To begin with, in “Are we slaves to our online selves” of Jules Evans states “Growing up in today’s online world must be difficult, because the very adolescent experiment, every awkward mistake, is out there online, perhaps forever (503)”. I totally agree with the author, because today’s society is more concerned about becoming popular and famous rather than caring about the ones that surround them. Social media has become a big part of our generation’s lives, people now on days are more in their cellphones than with people, and it can be both harmful and disappointing. Social media has a negative effect, for example, kids/teenager are more expose to cyberbullying, effects on social skills and also compromise education.
Additionally, Prior to the digital age, children were limited to the interactions with friends and other children outside of school. Interaction was often limited by distance, weather, parent schedules, and even financial constraints. With social media, children are able to conduct social interactions
Today in our world, teenagers are constantly using the internet and sometimes it can get out of hand, but for the most part, teenagers use the internet to their benefit.With our growing society and our new inventions in technology associated with the internet, there are many pros and cons when it comes to having the internet around and I think that the pros outweigh the cons. “Chatting online with others helps young people build social skills,”(Source 2, Step 3) states how most parents think the internet and social media makes teenagers less social, when in reality, many teenagers learn several social skills through online chatting which helps them face to face. Although there are a handful of teenagers who use the internet to move away from social interactions, using the internet more often could help teenagers become more confident in being social. “Most of us learn the hard way to back up data, avoid clicking on mysterious links and save often. As kids explore on the computer, they are picking up
However it is quite obvious that the overuse of it can negatively impact a persons and even more so, a young child’s wellbeing. I highly believe that social media is stealing away the adventurous and educational childhood of past generations. It is being replaced with advanced technology and over-exposed websites which is speeding up the emotional as well as the physical growth of today’s generation. The excessive amount of time that children spend on social media and technology on average have very negative impacts on their well being such
Impact on social-emotional development: Media has a profound impact on social-emotional development of children. Face-to-face interaction among children may suffer due to increased online interaction,
Lewis, Renee. (2014 August 22). Digital Media erodes Social skills in Children. AljazeeraAmerica. Retrieved from http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/8/22/digital-social-skills.html
This could negatively affect the children, because this would make it harder for parents to teach their kids manners and/or talk to them about the process of growing up. In "What Adolescents Miss Growing Up in Cyberspace," Brent Staples argues that children that have easy access to internet connection have a difficult time maturing. He points out that people who often use electronic devices have a hard time socializing in person: "teenagers nowadays are both more connected to the world at large than ever, and more cut off from the social encounters that have historically prepared young people for-the move-into adulthood." Having internet connection allows children to gain information they do not need to know (such as sex, drugs, prison, family problems, and etc.) So when their parents try to educate their children about the process of growing up, the child feels like they know everything their parent is going to say because they have already gained some information about the subject on social
The internet can be used for socializing with people in the article "Social media as a Community" it says that" An average user of a social networking site has more close ties and was half as likely to be isolated as the average American."Social media makes you have more friends than people who don't use social media. Social media users also know people from a greater variety of backgrounds.
She really tries to bring logic to the audience as she argues her point. ?This increase of technological advances has reduced the need for face-to-face interaction. Within seconds, you can instant message or face-time a friend. Sure, it allows us to stay connected more easily, but it also takes away from the "realness" of social interaction? (Grainger, 2012, para 9). Focusing on the impact of social media is indeed a step towards convincing parents. ?Social connections are a central feature of the normative developmental trajectory of adolescence to adulthood? (Allen, Ryan, Gray, McInerney & Waters, 2014, p. 19). This confirms some of Grainger?s arguments, because children are lacking a lot of social skills these days. While being online can be a way for children to open up about themselves, it does not mean they will do so in a face to face environment. Grainger could have added support for her argument here instead of relying on the possible idea that her audience will automatically accept her
Are you a victim of cyberbullying on the internet, or a victim of all the positive impact that social media can offer ? In the articles, “Student examines negative effects of social media on teens” by Aurelie Krakowsky, and the article, ¨the upside of selfies: social media isn't all bad for kids” by Kelly Wallace (CNN), the authors argue about how social media can be bad for kids but can also be very useful at some times. Over all social media can harmful in many ways; however there are more benefits that truly exceed them.
Social media plays a big part in why many schools have not jumped on the technology train. “Often, even when kids are together, they are interacting with their phones instead of with each other.” This seems like a disadvantage, that kids will lose the ability to socially interact with one another. It could be a matter, but not if you keep their internet access at school limited. In the article from the Washington post, it seems like there are certain times when it is okay to be on social media and when it isn't. “And a majority of young
Is social media ruining children’s lives? Without the internet, I would be healthier and more active. I can’t imagine life without the internet however if we didn’t have the internet we would be outside more and we wouldn’t even think about phones because they wouldn’t be as fun as they are now. I would be upset if I got my phone taken away for a year, but that would force me to be more active. I would go outside more and be more adventurous. I would be healthier and happier and the world would be more social, face to face.
In the CNN article, Go offline for National day of Unplugging, supports my claim “electronics devices has grown in recent years as it's become increasingly difficult to step away on activities from the online world” (Kelly). One day technology might become everyone downfall of what the real world use to be, remember as child to make a friend all you have to do is bat a smile and introduce yourself in a calm and righteous way then everything would usually fall in place and that’s when interpersonal skills would come play the yes-or no game how to make and keep a friend for a lifetime (until high-school appears), but now children have skip the steps and head-clash for social media at an early age to develop a friendships. It becomes a stigma to witness how common functions are being
Aside from cognitive skills decreasing, social development is also at risk. The average teenager spends up to 8 hours on the computer, which is a staggering 56 hours a week (Steven Reinberg). With all the time spent surfing the web or playing computer games, and the remaining amount of time spent sleeping or at school, it conflicts with a student’s ability to socialize. Although there are many networking sites such as facebook, myspace, and online chat rooms an individual can communicate through, it is not the same as face-to-face. Those who spend so much time on the internet begin to withdraw from regular society, becoming isolated because they lose the ability to social interact.
Young adults’ reliance on the internet has developed into an addiction, resulting in teenagers to feel isolated and disconnected from their peers. In an experiment conducted in “The Effect of Social Network Sites on Adolescents’ Social and Academic Development: Current Theories and Controversies” June Ahn “found that longer use of the Internet was related to increased depression, loneliness, and smaller social circles.” The younger generation lacks genuine socialization because of the extensive amount of time teenagers spend isolated in their own virtual world. The lack of physical interaction has taken a toll on youths’ ability to develop social skills and friendships. With a lack of these social skills, today’s youth will experience trouble socializing, affecting their ability to create and maintain friendships. Furthermore, in Keith Hampton’s article “Is Technology Making People Less Sociable?” he reveals today’s youth, “spend so much time maintaining superficial connections online