Ayano Aishi Effect

Love is one of the most influential entities on Earth. Love convinces people to perform many tasks they otherwise would not have even considered performing. Some people yearn for love so deeply that love can turn people into inhumane, bitter, creatures with no mercy or compassion toward others. Other people may think that the feeling of love will last for a while and then dissipate over the time the couple spends together until the relationship becomes dull and unhealthy. These toxic relationships can be found everywhere and can greatly lower the quality of one’s life; by introducing poor decisions and hatred into their life.

Love affects what people choose to do weather it is right or wrong. “You’re going to have to make a choose, the girl said carl or us ” (Carver 785). In this example from “Everything Stuck to Him”the boy is faced with his family

Love is either a fickle crime or an ever-changing satisfaction of desire. For some, it can ruin even the brightest minds, while for others, there is never doubt that it is worth living for. Children grow up with fairy tales and anecdotes of wild love stories, enthusiastic over the prospect of love. Yet has anyone considered the negatives of those dreams?

Romanticized Domestic Violence, and all forms of Dating Violence are some very crucial, and critical commodities that unfortunately plague our societies today. According to Timmons, “…dating behaviors and dating violence are entrenched in the various media that surround our daily lives…” (Timmons, 1). Victims’ include countless Men, Women, and LGBTQ individuals, and can come/be seen in many forms. For example, according to Collins & Carmody (the authors of the Deadly Love article) romanticized domestic violence can come in the forms of Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Financial, and Psychological abuse. They also state reasons for this violence. Those reasons include (and as briefly stated), the varying content of different media types such as,

Love can do many things. It can be both harmful and beneficial. Love can scar, and love can inspire. Love can torment, and love can encourage. Love can irritate, and love can comfort. The unseen force of love can go even further than that, though. Love can

I believe that love is a natural sentiment that is experienced differently by each individual. For instance, the love for our parents will vary from the love for our life-partners. Just because one form of love may (at times) overshadow the other, does not mean that the end result will be the nonexistence of either one. In the play, Antigone by Sophocles, the character Haimon impersonates a major role at delivering this very message throughout the play and also promotes the classic love story plot of Romeo and Juliet, in the sense that both the families allow hatred to control their lives and lovers kill themselves.

Love is said to be one of the most desired things in life. People long for it, search for it, and crave it. It can come in the form of partners, friends, or just simply family. To some, love is something of a necessity in life, where some would rather turn a cold shoulder to it. Love can be the mixture of passion, need, lust, loyalty, and blood. Love can be extraordinary and breathtaking. Love being held so high can also be dangerous. Love can drive people to numerous mad things with it dangerously so full of craze and passion.

Those women merely view the positive aspects where they may feel happy and suppress the negative portions of the relationship. As the article Domestic Violence and Abuse: Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships explains, “Your abuser’s apologies and loving gestures in between the episodes of abuse can make it difficult to leave” (Smith and Segal). Women observe that the love they receive outweighs the abuse, and thus, they remain in the relationship. This traps women into a cycle of love and then abuse, unable to release themselves.

According to The National Domestic Violence Hotline, the abused stay in domestic relationships due to fear, embarrassment, low self-esteem, love, and believing that the abuse is normal. For me, these are all true.

Everyone has a fear of something in their life. Fear causes a person to be afraid and difficult to overcome that fear. One most conclusive factor women go back to the abuser because they are afraid and fear what will happen if they leave. In other words, due to the abuser having so much control over the relationship it tends to cause threats, violence, or even kill women if they even think about leaving. An abuser might threaten to cause hideous rumors to their partner reputation. Women need to have a safe feeling in their life and for the safety of themselves and family an abuser purposely make their partner fear that it’s their only choice to stay in the abusive relationship. The most violence injuries usually happen when women actually left

A good question but hard to explain. Women who are generally in an abusive relationship stay because they are afraid of what their partner might do if they leave. Women are 6 times more likely to be killed by an ex- partner than by a current partner. Scary truth is that many abusers like to apologize or a sure their partner that it was a onetime mistake to make them stay more and get so deep involved in the relationship they don’t know how to escape. There are so many resources to help you with those situation like friends, family, police, doctors, therapist and so forth, but not many people know this but women are constantly getting threaten that if they tell what is going on to them they will kill them or kill anyone they love dearly. Every 6 days a woman is killed by her inmate partner. This kind of abuse not only lower your self-esteem but it also traumatizes you for future relationship where you continue to accept getting abuse because you are so use to It or the fact that you can’t love someone again or trust them to be with them. A lot comes to mind when it you want to leave the relationship, it isn’t as easy as it seems. Many times women are able to leave or tell someone about what they are experiencing which is very strong and amazing but we still have those huge percent that suffer for the rest of their lives and have their lives taken away by their

Every year in the United States, One in four women are victims of the domestic violence; however, this is only based on what has been reported to the department of justice (Stahly 2008). While men are also victims of domestic violence, women are more often the victims. Moreover, 90% of domestic violence is male initiated. In severe cases domestic violence ends with victims being murdered. More specifically, domestic violence resulted in 2,340 deaths in the United States in 2007, and 70% of those killed were females (CDC 2012). Many people think that victims have the option of leaving and many people blame victims for putting up with the abuse; what many people don 't know is, victims of domestic violence have many reasons preventing them from leaving their abusers, these reasons include, isolation, having children bounding them with the abuser and lack of financial support. "It 's never pretty when you leave an abusive and controlling relationship. The warden always protests when a prison gets shut down," says Dr. Steve Maraboli (qtd from web). Whether a victim stays or leaves their abuser, the outcomes of both situations are not always as easy as many people predict. In some situations, the outcomes of leaving may be very dangerous for both the victim and her children.

There a three example of love in the series, Lily’s, Harry Potter and his friends’, and the Death Eaters. When Harry Potter was only a year old, Voldemort came to his house and killed Harry’s parents. Voldemort didn’t need to kill Harry’s parents but he did anyway because he is an evil person.  All he wanted was to kill the child before the he even had a chance to kill him. But Voldemort didn’t understand the power of love. He didn’t understand that a mother’s love is the strongest love there is.  When Voldemort came to house to kill Harry he wasn’t able to because his Mom had just given her life in exchange for Harry’s. “Not Harry, please no, take me, kill me instead… Not Harry! Please… have mercy”. It was then that Voldemort killed her. But Harry wasn’t able to be killed because her death had put a protective charm around

Some women take the position that “hope springs eternal” for people in love and they shouldn’t be held accountable for the abusive spousal choices they make. That is precisely the kind of romantic notion that men and women cling to and use to seduce them into staying in relationships in which there is abundant evidence that they should leave. Often friends and parents try to intervene but when “hope springs eternal” obvious dangers are overlooked, denied and women tell themselves something like, “If I just love him enough, he’ll change.” Battered men usually say exactly the same things. “What is needed in situations of verbal and physical abuse and danger is not romantic fantasy but a critical and self-protective assessment of the facts followed by a decision based on those facts”(Walker 17).

William Shakespeare once said “ Love is merely a madness”. Here, Shakespeare is suggesting that love is an experience that simply cause chaos. When people experience love it may drive them crazy not knowing what they have done because they loved the person so much that they lost their consciousness. I agree with the quote and there are many works of literature that prove that the lens is true, some of these works of literature are The Crucible by Arthur Miller and Othello by William Shakespeare.