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Bethany Van Delft Down Syndrome Essay

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As a child, Down syndrome was a part of my everyday life. I was watched after every day for the first ten years of my life by a women who was also looking after her sister who had Down syndrome. To me it was nothing unusual. It wasn’t until about eighth grade that I realized that to other people it wasn’t normal, it had a negative connotation. Growing up around a person who has Down syndrome made me see things differently than others. Once I realized not everyone else’s perspectives were the same as mine I became really aware of how others treated and reacted to people with Down syndrome. Its years later and I came across a story told by a women named Bethany Van Delft about Down syndrome. Bethany Van Delft is a comedian from Boston who excelled in her profession. She became a regular performer and soon after a producer for the Women in Comedy Festival and The Boston Comedy Festival. Van Delft has now performed on a more …show more content…

Van Delft had started to find her daughter as just a normal child, so when she heard some remarks from other people about children with Down syndrome she was heartbroken. She heard remarks such as, “But don’t you want her to be with her own kind?” Van Delft couldn’t believe what she had heard. She believed that all other children were her kind. From that point on Van Delft was reluctant to take her daughter places or even to discuss her problems. People only seemed to see the disorder and not the carefree child that Lulu was. So she was a little reluctant to take Lulu on a vacation with friends that didn’t even have child. To her surprise, one women was every understanding and didn’t place a negative connotation on Down syndrome. She was able to confine in one friend. Talking to her friend made her realize that despite her and her husband things were going to turn out the way they were supposed to. All she could give was understanding and

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