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Being A Twin Essay

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I can only recall one time in my life where I was truly alone. It was a moment of peace and quiet; the calm before the storm. It only lasted for ten minutes. After those ten meager minutes, my first ten minutes, the silence was interrupted. An intruder weaseled his way next to me. That intruder would come to be known as my twin brother. Our twin status became a label that has persisted through seventeen years and is often met with an expression of disbelief or apparent confusion. Fraternal twins are not uncommon, yet people still react as if they have seen a unicorn, or quite frankly, two. We constantly get poked and asked if the other feels it, and are tested to see if we can read each other’s minds. For the record, I don’t feel his pain, but occasional twin telepathy has definitely happened. Regardless, I don’t feel special for being “just a twin”, because this has always been my life. I have been and always will be a fraternal twin. Up until now, we have used this fact to our advantage. His outgoing personality has always …show more content…

There will come a day when we part ways and I will be left to fend for myself. When that day comes, I may not have the acutely developed foundational skills to thrive. To some extent, having a twin has allowed to ride piggy-back instead of growing as a individual. Specifically, I lack poise in what may be considered stressful situations. For example, public speaking has not been one of my strong suits. Like with many people, my throat is shaky and my heart races before I have a chance to open my mouth. When I do speak, I feel as if I am stumbling over the words. Similarly, after I leave an audition in the theater department, I overthink minor details and jump to erroneous conclusions. I am quick to lose my composure in these moments where I feel as though I am losing control. Before I can learn to remain elegant under pressure, I must learn to think independently and operate under my own

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