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Ethical Dilemma Is blood really thicker than water when it comes to ethical decisions? In this paper I will explain why I sacrificed an almost non-existent relationship with my brother to do the right thing. My dilemma occurred when brother announced he was getting a divorce. His wife alleged unfaithfulness on his part; however, he convinced my parents there were no outside parties involved. I was aware the allegations were true along with a previous occurrence of infidelity five years earlier. I had first-hand knowledge, but never revealed this to him or his wife.
My brother and I are the only surviving children in our family. Although family is important to me, the relationship with my brother is severely strained. I love him, but …show more content…

However, he told the family he wanted nothing to do with her. He also convinced her that one day they would go to Las Vegas and marry again. I discussed this with my parents and was chastised for getting involved. After discussing the matter with a Christian friend, I made a conscious ethical decision to do the right thing and offer her advice based on information I was privy too. This was a difficult decision due to the unspoken sense of loyalty to family that I was raised with. I knew once I helped her there was no turning back. I advised her that I would assist as long as the conversations were kept private.
I was raised with the mindset that family always comes first. There were five of us children and we were thicker than thieves growing up. If someone had a battle with one, they got four more by default. Therefore, choosing to support her behind my families back was a huge ethical dilemma for me. I have no doubt that if my parents knew about the emotional support and advice I provided to her during that period, they would not understand how I chose her over my own flesh and blood. I would hope that in time they would forgive me because they raised me to demonstrate high moral behavior. I have never been one to sit idly by and allow injustices to occur if I could prevent them. I tried reasoning with him at times, but he wanted no part of

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