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Atticus Parenting Analysis

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Scouts father is a man of strong virtues and morals. He is high in integrity and as the only parent in the Finch household, he is a main influencer in both Scout and Jems life. A hands on father, Atticus is very open and involved in his children’s lives. The parenting style that Atticus uses is very instrumental in how Scout’s personality and view of the world develops. Atticus uses disclosure, congruency, and empathetic reflection in his parenting approach. These three concepts used by Atticus are keys concepts to Carl Rogers’ person-centered therapy. Each of these concepts are combined in many ways that create a parenting (or therapy) style that emphasizes personal responsibility and allows for personal growth within the child (or …show more content…

In these scenes, Scout is visibly upset, but becomes calmer and less troubled through the conversation. These conversations consist of Atticus sharing his thoughts and feelings about Scout fighting. In turn, he allows her to share her feelings on why she was upset. Throughout this, Atticus partakes in empathetic reflection, wherein he is honest about his feelings while also being aware of Scout’s own feelings and letting her know that he understands. This use of disclosure and congruency helps Scout towards becoming a fully functioning or self-actualized person, one who is fully accepting of themselves (Burger, 2015). There are some ways, however, where Atticus is inconsistent in following what Rogers believes is best. For example, Atticus offers solutions to Scouts problems; while this works out well for both Scout and Atticus, Rogers would be more likely to allow Scout to offer solutions to the disagreements she is having. Atticus gives a solution that reflect his point of view, and while he is also empathetic towards Scouts feelings, he is also giving conditional positive regard. Scout is praised for going along with Atticus’ beliefs system and Scout is aware of this. This conditional positive regard is opposite of what Carl Rogers believes in being helpful, as he is an advocate of unconditional positive regard. Nevertheless, Atticus’ use of conditional positive regard is definitely influential in how Scout’s personality develops (Burger, 2015). The fact that

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