Cause And Effect On Teenage Relationships

Many attachment psychologists argue that early relationships with our primary caregivers provide the foundation for later adult relationships. Bowlby called this the continuity hypothesis. This is the claim that early relationship experiences continue in later adult relationships.

With social media growing and growing into a mass of accounts and profiles and different groups of people and clubs and websites and other things, what adolescents do on social media is something that many parents worry about. Not every parent is at ease with the fact that their child/teenager is out in open water; one young human being surrounded by millions of other human beings who are younger, the same age, or older than them. The article “Teenage social media butterflies may not be such a bad idea” takes a look at teenagers ' use of social media. Social media is a very important tool, allowing people to connect or continue their relationships without

Older generations don’t realize how much technology has affected this generation of teenagers, along with the social media that comes along with the technology. As stated in “How Social Media Changed Teens’ Lives Forever”; “Negative posts or comments also can do great damage to a teen’s self-esteem.” (Ashley Black, Thomas Atseff and Colleen Kaveney) While many parents think social media is just a way to connect with others, many teenagers take it for granted. For example, “quitting social media because it made her miserable and obsessed with appearing perfect online”, is what a teenager felt about social media and what it has done to her. Though many think that social media is a great way to connect, teenagers take it to another level.

Before this generation we would immerse ourselves in relationships. Now, could you say that all your Facebook friends are your actual friends? Sometimes all we need is a hug from someone that we have a genuine relationship with. People wouldn’t be able to get that if they constantly use their phones to become “social” they will never amount to their true potential in relationships. Bryce Skylar a writer for People’s World says, “The problem, it appears, is that social media has infiltrated every aspect of daily life”. When you put down your phone, you will create an endless opportunity to gain organic relationships.

     Traditional Dating has changed over the years. In my generation the girls can ask the guys, there is no telling where they might go on a date, or they might just hang out at home, which did not happen as much 25 years ago. My generation's moral values are changing too: sex on the first date happens more frequently now. Many Years ago a guy would go pick the girl up at her house, was introduced to her parents and have a talk with them before taking their

Social networking is the mainstream way to communicate with anyone. Teenagers are obsessed with social networking, no one calls each other unless it’s extreme circumstances or their mother. Sharing pictures, sharing life stories, and sharing opinions online has been the way of life and the norm for kids growing up with computers and smart phones. The parents to this generation have not grown up in the same environment and have different standards for online activity. In the Article “ 10 Reasons Why I Avoid Social Networking Services” written by Alan Norton, he lists why he does not use social networking services. His personal beliefs are backed up with statistics and hold true to many people in his generation but not in the younger ones.

The age group that uses social media the most is 12-17 but the majority of people who use it all together are under the age of 30. 42% of adults online use social media and 97% of teens online use social media. Three in four teens access the internet on cell phones, tablets, and other mobile devices. Ironically, even though it is called social media, it actually causes a lot of people to become less connected with other people in real life. Steven Strogatz of Cornell University says “ social media sites can make it more difficult for us to distinguish between the meaningful relationships we foster in the real world, and the numerous casual relationships formed through social media. By focusing so much of our time and psychic energy on these less meaningful relationships, our most important connections will weaken.” What this means is that we spend a lot of our time and energy online trying to create relationships with people online that distracts from real life people and social situations. Sure, social media is good for connecting

Adolescents are in a transition time between childhood and adulthood. Adolescence can be a crucial time for development and it greatly influences who they become and how they behave once they reach adulthood. This is especially true when it comes to the relationships that adolescents are involved in. The individuals that surround the adolescent truly have an impact on that person and can mold them into who they will become later on in life, especially since adolescence is such a big time for transition. Those in relationship with the adolescent play a big role in the development and maturation of the adolescent. Friends and family might even have an impact on the path the adolescent will take in the future. Adolescents engage in relationships with parents, siblings, extended family, friends, peers, and romantic partners (OCC textbook).

According to her own experiences and comparing it to today, she believes that teens are shying away from face-to-face interactions. My experiences suggest otherwise as teens still actively plan to go out together and not just chat with their phones. Though, in my case, I think that social media has made it easier for introverts to avoid physical

Technology has caused too many teenagers to spend number amounts of their time on social media sites. Spending too much time of your cell phone causes you to miss out on opportunities.

Not only does the overuse of the internet and social media cause mental problems, but increasing behavioral problems in the relationships of adolescents has been observed. The article “Understanding the Role of Technology in Adolescent Dating and Dating Violence” by Charlene Baker and Patricia Carreño discusses how the use of online forms of social media stunts the normal development of romantic relationships in the young, allows for people to harass others without facing consequences, and even molds what will develop into mentally and physically abusive relationships. A study done on adolescents showed, “…adolescents rely on technology for communication with, establishing control over, verbally abusing, seeking help, and reconnecting with

Everyone has social media, but do we really know the effects it has on us? The article, “ Students Examines Negative Effects of Social Media on Teens,” by Aurelie Krakowsky is about the negative effects of social media. Social media can have some positive outcomes; Nonetheless there are more negative effects than good.

Our society has become heavily reliant on social media, and today’s younger generation cannot avoid using it in their everyday lives. As time has progressed, social media has advanced significantly, becoming easier to access with a touch of a button. These advancements provide both positive and negative consequences to youths’ relationships. Due to the rapid advancement of social media, youths’ real-life relationships with their peers have been affected both positively and negatively.

Currently individual adolescents are highly subjective to the new craze of ‘social media’, growing up in a generation that relies heavily on technology in every day life; adolescents have social networking at their fingertips through a number of technological products. A recent study shows adolescents use social media for a variety of reasons (Appendix 2). Among the group surveyed 75% had a social networking profiled, believing social media had a positive impact on their emotional wellbeing. Regarding relationships, the majority of the 75% whom have a social networking profile agreed it was beneficial to their relationships not only with friends and family, also teachers. Of this 75%, 88% agreed social media helped them keep in touch with friends they could not see regularly. This 88% also agree social media allows them to connect with students at their school, along with people who share a common interest. However research also showed (Appendix 2.1), most adolescents prefer face-to-face communication, believing social media can cause interference with this. From the group of adolescents examined, some also desired being able to disconnect from social media and connect more often with the people around them.

First, when people have their own perspective of relationship on how they should be maintained compared to how society or different cultures depict relationships. Because the five factors of personal attraction affect friendships and relationships because have a major impact on how we all deal with each other on different levels. When dating and in imamate relationships and friendships there has to be different attractions that keep us connected or disconnected from one another. First you are attracted to them by Proximity which means when you feeling close to someone, there is also familiarity, when you are attracted to someone that you see often then you also have to have a similar attraction to someone which is called, similarity is somethings that you have with people like others who are like them. Also there is Physical appearance, when you like someone looks, reciprocity, you are also more attracted to people that are like them. “There are five important factors that initiate and predict interpersonal attractions: proximity, familiarity, similarity, physical appearance and reciprocity in liking” (Clarke, 1952). When searching for a friendship and romantic relationship these are the five factors that would necessary when searching for a healthy friendship or relationship. When dealing with society and different cultures sometimes our opinion about the right friendship and relationships.