Birth Order And Personality Development

According to Alfred Adler, the birth order of the children in a family will largely affect how they age and the personalities which they will form. First borns enter the family as the only child. They revel in the love and full attention from their parents, that is, until the second baby comes along. Suddenly, first borns are dethroned and lose the undivided attention they are used to receiving. As a result, they tend to develop a strong sense of responsibility and protectiveness over their siblings at an early age, which often leads to them becoming authoritative adults. Moreover, when there are multiple children in the family, parents will set high

Sibling rivalry is not the only issue that was triggered by birth order, child’s personality and his or her intelligence is also involved. Some researchers say that first-borns are smarter because they are pressured to set-up the boundary for the younger siblings. They are more enthusiastic in their education for them to be role models of their other siblings. As for the younger ones, life may be or may not be easy, depending on how they will view it. They may view it positively by keeping in mind that since their older sibling get through it, they also can. Otherwise,

They tend to “branch off” from the oldest sibling’s traits, in an attempt to be recognized for their own characteristics and not be compared to their older sibling (“Birth Order”). Because the oldest sibling usually is very scholarly and conscientious, the middle child often becomes somewhat lazy and has less drive. They are stuck in the middle of older and younger siblings, and often end up being the mediator or the compromiser (Lemain). Because of this, they grow up to have great people skills in varying groups. Middle kids sometimes struggle with jealousy and self-esteem because they were given less attention growing up compared to the oldest and youngest children (Collins). Middle kids can be somewhat competitive because they always have needed to compete with siblings for goods and attention. Sometimes, however, they are more laid back than their siblings. This depends on the child’s own circumstances (“Birth Order”). Overall, middle children are independent, social, and diplomatic

Though, birth order illuminates a majority of our personality traits and decisions such as, career and romantic relationships. Parents get wrapped up in the ‘firstborn haze’ and overlook how much pressure they put on older siblings. By creating a pressure to be the best and ‘in control’ the older sibling takes on the leadership role and often becomes more aligned with doing better in school than younger siblings. Determination and intelligence correspond with higher level of career, and that is just what the older sibling strives for. In fact, “100% of astronauts who’ve gone into space were either eldest children or eldest sons” (State). Relationships work better if partners differ from each other and aren’t in the same birth order. The competition can be detrimental and problematic. Alfred Adler’s birth order theory provides us with useful information to reflect our decisions and explain how you think about things. By becoming aware of it we can become more familiar with ourselves and get out of the all too familiar comfort

Though there are specific temperaments and personality traits commonly found in each birthplace, it does not signify that each characteristic perfectly fits a single child or adult in that order. Many variables interfere with the general traits found in each birthplace and can easily change the personalities of that specific order. A complete change in birth order characteristics can also result from these specific interferences. Both circumstances in the outside and inside world take effect and are called the variables of birth order. These variables are very important to keep in mind while looking at this subject. Dr. Kevin Leman, an internationally renowned psychologist, and New York Times Bestselling Author, lists some of the major variables found in many children and adults in his book The Birth Order Book. The spacing of up to five years or more, gender, physical and mental disabilities or difference, deaths in the family, and also spacing will interfere and alter the personality traits found in each birth placement. This list of variables can continue on, but looking at these can provide insight to those dealing with doubts towards their specific birth order or where they may fit

Something I learned about birth order is that many people have different personality because of birth order. Discussing with my group we agree that the first born child is the most responsible . In my group no one was the first born child but we do have our big brother/sister and we all agree that they are responsible and their personality is more matured. On the other hand , some of us didn't agree about the middle child of how they are rebellious and are the black sheep of the family ;but we do agree that the middle child wants attention and whatever to get that little attention from their parents. Also, they are creative to do things as projects and many more. I do rely to this because I'm the middle child and I dislike it because

Adler was one of the first theorists to suggest that birth order plays a part in personality traits. These character traits develop from development issues; birth order being one of them. The first born or the oldest child becomes “dethroned” when another sibling is born. The first born have a strong need to regain approval from adults and they have a need to be right. The second oldest tends to be the exact opposite of the first born. They tend to be competitive and aggressive, possibly because of “avis complex” (always trying to overcome the first born). The middle child tends to believe that life is unfair because they do not receive the benefits of being the oldest or the youngest. They are good listeners and problems solvers. The youngest child is often babied. They tend to receive the most attention. This results in them being socially aware. Lastly, the only child has a lot in common with the first born. They have a strong awareness of right and wrong. They also prefer small groups and alone

For almost half a century, birth order has been viewed as key in determining individual personality traits. Psychologists such as Alton Adler and Francis Galton spearheaded research on this topic, and their conclusions are cited as references for those who support the idea. There recently have been studies conducted that strive to overturn this theory by showing how different variables can affect the results of our development. (Beck) There are those who stand by early research and support distinct groups of characteristics only being exhibited by people sharing a certain birth order. There are others; however, who oppose this idea and instead favor growth as an individual experience not limited by expectations. With two very different approaches to this matter, the question remains,

In the first essay scientists tell of how they think birth order can affect the way siblings act. They say that the firstborn child will take more of a leadership role and follow orders to achieve goals (L 31). They tell of how the middle child is the easy to ignore child and how that child will develop skills to gain more attention (L 38). The scientists also told of how the youngest child would be the one to be pampered by the parents and other siblings. They also said that the child would develop social skills for being able to get other people to do things for them (L 36-37).

Does being the eldest child make people highly intellectual, people pleasing, perfectionists? Are the middle children always impatiently competing for parental attention by rebelling against the rules? Are all last-born children the spoiled, selfish, favorites? Birth order, a highly controversial topic, is defined as the dynamics of an individual’s place in the family compared to that of their siblings. Birth order has been in a fiery discussion for over one hundred years; some say it’s the very foundation of each one of our personalities, while others claim that the margin of error is just too wide for these coincidental patterns to bear any meaning.

He believed that even though siblings were raised in the similar environment, that because of their birth order they received different parenting styles which shaped their personality in distinctly different ways (121). Although, the study by Nyman did not mention the reasons behind the distinct traits, his study did acknowledge, and seemingly find, that individuals in different birth orders did have distinctive personality traits. Alder’s theory for the first born states that this child will have more leadership traits such as teaching younger siblings (123). He also said that they are more concerned with having authority (123). This matches up to the results of the study because the male eldest born was seen to have a dominant aggressive trait which could be paired up with seeking authority and leadership. Also the eldest female in the study was seen as a nurturer which would go perfectly with leadership and teaching. Adler believed that the second born are competitive and ambitious (123). The study did not have the element to choose second born but they did have middle child which is equivalent to Alder’s theory of the second born. The Middle child male child for the study was given the traits of ambitious/achiever and the female middle child was given outgoing and friendly (58). Both traits given to the middle birth order line up perfectly with the ambitious personality that Adler suggested for the second born. The youngest child, according to Adler are typically over achievers (124). However the reverse can be true if the youngest child is too pampered and they can become dependent on others (124). The results for the study for the youngest child in the birth order did not seem to match up as well as the others. The results for these were that the male was outgoing and friendly and the youngest female is caring and

Effects of birth order and personality is probably something that all siblings would like to know. Things this kinda depends on the environment you and your brother/ sister grew up in because you and your brother/ sister could have experienced two different things which could cause a bigger gap in between you and your brother/ sister’s personality. Speaking from a stereo typical point of view the first born would be leader like . The youngest would be babied so they more of a free spirit. The middle child is usually the peacekeepers. I have a brother and a sister and we don’t really talk to each other unless we see each other over the summer nor do we really don’t act too much alike when we see each other. The way I was planning on experimenting

Research revolving around the effect of birth order on personality is simple to find, given the multitude of papers on the subject. Despite this birth order literature is considered ambiguous and teaming with conflict. Due to the ease of access to these controversial birth order theories, first time, second time, third time, etc. parents can be influenced by these theories, and thus influence their children. Rarely is there a study that researches the effect of these birth order beliefs on children and their progression into adulthood. Nicholas Herrera, R. Zajonc, Grayzyna Wieczorkowska, and Bogdan Cichomski, address this concept in their empirical study, Beliefs About Birth Rank and Their Reflection in Reality.

Personality is determined by a number of influences such as genes, environment, social class and family. While all of these factors play significant roles, family tends to be one of the most influential. From an outside perspective, family influences makes members of that household more alike. However, there are many aspects that can differentiate siblings personalities. In the text, factors such as birth order and gender are used to discuss personality differences within families (Cervone, 2014). In a historical context, male siblings often were viewed as more important due to family lineage and inheritance. There is also believed to be a bias in birth order with the eldest holding more significance (Cervone, 2014).

Birth order is a commonly discussed topic inside the realms of psychological research. Many studies have been organized to show the differentiation of personality concerning birth order. Characteristics of a personality, absent of birth order, play a monumental role in how a person reacts to social influence. A principle examination will occur concerning the view of the first-born child in comparison to the later born child for the purpose of illustrating how their susceptibility differs from one another. A related yet separated analysis will be done encompassing the characteristics of personalities of the first-born individual, as well as the later born individual focusing on the Big Five Personality Dimensions.