Essay on Arranged Marriages

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What comes to mind when you hear the words arranged marriage? I am sure a happy, respectful, loving relationship was not what popped into your mind. Arrange marriages are a complex subject, and the concept is perceived as a human rights issue where individuals loose the right to freedom of choice. In saying that, my initial opinion of an arranged marriage was not held in high regard. However, after being introduced to someone who is in the process of an arranged marriage; and conducting my own research; my view changed. Hence I have much regret about my naivety on the concept. This type of marriage, known as a culturally specific decision (Seth, 2008), has been confused with a forced marriage. In summary, researchers have confirmed that …show more content…
Unfortunately, this occurs only in fairy tales. To follow on, Seth (2009) states “one of the reasons most people know very little about arrange marriages for the reason it is a topic that has been negatively represented (or, at best, ignored) by the media” (p. 7). In saying that, when was the last time you can recall reading or hearing about two adults, including their families, unifying by choice in the efforts of financial and economic assistance? I personally can not and this thought makes me rather sceptical of the media. It is very likely the mass media has done their research and covers negative stories, for example forced marriages, for the purpose to increase profit (Van Krieken et al., (2009).
Primarily, I had a lot of misunderstanding and had formed stereotypes towards arrange marriages, I knew so little. The notion of an arrange marriage brought to mind the characteristics of a forced marriage. The line between these two is at times blurry however freedom of choice is what separates them (Trapp, 2009). Seth (2009) gives a definition to help understand the concept; “an arranged marriage can be defined as a marriage organised by a third party and based on considerations other than love, intimacy, and physical or sexual attraction” (p. 7). Seth (2009) further explains the notion by stating “the idea behind arranged marriages is
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