Argumentative Essay On Domestic Violence Shelters

"As soon as we moved into this house, you think you can have your way. You are my wife and I tell you what you can do and what you can't do." This kind of statement is typical of what a battered woman knows to be the only truth in her household. Domestic violence is greatly on the rise and is one of the leading causes of homelessness among women in today's society.

Confidentiality and safety are only the first step in the process that these types of programs use to help survivors of domestic violence begin their recovery process. Psychiatric counseling, a victim advocate, and social worker are required as well as a variety of classes focused on helping the victim make a transition into a life that is safe and empowered. Physical needs of the victim are addressed with donations from Salvation Army as well as many other sources led by people who simply want to help. Clothes, makeup, toiletries, books, and food are provided while the victim follows the outlined plan for recovery and shows a desire to rebuild their life.

Domestic abuse has touched the lives of most people, whether the victim was themselves, a family member, or a friend. They’ve seen it happen to countless women and men too. It’s incredibly important to start education of domestic abuse awareness early, because the effects of abuse go far deeper into the lives of survivors than is acknowledged, and the effects can be present for years after the abuse stops. Even teenagers -- still literal children -- are at risk for this new epidemic.

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It is believed that the VAWA is gender neutral and provides a number of shelters for victims of domestic abuse. However in some cities there are not many shelters for male victims and they are usually not accepted in women’s shelters. Even though there are programs for male victims provided by the VAWA, women are the main focus of the policy.

To work in the human services field, it is imperative that you can see and understand your own bias and personal prejudices. In my work as a Case Manager working with the homeless population, it is fairly common for me to come across women, and occasionally men, who have been victims of domestic violence. Often times when we cross paths, they are actively fleeing from it. One of my struggles as a case manager has been to support and protect these women while helping them to find self reliance and independence. Occasionally I find myself feeling frustrated by behaviors and thought processing of my clients that I perceive as being weak and subservient. For me, I believe this intolerance comes from my mother, who in her own right is a strong independent woman, but still found herself faced with domestic violence in her marriage. My mother’s story is a rare one, the abuse happened, she reported it to the police, and after a brief separation, my parents were able to work on their marriage through therapy sessions with a counselor. Because of my brief history with domestic violence and the bias I have caught myself feeling towards these

Battered women and abused children become dependent on these residential setting because they see it as a place of comfort. They may encounter issues but due to their situation they try to contend and manage the situation. Four care issues applicable to them are:

Currently, the organization does not have a policy that screen for substance abuse on the women that reside at the shelter(s). Women Against Abuse (WAA) was designed to provide temporary shelter and safe havens for women and children who are suffering from domestic violence. The members of Women Against Abuse (WAA) responded to the calls from the hotline and expressed their need to provide women and their children with a refuge from domestic violence. They established their shelters by renting out buildings throughout the City of Philadelphia. It was formed to the respond to the needs of women in abusive relationships (Women Against Abuse,

In beginning my revision process, I started by staring at my submitted essay over and over. First thought, I should have changed the title to something along the lines of, “Domestic Violence, is there Treatment?” Second thought, Wow!! What a difference I am from the person who first began this course. I took a look back over my previous submitted writing assignments and could see my writing abilities has drastically improved, As I reviewed and reflected on the submitted essay “Domestic Violence and Treatment”, I believe, I did a complete and thorough job in delivering my subject. As I previously stated, I credit you, Mr. Perkins and this course for my improvements. I have always struggled to put my thoughts on paper in a manner that is coherent. I now feel that my ability to write and express my ideas, thoughts and knowledge have grown stronger.

At one point, Interviewee 3 was asked how she manages to live without complete fear when there are more homeless men than women. She stated that because she is a woman, it is easier to find shelters or resources, in which she spends the majority of her time. According to our textbook, shelters are typically the only safety net for some women, especially those who have been the victims of abuse and violence (Bruhn, 2011).

While these are some of the larger things that the shelter does they are always keeping their cabinets full of food and clothes to help the clients feel at home. To stay the client must be actively fleeing the home, they can not have any battery charges, and the shelter prefers them to be in county. This criterion to stay is important to the shelter for various reasons. The client must be actively fleeing because if they were not they could have several people try to stay because of something that happened long ago. The client must not have any battery charges because, there are people who stay their who have been severely abused and having someone stay who has been known to be violent is a chance the shelter could not take. The shelter also prefers the client to be an in-county resident because the shelter is so small they do not have enough room to shelter people outside of the

Living in fear is something no one should experience, many women have dealt with this for a very long time. An abusive relationship can lead to various outcomes, from physical to mental damage. There are many opportunities created for people living in those conditions to speak up. A residential center is a place to help women who have been a part of an abusive environment. This research report briefly outlines the basics of a residential centers for abused women, it focuses on key concepts such as the facilities provided for the individuals, what causes a person to get into the shelter, the process of change and acceptance for those who have been through traumatic experiences and many more. The subject of a residential center (for abused women) has been seen as a strong educating factor for society, not everyone is aware of abusive relationships and how to stop them. This report does not just address basic facts, but it provides detailed information on methods in helping those who have been a part of a domestic relationship. It also shares the basic outline and features of many institutions and facilities, provided for those who need assistance. Overall this report gathers a large amount of knowledge regarding the subject of residential centers (for abused women).

There are many different types of domestic violence. Physical abuse is the most obvious form, but this is not to say that outsiders always recognize it. Generally, physical violence causes bodily harm, using a variety of methods. Slapping, pushing, throwing, hitting, punching, and strangling are only a few methods. An object or weapon may or may not be used. There is not always physical evidence of physical abuse such as bruising, bleeding, scratches, bumps, etc., therefore, absence of physical marks does not necessarily mean physical abuse had not occurred. Physical abuse sometimes escalates to murder (Morris and Biehl 7, Haley 14-17).

Domestic violence is not a label that can be boxed and defined. No, it is emotions of pain, fear, shock, confusion, and most surprising, love. It is difficult for many to comprehend if not brought up within a violent home; the true, passionate emotions that fall as a burden upon the victims, who often stay quiet. What brings the traumatic pain to domestic violence is that a person who is supposed to cherish and love another, ends up creating fear and panic when even mentioned. Domestic violence, which is indeed a form of abuse, is an issue that needs to be handled with delicate, yet able coherence. Within the society of America, the fight against domestic violence needs to be accepted instead of ignored. In doing so, there are many questions

According to the Family and Youth Services Bureau, in one day, 31,500 women and children flee an abusive relationship for shelter or transitional housing. It also says that women who were experiencing food and housing insecurities (like those in a shelter) are more likely to be in an abusive relationship (Domestic Violence,” 2016) thus keeping the cycle going.