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Attachment Anxiety: A Case Study

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Coy, Green, and Davis (2011) examine the link of attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance. The effects of the attachment style whether being avoidant or anxious was measured and examined in a laboratory with a sample of 143 participants and of the 143, 60 were married couples. The presence of a romantic partner played a significant role in this research. Researchers came up with 4 different hypotheses. The first hypothesis predicted that with a participant who had a partner with anxiety, if the participant interacted alone their presence of anxiety is high they would explore for less time and report less positive affect versus to participants low in anxiety. Hypothesis two, predicted that, when exploring with the participant whose partner …show more content…

At a young age, I had an inconsistent relationship with my biological mother, at times she was nurturing and attuned and at other times she was emotionally unavailable, and at times even insensitive to my emotions. It later caused me to be confused, it was going back and forth in the state of being dependent/attached, when she decided to be nurturing and then being angry at the rejection I was receiving from her. Due to the unreliable and inconsistent attitudes I was receiving from my mother, I became very self-critical and insecure. I began to seek approval from outsiders (romantic partners/relationships). It caused me to have unbalanced feelings towards myself as my mother was giving me unbalanced feelings. I began looking for my worth in other things such as partners and even through intimacy. These were ways for me to get reassurance due to my lack of self-esteem. At times my relationship with my mother caused me to avoid any other relationship. It made me question everyone’s role in my life and when I found myself getting too close to someone it would scare me and the thought of rejection would reoccur and I slowly begin to avoid them. Although I have grown from this experience, I still find myself wanting to remain emotionally independent and try to keep myself from ending up with a romantic partner, if I ever seek interest in someone I keep my distance and

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