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Al-Anon Meeting Reflection

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Al-Anon Meeting Reflection
It was never my intention to work with addicted clients, but nearly every family therapy course I have taken has, either overtly or covertly, stressed the need to understand addictions. While I understand the concept on a cognitive level, I had judgements about the type of people that become addicted and did not feel compelled to work with them, until my niece died. Her drug addiction deeply affected all members of her immediate family. Her parents and her step-dad, my brother, each reacted to my niece’s addiction in different ways but none were successful and the family began to fail under the stress.
Even after my niece left and was living on the streets, I watched my brother’s marriage become strained and knew
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Although I have learned a great deal about addictions this quarter, I did not feel ready to visit Alcoholics Anonymous. The thought of attending an Al-Anon meeting made me very nervous, and I had difficulty forcing myself to remain outwardly focused. As I drove into the church parking lot, I was reluctant to get out of my car. I realized that I would have to ask someone where to go, and I felt resistant to letting anyone know.
I saw a small crowd of people near that back door of the church classroom wing, so I casually walked in their direction. It was a huge relief to see a sign directing me inside, but I was surprised to see that it included an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. I had a rush of fear that someone might 1) recognize me, or 2) think I was an addict. Experiencing them allowed me to understand what my clients might feel when they attend a
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The group decided that they wanted to share their stories regarding what inspired them to Al-Anon. Although initially I believed that this was for my benefit, as I listened to their stories I realized that it was a cathartic moment for the group. Several women read a page out of the Al-Anon book, Courage to Change, and then spoke about the impact that particular meditation had on them and the way they relate to their loved ones with addiction. A few members described heartbreaking scenarios in detail of their spouses and children’s addiction. A few members stated that they had been asked by their qualifier to attend Al-Anon in support of their path to recovery. A qualifier is the person in the relationship with the addiction (L. Rudduck, personal communication, August 14, 2015). Almost all of the members referred to the four C’s of Al-Anon; “I didn’t cause it, I can’t control it, I can’t cure it, but I can contribute to it” (anonymous members, personal communication, September 8, 2015). I was struck by the strength the members gained from those
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