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Analysis Of Neutral Tones By Thomas Hardy

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To experience feelings of delight and bliss individuals must also face difficult times to help them better recognize and appreciate their future happiness. Without experiencing sadness and heartbreak people would be significantly less appreciative of their future lovers and self. To fully feel what love is, you must have experienced loss because without feeling how painful the flip side of situation is there would be no way of feeling anything at all, which would drive everyone to be completely numb. Throughout the following poems “Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?”, “My mistress’ eyes are nothing like the sun”, “The Flea”, and Thomas Hardy’s “Neutral Tones” the authors all share their experiences about love, with a major emphasis on …show more content…

This poem from 1633 entitled “The Flea” by John Donne’s shines a light on a man trying to persuade a woman into being intimate with him, but the female struck him down through her strong sense of self. Although a main focus of this poem is the hardships of two people having different intentions in a relationship, the female also manages to show a significant amount of self love. Too often people try to focus on each others needs rather than their own, which can backfire and lead to someone being in an uncomfortable situation. But when she struck down the fly she also struck down his argument that they needed to become intimate hence showing a strong sense of self worth. Rather than giving into the man's wishes she sticks to her personal boundaries and morals which shows the readers a great example of self love and standing up for yourself.
In Shakespeare's poem “My mistress’ eyes are nothing like the sun” published in 1609, he successfully expresses a few more difficulties of love through a humorous tone. Women are too often held to high beauty standards which Shakespeare strikes down by helping the readers realize that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that nature should not be compared to women in the first place. By making multiple comparisons between his lover and nature Shakespeare focuses on being honest and having realistic standards for his

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