Bullying is a growing problem in American schools; an increase in bullying over a period of time can lead to suicide or negative impacts on health. Although some believe that students should not be formally charged for bullying, they should be because that is a cruel act and could lead to negative things. Opponents suggest that students should not be formally charged with bullying. They argue that students do not have the capacity to understand the consequences of their actions. For example, if a student bullies another student, they have no way of knowing that their actions could lead to that student harming themselves. Opponents of bullying believes that students should be formally charged for bullying in schools. Being a bully’s victim …show more content…
Aggressive bullies usually want power, is well known, and have a gang of passive bullies (Lee and Ginsburg). Others believe bullying can be dealt with in other ways rather than being charged. Due to the increase of internet usage, cyber bullying has risen and continues to. This is the most common type of bullying and yet the most difficult to solve. Bullies can create fake accounts in order to harass other children, and because of the increase of internet usage; information can be shared rapidly. Many have questions on why do bullies even exist and why do they do the things they do. Some research says bullies are insecure and lack attention at home. Bullies usually choose a person to be vulnerable in some way, and switch on them if they don't get what they want (Jacobs and McMahon). For example, it seem like attractive girls get bullied a lot by girls who doesn’t get paid as much attention like them. Bullies feel unwanted so they do what's necessary for them to get attention. They make others feel bad about themselves because they feel bad …show more content…
They argue there should be a collaboration and involvement of authority figures to solve the issue (Yousefi). They also believe that if a bully is charged it would cause an increase in negative behavior towards the victim, because others may think the accusations or arrest were unjustified. Its impact can be devastating to the accused and unhelpful to the victim (Yousefi). People would begin calling the victim words like “snitch” and “scarycat”, or even the victim being attacked by the bullies friends. Although majority of the time, victims do not want to share their problems with authority figures. They become socially inactive, which makes them not want to share their issues. Bullying is very cruel and can be devastating. It's hard for others to understand the pain they go through, which causes others to be against the bully being charged. Now, In the last decade or so when internet began spreading like wildfire, we realized things like this should be controlled and tamed. Anti-Bully laws were enacted in order to secure safety in
Bullying has a negative impact on everyone including the bully and the school. For instance, if there’s bullying on a campus and the school does not take action then it reflects back on the school and makes them look bad. “Schools are increasingly sued for failing to provide a safe learning environment and are being held liable for the harassment, violence and suicides caused by bullying,” (Bullying and Statistic information). As for the victim, it affects them mentally and physically, it causes them to change their habits and their personality. They can not defend themselves because they are too scared, low self-esteem, or is just too afraid to tell an adult (Stop Bullying.gov). The bullies are affected because the more damage they do to the victim the more trouble they cause for themselves. Bullying also affects the families of the victim and suspect. For the victim’s family there’s a lot of lies and betrayal. Now for someone to bully it could be because of their family. How a child acts is because of their parents. A student does not choose to bully, they act out on their emotions which causes them to think less and act
Physical bullies are what they’re called physical, because they are known to kick, hit, push, trip, or cause any physical harem to another kid. Verbal bullies are the bullies that use their words to belittle their victim. They resort to name-calling, racial slurs, cruel comments about a person, or comments about their victim’s physical look. This type of bullying is the most common type of bullying and is reported the most. Relational bullies are the bullies that make it hard for their victim to be accepted by anyone. The bullies will single out the victim for all peer groups. This type of bullying is done mainly by a bullying spreading detrimental rumors and using extreme verbal threats pertaining to their victim (California Department of Education). Finally, the last type of bullying is cyber bullying. This is done by the bullies using the different social media sites to bully their victim. Cyber bullying is the use of electronics, phone, computer, etc. to post cruel and hurtful comments, pictures, and rumors about someone on the internet or on instant messages. There has been a high increase of teen suicide due to cyber bullying.
According to the article, Meet the New Sheriff by Suzanne McCabe, “One out of every five students are bullied or are bullies themselves.” This one piece of ground-breaking evidence is enough to destroy our society, and our children’s lives forever. Bullying is a highly discussed topic that American children face every day and it’s near impossible to stop. There are also topics within bullying, like how students become bullies, or how to stop bullying, also which is worse being a bystander or being a bully. And you can’t deny that bullies are almost like mad serial killers, they go around and they don’t stop even if they get into trouble. There are so many topics on bullying that you can’t even count them all. “Everyone has been bullied for
Furthermore, since there are no federal laws that address bullying, “bullying overlaps with discriminatory harassment when it is based on race, national origin, color, sex, age, disability, or religion.”(Federal Laws 1) After the 1999 Columbine High School shooting, forty-eight states put anti-bullying laws into place. All of their laws state that a hardcore investigation must take place, along with reporting it, followed by strict punishment. A victim has to report it happening from the same person or group repeatedly before anything is done about it, in order to suspend or expel the bully. Not many students in school are willing to report any bullying activity, they fear that they too will become bullied, for being a “snitch” or “tattle tale”. Students know that if the bully discovers who told on them, then it will make them more hostile and escalate them to find more cruel way to punish their victim. Even if the bully is expelled from school there is other means of torturing someone.
There are many roles that individuals can play when it comes to bullying. Some participate in bullying others. Others are the victims of bullying, and sometimes they might be both, bullied and bullies. Bullies search for any reasons to pick on or ridicule their victims which put them in a position of power. Victims can take control, but this will require adult intervention. When victims are made to feel loved, respected and
Bullying has become a major issue in the United States and around the world. What brought the attention to people about bullying is the number of suicides that are committed by adolescents and the stories they share online or live television. Bullying is categorized to be direct verbal, direct physical, and indirect forms. Not every person has an idea how terrible bullying can be and how harmful it is to the victim. Bullying has driven students to commit actions they have never done before such as cutting themselves, suicidal thoughts, health disorders, and bad behavior. Bullying must be taken seriously, because it results in negative effects on its victims and may drive students to commit horrific actions. Lawmakers should draft anti-bullying legislation, students should stand up for one another, and society should work out what can be done to combat this problem.
Physically being bullied frequently involves some sort of physical assault or attack, or can also consist of having one's personal belonging destroyed, tampered or stolen. Verbal bullying comes from the usual form of name calling that may be done due to a person's gender make up, sexual orientation, religious, age, or race. Due to the increase availability of technology indirect bullying is one of the most widespread types of bullying. It is usually the kind of bullying that countless people may do without even knowing so. Indirect bullying is the distribution falsely stories and rumors about an individual without the person knowing so, as well as the deliberate exclusion from social groups and gatherings. A current major issue, cyber bullying can also fall into the grouping of indirect bullying, but also includes bullying that is done with the use of any electronic device such as, email, text messaging, pictures through the use of text or email, message boards, websites, blogs, and even
People are bullied for many reasons, mostly because of their sexual persuasion, racial issues, attitude, weight and even clothing. Sometimes bully can leads to abusing the victim, end up the trauma of bullying hits the newspaper and the terrible scenario has happened. Perhaps a person has harmed their own self or someone else has stepped over the line and hurt them. Bully usually take places in the silence place such as classroom, a street corner or a home so that the victim can’t called for help. Bullies have the ability to create havoc and seem like the innocent party. There are some example of bully cases happen across the globe.
charges of assault and battery”).(lee, gaier,2) often in school you will see two kids bullying each other and it doesn’t matter of what age you are. Also what somebody learns is what somebody will go on through for the rest of their life for example if they’re going to be a worker or a criminal. According to the bullying in schools today article “as many as 15-25% of children have been bullied at some time, so that schools have recognized an obligation to address this issue, coping with bullying is widely recognized preventing psychological harm that stems from bullying. There are three victims in this behavior: the bully who is acting out insecurities and perhaps entering into a life long pattern of counterproductive behavior; the victim whose underlying insecurities or conditions may be exacerbated, possibly leading to long-term problems; and the subtle participants, the peer group, who themselves are learning to cope (or fail to cope) with a variety of behaviors. Psychologists widely recommend that bullying be treated not just as a matter of “civil order” akin to childhood assault and battery, but as a developmental issue, one among many that affect adolescents”. (lee,gaier,2) Usually in school when there is bullying in school students get detention or get suspended, they should take more matters by doing something. Also it doesn’t matter who’s doing the bullying being the victim or be a audience your still going to be in trouble. Bullying in school just doesn’t affect
This is very true and it is disturbing to know the emotional pain and suffering that school-aged children experience when they are victims of bullying. It also goes on to discuss how schools need guidance on programs to implement and strategies for integrating their bullying prevention work with other school improvement efforts within the school. This supports my beliefs in seeing the importance for schools to have some form of mandatory program or other forms of efforts in helping to support those who are victims of bullying. Not only do I believe that victims of bullying need support efforts, but I also believe it is necessary to implement a program for those who are bullies as well. Implementing a program as well as strategies for bullies could help in discovering their reasons for their behavioral-related
After some research, I found out that the main reason for someone to be a bully is the lack of attention, when a parent is absent from a child life, this kid crave attention, wants people too notice him. Another cause can be that the kid is being bullied from an older person that represents power to them, for example a parent, teacher or older sibling. That’s why they look for a less powerful target. (STOMP Out Bullying)
According to the Journal of School Health, 71% of students report incidents of bullying as a problem at their school (“11 facts”). Bullying is widespread epidemic and it is one of the most unreported safety problems that occur on school campuses across the nation. People take days away from school to avoid being terrorized, see their academic performance decrease, experience depression, and in extreme cases take their own lives, or kill some of their schoolmates due to the fact that they were constantly burdened with people bullying them. Can you imagine seeing your own child apprehensive about going to school because they are haunted by the memories of constantly being called names, having false rumors spread between their peers, or even, battered? I have noticed that bullying is often dismissed by people because they believe that it is just
The bullies in schools never think they will get severely punished, so they don’t stop. They think that they won’t be caught and that bullying isn’t a huge deal, but it is. Bullying causes students to not go to school, to feel alone, and to leave their school feeling worthless. If the bully were to be suspended, he/she would learn quickly that what they are doing is wrong in so many ways. They will realize that bullying can be the reason they don’t get into their dream school or do something they love. On the other hand, victims of bullying don’t come forward and voice that the have been taunted, teased, and tormented because they don’t think the school will help them. 67 percent of students feel that their school doesn’t hear about their bullying and doesn’t do anything that will prevent it (Soard). A great number of bullies in
What appears to be bullying is not always bullying. There is this misconception that when someone disagrees with another person or is hurtful towards that person, bullying always seems to be what they say is going on. Although statistics shows that one in four kids are bullied, all aggressive actions are not bullying. If a person has self-esteem and self confidence in themselves and not let others tear you down the imbalance of power is balanced. Bullies have more power over their victims and always want to be on top. They enjoy displaying the power they have over their victim.
Also people judge them without knowing what is going on. Everything that bullies do is a cause of their mental issues. Authors, Dorothy Espelage and Melissa K. Holt mention in their articles “Journal of Emotional Abuse” how boys are more often bullied than girls.Also it talks how older students take part in bullying more often than the youger ones because they have more available resources to do that.. Younger kids do not know how to use facebook and other media that is available to them.In adition the studies from their articles prove that people that are bullies tend to hang out with other people that are bullies, and that is how bullies are geting stronger and abuse more and more innocent students,kids and even elders.