarily undereat and overexericis, depriving their vital organs of nourishment” (Berger, 2008, p. 459). The National Institute of Health states that “Young people with anorexia nervosa, for example, have difficulty maintaining a minimum healthy body weight. Anorexia affects one in every 100 to 200 adolescent girls and a much smaller number of boys” (National Health, 1999). Bulimia
“Dying to be Thin,” produced by PBS, is a documentary that examines the troubles that persons who are affected by eating disorders go through and the constant, daily struggles they face with health and body image. The film tells the story of a number of young women who battled mainly anorexia and bulimia and mixes a variety of ages to give a “during” and an “after” perspective. Many of the women in the video were ballet or some similar type of dancer. Dancers, by their own account, are encouraged to be thin. The issue really came to the forefront after a young ballet dancer from Boston died of heart failure at the young age of 22, with an eating disorder deemed to be the cause. The narrator goes on to introduce more young women and detail the potential illnesses that their eating disorders can cause. Chronic low blood pressure, kidney and liver damage, severe early osteoporosis, and heart failure are all common things seem in patients who suffer from eating disorders. Most patients have dangerously low body weights, body fat percentages, and, often, young women will experience amenorrhea, which is the loss of menstruation. All of the people in the video wanted to be better and were seeking a road to recovery. The video showed though, how difficult that can be since the eating disorders can be so wide ranging and have a number of different root causes. Often patients develop eating disorders as something that they have control over, in a world that they feel is out of their
Kenna is now a 17-year-old and has been diagnosed with anorexia nervosa.Anorexia nervosa is a serious, potentially life-threatening eating disorder characterized by self-starvation and excessive weight loss.According to a university research, statistics show that 95% of those who have eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25. Anorexia has had a huge impact in our society,especially to our younger generations due to what the media has presented to us as “the perfect body”.Kids at a very young age are already exposed to what is “right” and what is not.The so-called perfect look is only a social construct since this look is not achievable naturally or no where close to natural.Our society has put down this eating disorder as if it wasn’t our own fault,or “a mental disorder” according to the DSM-V.We are not proud to present these people to our society or even call this a healthy look.
Beauty standards in the media are one of many reasons feeding and eating disorders are a rising problem. The unrealistic body types of being extremely thin, in pop culture, are influential factors for many teens, especially teen girls. According to the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fifth edition (DSM-5), anorexia nervosa is a “restriction of energy intake, intense fear of gaining weight, and a disturbance in the perception of one’s body size” (American Psychiatric Association, 2013). Individuals diagnosed with anorexia tend to place a high value on their shape and weight, which can interfere with their daily lives. Individuals diagnosed tend to view of their body shape in a distorted representation. The motivation to become
In the i.Mirror video at the beginning everything looked so lonely and the weather, the emptiness in the city, and the music contributed to this. Is like everything was working together to achieve loneliness and despair. This video also illustrated the contamination and suffering taking place by the hands of humans. I think the purpose of this video was to make people realize all the destruction that is taking place because of our selfish
Even though she has told many people about her eating disorder they don’t believe her or choose not to. Another thing that people tell her is that the only reason she’s skinny is so that she can be pretty and be like all the other pretty girls. Because of her eating disorder she finds that being skinny makes her unhappy because she has to constantly check how many calories and fat food contains and she can’t really enjoy eating. Another thing that affects her is that at least every morning, afternoon, or at night she says that she has to check her weight or she won’t be satisfied with herself the good thing is that she has family to help and support
An eating disorder is an illness that involves an unhealthy feeling about the food we eat. “Eating disorders affect 5-10 millions Americans and 70 million individuals worldwide” (www.eatingdisorderinfo.org 1). They also affect many people from women, men, children, from all ages and different races. People who have eating disorders usually see themselves as being fat when they really aren’t. This usually deals with women or teenage girls mostly. They watch television, movies, read articles in magazines, and see pictures of the celebrities whom they want to be like because they have the “ideal body” that everyone wants and craves for. The media makes us all think we need those types of bodies to be happy with ourselves, be more successful
“Anorexia Nervosa is characterized by self-starvation to avoid obesity. People with this disorder believe they are overweight, even when their bodies become grotesquely distorted by malnourishment.” (Columbia Electronic Encyclopedia)