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ADR Survey: What I Wish I Knew Then

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ADR Survey: What I Wish I Knew Then
When I decided to go to law school, a lot of people asked me why and whether I was sure that I wanted to take on such a challenging task. Now, however, those same people are asking me questions about the law or legal problems that they are facing and I reply with the same response, “I’m still in law school, so I can’t help you.” However, throughout this semester in this ADR Survey class, I learned about real life tools that I have been using (without even knowing it) and that I can put into practice right now. This paper will discuss a “negotiation” that I was in at the beginning of the semester and how I might have approached the negotiation differently with the new ADR tools and theories that I learned. …show more content…

We both thought that it was going to be a good relationship since we were both working law students and understood the stresses that law school demands. We decided to live together in order to save money during law school and the first six months were great. However, then Margo got a boyfriend, Kevin. At first, Kevin would stop by to pick up Margo for dates and was pleasant enough when they would hang out at the apartment on the weekends. However, a little over a year ago Kevin started to become a permanent fixture at our apartment. I would come home from school or work and there he was, I’d go to the grocery store and he would eat my food, or I would try to go to bed early and he would be watching TV a little too loud. When the time came for us to renew our lease this past September, I was almost at my wits end because I needed to live in Fort Worth with a roommate for law school but I just couldn’t take him anymore.
In September, we received a notice that our lease was up for renewal in December and that we had to give 60 days’ notice if we were not going to renew. I decided it was time to have the talk with Margo. So, I decided that I was going to discuss/negotiate with Margo over the rent and utilities since at that time Kevin was not paying anything and was basically living at our apartment free of charge. Furthermore, Margo had the bigger bedroom, bathroom, and closet and I didn’t

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