Daisy Olmos
M.Alverson.M.Ed.
English Ⅳ-Ⅴ
18 December 2014
Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan
Marrying the love of your life is a day women dream of for years, but for countless women in Kyrgyzstan, a city in central asia, this day is a rare occurrence because they are forced to marry their abductor. Just the thought of this is absurd, but it is a very daunting reality for the women of Kyrgyzstan. These women live each day with the fear that a man will take them away from their family, their friends, and most importantly their life. Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan is a human rights violation that needs to be stopped.
Looking back at the history of Kyrgyzstan we find the origins of bride kidnapping.
The historical explanation
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In Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan by Franco Galdini, he reveals that, “11,800 girls kidnapped each year, 2,000 raped.” This shows the devastating number of women that go through this each year. It also bring forth the fact that numerous women face brutal consequences because of this including rape. Franco Galdini also reveals the fact that, “92 percent of all kidnapped women end up marrying their abductor, 60 percent of those marriages will eventually lead to divorce.” This implies how more than half of the women kidnapped are unhappy in their marriage. It also implies that most women that are kidnapped do not want to marry their abductor and or are not in love with them because if they were their marriage would be forever. In Bride Kidnapping:A Tradition or a Crime? by Farangis Nahibullas she tells us that, “Between 68 and 75 percent of marriages in Kyrgyzstan take place with bride kidnapping.” This indicates the drastic number of marriages as a result of bride kidnappings. This evidence does not lie unfortunately, and the facts of these kidnappings make it even more real. Studying these kidnappings into even more depth leads us into even more harsh
Human trafficking exists in several nations all around us. No nation, including the United States is exempt from human trafficking. There may be factors that create unique anti-trafficking issues and obstacles for each nation, but the characteristics are all the same or very similar worldwide. These characteristics are how the trafficking is conducted, how the victims are kidnapped, the percentage of victims, the gender of the victims, and the percentage of each gender in different trafficking situations. The situations include children, adults, male, and female victims. The situations the victims fall into are pornography, forced labor, sex slaves, prostitution, child sex tourism, and many more. These are the issues and key points made by the authors to persuade the reader to agree with their position.
In forced marriages, a lot of women tend to not have a choice and are often abused by their husbands after the ceremony is over. Joelle Mazoud is a first-generation Australian Lebanese woman who was forced into marriage at the age of 16. A week after arriving in Lebanon, she met her husband once and was then married. Joelle was left in Lebanon with her new husband. She suffered 11 miscarriages over 8 years and she was constantly being abused (Angel, 2013). Women should not have to suffer under such cruel circumstances just to bring honour to her family.
Sex Trafficking has been a key component in “ degradation of human and women's rights” because they believe that these people are only good for sex (Deshpande Para 1). Often victims who come back, if they ever can, have a hard time adjusting back to normal life. These girls have trust issues towards men, and sometimes even women. They also could have numerous health problems ranging from STD’s to unplanned pregnancy or even worse “ broken bones, concussions, bruises and burns” can all be found on these victims of sexual assault. These girls could also have mental issues, such as anxiety toward older men and women, fear of going outside ever again and social issues. The saddest thing about this is not only are these victims going through a horrible amount of sexual abuse, they also have been ripped away from what they know and may love. Some people believe that women and some men are just objects and they are the ones that are often pimps in the sex trafficking, but this is a completely skewed way of thinking of people.
Sex trafficking is essentially systemic rape for profit. Force, fraud and coercion are used to control the victim’s behavior which may secure the appearance of consent to please the buyer (or john). Behind every transaction is violence or the threat of violence (Axtell par. 4). Just a decade ago, only a third of the countries studied by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime had legislation against human trafficking. (Darker Side, par.1) Women, children, and even men are taken from their homes, and off of the streets and are brought into a life that is almost impossible to get out of. This life is not one of choice, it is in most times by force. UNODC estimates that the total international human trafficking is a
was and is a serious crime. Majority of culture question why these men have to kidnap a bride
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I disagree with you on the topic that bride kidnapping is morally acceptable in Kyrgyzstan. In Petr Lom’s interview with Kyrgyzstani citizens, some of the citizens do not approve of bride kidnapping. They do not think it is right either. Ainagul, a Kyrgyzstani woman who was kidnapped to be a bride was interviewed by the professor. She refused to be married and left the kidnapper’s home. Not only her, but another woman named Kyal was kidnapped then subsequently, died by committing suicide. After her father picked up her body from a nearby village, he pushed for an investigation since bride kidnapping is illegal but nothing was done.
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On a day in August 1984, Elisabeth Fritzl went downstairs into a cellar that her father had been building for several months. She was going to help her father fix the door in the underground. As she was about to leave and go back up the stairs, a cloth was held over her mouth and her nose as everything suddenly went dark. Josef Fritzl, Elisabeth’s father, had been planning to torture someone for years when he got permission to construct the cellar in the 1970s. As the cellar was being built, eight doors were put in that you would have to go through in order to reach the dark place. Elisabeth spent 24 years inside the cold, damp walls of the cellar. During these years, her father sexually abused her and raped her, sometimes several times a day resulting in seven babies. Elisabeth was released in April 2008.