Review: Breathing Underwater by Alex Flinn
Breathing UnderwaterBreathing Underwater by Alex Flinn is written as a series of journal entries. The journal is written by Nick as an assignment from the judge who also sends him to anger management after the girlfriend he beat up finally presses charges. The book was published in 2001, before the recent increase in dating violence novels, and it tells a story often overlooked, that of the abuser instead of the abused.
It 's a delicate subject. And it tells a hard story. Because while Nick is (obviously) not without his faults, he most certainly has his good points as well. And as I read I found myself feeling... not sympathetic, exactly, but definitely feeling something, more than I thought
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The group anger management class ends up being the best thing that ever happened to Nick, both because of the sympathetic and understanding instructor, and because Nick can see himself in the actions of some of the other members of the class and he doesn 't like what he sees. For such self-assessment to come from a 16 year old who then takes it and applies it to making himself better is amazing. Nick really grows as a person and while I don 't think Caitlin should ever take him back, I also think that he would not easily allow himself to fall back into the patterns of an abusive relationship. He really gets it.
This is a story that needed to be told and needs to be read by more people. I don 't think enough people know about this book and I don 't think it 's one that should be missed. It 's painfully hard to read at times. Nick doesn 't hide the nasty things he said to Caitlin, because in the beginning, he doesn 't think there is anything wrong with what he 's done. And then, as he begins to recognize what was wrong with his actions, he starts to expose more of his internal motivations for being so cruel and the thought to action correlation begins to make more sense.
Flinn is brave for taking an oft told story and telling the unspoken side of things. It would be easy, in a novel
Breathing underwater by alex flinn was a book about a teenage relationship gone bad by physical and verbal abuse. Nick and caitlyn were in a relationship and at first they were happy until nick started calling her names. Soon enough the name calling lead to abuse and caitlyn pressed charges. nick writes a journal every day and goes to an anger management class by court order. Nick and Caitlyn's relationship isn't healthy and this will explain why nick hit caitlyn, could the abuse be prevented, and how does abuse reflect his relationship.
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Immediately preceding his statement about being one of the few honest people he has ever known, he admits to both falsely proclaiming his love and perpetuating a "vague understanding" he had no intention of fulfilling. What's more, Nick takes his long-belated decision to now, finally, deal with the situation as evidence of his perfect honesty-ignoring entirely the preceding weeks and months of deception!
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1. Pay attention to Nick's judgments. What do they reveal about his character that he does this (especially in relation to his opening comments)?
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Nick is a reliable narrator because he is within and without of the story. Towards the middle of the book thats when Nick and the readers realize that he is “within and without”. “..., simultaneously enchanted by repelled by the inexhaustible variety of life” Here, the author portrays Nick as if he was present in mind but absent in heart, he has an overview of everything which means that through him we will see the truth and that he is someone to trust throughout the book.“Human secrecy to the casual watcher in the darkening streets, and I was him too looking up and wondering”. Here, the author wants us to know what nick is doing, he is in the scene getting along with them, knows their secrets, but he observes it all and knows what is really going on. Clearly, Nick is reliable because he is within and without, views it all, knows each individual and through him we are able to see what is truly happening between the characters.
When Nick meets up with his cousin Daisy and his old classmate Tom in East Egg, he is shown an unfamiliar side of people, a darker side, and he is at a loss and out of his element. Nick is tempted and curious about these things and they lead him away from his midwestern upbringing. The love triangles, the infidelity, gold digging and homicide disgust Nick and he becomes resolved to move back to his midwestern comfort zone almost like in doing so, he will be able to wash himself clean of the experience. Although the character Nick acts as a confidant for those around him, it seems that the burden of their indiscretions is too much for him and he returns to the familiarity and the safety of the morals he was raised on.