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Biological And Social Norms Of Gender Roles

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Introduction
In general, social psychology looks at how people think about one another, but as well as how they influence and relate to each other (Myers, 2014, pg. 554). Gender plays a fascinating role within our social settings. Biological sex defines gender, however biology and social characteristics help define a male and a female (Myers, 2014, pg.154). Gender roles are behaviours that a culture would typically expect from both male and females (Myers, 2014, pg.159). Our expectations for things like the parent that stays home with the children, shopping, driving, and who pays for dinner on a date come from these gender roles. Gender roles bring up questions around biology versus our cultural surroundings and how gender roles become developed …show more content…

This perfection can be masked by our need to conform to social norms of gender roles within our culture. It also teaches the importance of the relationship between a mother and a daughter and how that relationship really helps us characterise our morals. Mama and Birdee shared many moments of connection, moments that Birdee had been searching for her entire life. Mama validates her love for Birdee by saying “Mothers love their daughters, even if they show it poorly” (Whitaker et al., 1998). Mama does not always express her feelings in a traditional sense, but utilizes teaching moments to let Birdee know how she really feels. Their strained relationship was destined for this pivotal moment and it really helped Birdee mend one part of her life and realizes the importance of a mothers …show more content…

Cognitive dissonance is becoming aware of the fact that our attitudes and actions are not coinciding and therefore tension is felt (Myers, 2014, pg.558). Birdee struggles with this at the very beginning of the movie, and often reflects back on the tension she felt when she was still with Bill. This tension follows her until she is able to actually verbalize it and is made clear when describing her loss of self. This moment happens in the bathroom when Birdee says this to her Mama, “I was audacious Mama I was…the harder I tried to be what he wanted me to be, the less I saw myself in his eyes…One day I looked and I was gone” (Whitaker et al., 1998). Her attitude did not match her actions and often did not match her morals which she discovers this along with the loss of herself

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