Bullying, The Power Of Abuse

In John Cloud’s essay “The Myths of Bullying” he talks about the reaction that schools and states have to bullying. Cloud expresses his concerns for bullying and also explains the steps that people are taking to help prevent it. He explains that most of the systems used now are not effective and are making school’s waste money. He then provides his own opinion on how bullying should be approached in school systems. Cloud’s essay not only tries to persuade the reader to his cause but he uses literary elements such as bathos and logos to appeal to and draw in the reader.

“Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there” (Joel Osteen). The bullying rates have increased tremendously since 2000. This is likely because of the increase in technology that anyone can practically do anything without others knowing. But this may not be the case, it could just be that people, since 2000, have been treated differently in this century than in the past. But why would this be?

Altogether bullying is not nice and shouldn't happen in any schools, and we must put a stop to it.

Most kids say that they don’t see bullying around school. In just Minnesota alone there is talk about bullying and how to prevent it. Sen. Franken states, “Nine out of 10 LGBT kids are harassed or bullied in school. One-third report having skipped school in the last month because they felt unsafe” (Shah 14). Kids should not feel unsafe to go to school. School is supposed to be a safe place to go and if someone needs help there are supposed to be people there to guide them. Franken adds, “But the sad fact is that our federal laws are failing” (Shah 14). Laws have been made to try to stop bullying, but bullying continues to exist. This shows how out of control bullying is becoming.

The Merriam Webster Dictionary describes bullying as “to use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone).” Bullying certainly isn’t an uncommon problem. A study from Columbia University reports that nearly 71% of students are bullied in the United States each year and even more worldwide. Bullies will mainly target victims who have disabilities, diverse sexual orientation or are of a different religion or race, but anyone can be bullied for whatever makes them different. Bullying has lead to many of the tragic school shootings across the world, sexual harassment,

School is a place where you can learn, fraternize and feel safe. Well sometimes children and young adults do not feel that way at all, some kids have to deal with being physically harassed at school. Nowadays the bullying isn’t just occurring at school, it’s also occurring online in the privacy of their own home. The Internet is the main contributor because now kids go on social networks and blog sites, which, is one of their main forms of communication because they are apart of the computer age. Scott Meech’s article “Cyber-bullying Is Worse than Physical Bullying” and Amanda Lenhart’s article “Cyber-bullying Is Not Worse than Physical Bullying” both discuss why they believe one form of bullying is worse than the other. Although both

Do you believe that bullying happens only in school? Well did you know that their is one neighborhood bully that occurs in every 50 states. Bullying is wrong because it can hurt a person in different ways. For example, kids have a way of covering up their emotions by not showing their parents. It brings problems towards the child which they go through anxiety and depression. Another example, it can cause them to have mental stress which they become distant from everyone and loved ones such as family. Kids should not bully others; bullying could affect the person physically, mentally, and emotionally.

I think bullying is a big deal here in the USA and here at my school. Bullying can effect everyone, those who are bullied, and those who bully. Negative bullying can mess up your mental health, or lead to substance use, and/or suicide. I asked Lenda how she felt and she said she felt, “unimportant, unnecessary, unwanted.” That’s a terrible way to feel. I know personally how it feels. It makes you feel like your life means nothing. It made me feel like I should bully other people to make myself feel better and doing that hurts everyone. When you are bullied, it hurts your self-esteem and breaks you down to feeling like a nothing. It could make a person turn violent to other people and to their self. Bullying mitte seam like a game, but a game

Although schools, agencies and pediatricians can do much at the community level to mitigate bullying and its effects, the problem is clearly societal in scope. Bullying cannot be stopped with a single intervention or by a single social agency. The use of violence to solve problems is repeatedly illustrated through television and other visual media. Many parents of bullies believe that it is appropriate for their children to learn how to compete in the schoolyard and do not see bullying as an issue (Feldman Hertz, Donato, & Wright, 2013). Too many children in our society are exposed to domestic violence directed towards parents and themselves. Too many children are born into adverse family situations, including low maternal age at the birth

Everyone has the right to feel welcome, secure and happy. Bullying of any sort stops members of the setting from being able to achieve their full potential and prevents equality of opportunity. Bullying is anti-social behaviour and affects everyone it is unacceptable and should not be tolerated which is why anti-bullying policies and procedures are in place, to protect all.

The New Face of Bullying chapter emphasizes how to identify bullying and understand gateway behaviors. Three characteristics that identify bullying are power imbalance, repeated occurrence, and intentionality. Power imbalance occurs when bullies are bigger and stronger than the victims. Victims are vulnerable targets since they’re physically weaker and can’t defend themselves. Repeated occurrences occur when bullies constantly harass victims on numerous occasions through different components such as physical bullying, verbal bullying, and cyber bulling. Intentionality occurs when bullies have a negative agenda to cause visible hurt or harm towards victims for their enjoyment.

Many people do not realize how serious bullying has become. If you look at statistics suicides due to bullying have increased over just a few short years. This has become a very big problem for not only the victim but the bully as well as it affect both of them. School bullying is mentally destructive to not only the victims, but bullies because of the harmful words, harassment, and physical violence involved as well as the consequences for the bully.

Bullying is defined as unwanted or aggressive behavior that causes someone to feel afraid or intimidated. This behavior could be something physical, verbal, or something done electronically or through social media. If someone feels threatened by someone’s actions or words, it could be considered bullying, even if that was not the intent.There are many types of bullying, how to recognize bullying, how to report bullying, what to do if you see incidents of bullying, and what resources are available to persons who have been bullied.

Bullying is and up and coming topic in our society due to the affects and/or outcomes on the individual(s) that are victimized. Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. It is mistreatment severe enough to compromise a targeted worker’s health, jeopardize her or his job and career, and strain relationships with friends and family.(workplacebullying.com) Bullying can take place in many settings and throughout all age groups. Individuals are usually victimized due to what “society’s” perception of the way an individual should look, act, and/or feel. Sometimes bullies are not aware of their own actions, while others are. Bullying in the workplace seems to be more common everyday. Bullying is a phenomenon of unequal power. One member has power over another. In order to be able to stop and control bullying, society needs to be aware of the different types of bullying, as well as whom to properly notify when these instances occur. Society needs to be aware that individuals are unique and that social acceptance should be promoted with everyone, rather than society’s “ideal-like” individuals.

What appears to be bullying is not always bullying. There is this misconception that when someone disagrees with another person or is hurtful towards that person, bullying always seems to be what they say is going on. Although statistics shows that one in four kids are bullied, all aggressive actions are not bullying. If a person has self-esteem and self confidence in themselves and not let others tear you down the imbalance of power is balanced. Bullies have more power over their victims and always want to be on top. They enjoy displaying the power they have over their victim.