Analysis Of San Junipero In The Black Mirror

Janie's prayer is answered with her next husband, Jody Starks. He is the man who fills the voids of loneliness and love, and continues her development as a woman. When they first met, Janie was convinced that Jody believed she was a very special person because of the compliments he gave her. For two weeks, before they married, they talked and Janie believed that Jody "spoke for change and chance" (28). The problem Janie had with Jody was that he did not treat her as equal. He would not let her speak in front of people, teach her to play checkers, or participate in other events. Janie notices the problem early in the relationship and confronts Jody about it when she says "it jus' looks lak it keeps us in some way we ain't natural wid one 'nother. You'se always off talkin' and fixin' things, and Ah feels lak Ah'm jus' markin time. Hope it soon gits over" (43). Janie realizes that she cannot be open with Jody and that he is not the same man she ran off with to marry. Jody has many of his own interests, and none of them are concerned with Janie. "She found out that she had a host of thoughts she had never expressed to him ... She was saving up feelings for some man that she had never seen" (68). Jody only gave material goods to Janie. She knew she

Maturity is a huge part of growing up and in those two books that one or two of the characters did mature throughout the books. The characters have to find themselves throughout the books and by the end they all do. Both books have similar maturing stories but their are also some major differences. Jem was went from being a childish kid to a more mature teenager. In the beginning Jem would play in childish games with Scout to try and get Boo Radley to come out of his house.

Even before Joe’s death, Janie “was saving up feelings for some man she had never seen. She had an inside and an outside now and suddenly she knew not how to mix them.”(75) Joe’s influences controlled Janie to the point where she lost her independence and hope. She no longer knew how to adapt to the change brought upon her. When she finally settles and begins to gain back that independence, the outward existence of society came back into play. “Uh woman by herself is uh pitiful thing. Dey needs aid and assistance.”(90) Except this time Janie acted upon her own judgment and fell for someone out of the ordinary. Tea Cake was a refreshing change for Janie, despite the society’s disapproval. “Janie looked down on him and felt a self-crushing love. So her soul crawled out from its hiding place.”(128) This was what she had always dreamt of. When she was with Tea Cake, she no longer questioned inwardly, she simply rejected society’s opinions and acted upon her own desires.

From the beginning, Janie’s happiness is abundantly clear in her relationship with Tea Cake. Although she is now a woman in her forties, Janie acts very youthful and unrestricted with him. She wears “new dresses and...comb[s] her hair a different way nearly every day (111)”. Tea Cake allows for Janie to be herself, in stark contrast to misogynistic Joe who constrained her individuality daily. Janie reports that “Tea Cake love[s] me in blue, so Ah wears it (113)”.

Janie is married to two men, before she finds Tea Cake, that both suppress her individuality in their own ways. Janie's first husband, Logan Killicks, suppresses her by keeping her in a marriage that she can't fully, or at all, love the man she's married to. "Cause you told me Ah wuz gointer love him, and, and Ah don’t. Maybe if somebody was to tell me how, Ah could do it." Janie says she needs to be told how to feel about Logan in order for her to be able to love feel anything towards him at all. Janie is a mixture of the people around her because they're telling her to live and how to think. Janie can't bring herself to figure out how to do these things on her own so she ends up looking for the answers in the man she married, her grandmother, and her society. Joe Starks, Janie's second husband, keeps her from showing who she really wants to be by

Initially Janie was raised in a impecunious African American household by her grandmother. She was taught from a young age that marriage equals love and that women depend on men for financial security. Janie wanted a love “sweet…lak when you sit under a pear tree” (29) but instead receives Logan, a man who wants her to “chop and tote wood” and calls her “spoilt rotten.” (31) Janie was stuck to succumb to these expectations when she was with Logan. However, Janie’s second marriage begins with a personal choice that Janie makes to leave Logan and follow Jody, a man whose plan was to build “a town all outa colored folks” and become a leader in the new city. Just the fact that she left her first husband was a very bold move, but the profound point is that Janie chooses to get together with another man. Janie expresses her true feelings and voice by leaving Logan and telling him that he “ain’t done [her] no favor by marryin’ [her.]” This displays that Janie’s views on marital expectations have took a turn and she will no longer be put under this illusion of a perfect woman during this time period. However this newly acquired confidence that Janie had gained

Although her marriages end for different reasons, they all lack unconditional love. Janie’s first marriage was not even her choice; Janie’s grandmother married her off when she was young because she saw Janie kissing a boy named Johnnie Taylor. "Dat’s what makes me skeered. You don’t mean no harm. You don’t even know where harm is at. Ah’m ole now. Ah can’t be always guidin’ yo’ feet from harm and danger. Ah wants to see you married right away." (31). It is impossible to give and receive unconditional love in a forced marriage. “Some people could look at a mud puddle and see an ocean with ships.” (34). Janie tries to see the good in the person she is married to. She wants the marriages to work, but they never do because of her partner. Janie’s third marriage with TeaCake is good because she finally finds someone she truly loves, but not long after they are together TeaCake becomes abusive. “Janie saw her life like a great tree in leaf with the things suffered, things enjoyed, things done and undone. Dawn and doom was in the branches” (57). Janie’s true vision of love and marriage is revealed through a pear tree in the novel. The pear tree reveals Janie’s sexual identity and helps her come to terms with what she thinks is love. Janie sees the things she enjoys within the pear

Jody’s pride, materialism, and urge to dominant had turned him into a cold, bitter old man that was on his dying bed with kidney problems [Page 85]. This was the only time Janie had to tell him about the independence she had longed for during their marriage [Page 85]. She knows that Jody was a good husband in the aspects that he provided for her and had power. These were the things that Nanny Crawford had wanted for her. However, Janie the things she wanted which were love and independence in love. She also gained wisdom from her and Joe’s long time together. Janie did not have to leave Jody to get out of this marriage, because he died immediately after she told him all the problems she felt had been in their marriage.

When Nannie sees Janie kissing Johnny Taylor, she immediately breaks them up because she is trying to save Janie from making a bad decision. She says, “Janie, youse uh ‘oman, now, so… yeah, Janie, youse got yo’ womanhood on yuh… Ah wants to see you married right away” (12). Since Janie still has her womanhood, Nannie wants Janie to be married so her womanhood is not stripped away from her. Janie’s grandmother was raped around the age that Janie is right now and she does not want Janie to have the same fate. Nannie thinks that by marrying Janie off at a young age it will not only protect her from other men, but it will also allow her to live a hopeful and prosperous life. After an argument between Janie and

First, as mentioned, also she did have prestige with Jody, that came at a cost for her, as she was unable to connect and communicate with the townspeople, which in turns meant that she lacked friends, one key component in advancing. However, this no longer seems like a significant problem as she has Pheoby, a loyal friend that had obviously earned her trust as she discussing her life story with her. Nonetheless, while with the mayor, she lost the sense of her real self and from Jody’s perspective, she becomes a proper wife to a mayor. Accordingly, with Jody’s death, she is freed from her oppressed social life and carried on with life with the ambitions that she has. Additionally, and most importantly, she reflections upon her relationship with Tea Cakes. Unusually, her relationship with him was unlike all others she had previously because she enforces that in order for two people to have a truly loving bond, they must have mutual feelings along with civility between each other. Therefore, she realized what happened was ultimately fixed, as it was not something that Tea Cakes would do but due to the certain circumstances that were in place, it just happened like that. Therefore, she does experience that she truly was in love unlike the rest of the previous men, meaning her relationship with Tea Cakes was satisfactory. As a result, she feels like inspired by this particular relationship and feels safer than those preceding, as he was the only one to treat her how she should be treated. Accordingly, she makes amends and is at peace with him, allowing her to illuminate her path to self-success and accomplishment that is

their clothes had been torn away; till he hurled her to the floor …. doing things with their bodies to express the inexpressible; kissed her …. and they fell asleep in sweet exhaustion” (Hurston 137-138), that Tea Cake truly loved her more than anyone. This passage shows the deep connection between them, and how they expressed the love that could not be expressed through words, true love. They expressed their loyalty to each other by the expressions that their bodies created. In the culture that Janie lived in, they would express their deepest and truest feeling for someone through sex, so the actions of Tea Cake showed Janie that he loved her and only her. Even though she realized that he was loyal to her, she still had doubts, but it was not until Chapter 18 that she truly realized that she should not have any doubts. In Chapter 18, Tea Cake saves Janie from a rabid dog, proving to Janie of how much he loves her. “They fought and somehow he managed to bite Tea Cake….” (Hurston 166), this results in Janie apprehending the firm devotion that Tea Cake had towards Janie. As a result of it being a rabid dog, if he had gotten to Janie, the dog would have killed her, but because of Tea Cake’s courage and strong love for Janie, he saved

She departs in secret from Logan and marries a newfound companion named Jody Starks, who she initially believes is a companion better suited to help her celebrate her individual identity. Yet, as their marriage progresses, and Jody becomes mayor in the town they relocate to, Jody begins to exercise his newly acquired power on her and against her wishes, and she becomes a mere fixture to Jody and his aspirations of power and influence. Again, this commanding influence from outside culture hampers her attempts at finding her identity, and again she becomes unhappy, and after finally voicing her displeasure at Jody, he even exerts physical force on her and assaults her. After their marriage ends, and Jody perishes shortly thereafter, she begins to date a young man whom she meets named Tea Cake, and finds a strong attraction for him, and marries him. Here is the ultimate culmination of her search for her own identity – not only does she go against common cultural precedent by marrying a man twelve years younger than her, but by doing so, she finds a companion not strong enough to exert overbearing power on her, and Tea Cake allows her to celebrate her independence with him. Though their marriage does end, it comes about by Tea Cake tragically perishing, not by a decision by Janie to leave her mate as in the previous cases. Yet, even though Tea Cake is gone, she still feels free, and is able to celebrate her

The “closeted” framework that the film is surrounded by causes the audience to inquire why Yolanda and Mari choose not to be more public with their affection. The answer is a result of the

Even in her state of anger she cannot help but once again be the restrained and subdued one in their relationship. Despite all of the happiness she has found with Rochester she still cannot bring herself to stay in a relationship in which she sacrifices part of herself, because she doesn’t know how to reconcile her need feel like she belongs and is taken care of while at the same time remaining uncorrupted.

Janie surrenders to Nanny’s decision and agrees to marry Killicks, unrealistically hoping the power of love will