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Changing Oneself Based On Stargirl By Jerry Spinelli

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In a world where teens are exposed to all the messages shown in media, there is a developing self-conscious to change oneself for the people around them. Unquestionably, we have all taken a look at ourselves and thought about changing something. Wanting to gain popularity and likeability, just the fear of being pointed out and being different somehow turns people away from being themselves. However, changing oneself must first be evaluated and thought through in order to have its benefits.

A common misconception is changing oneself for self improvement compared for the acceptance of other peers and classmates. Changing oneself to achieve goals and improve on oneself is beneficial in developing self confidence, while assimilating based off …show more content…

Yet even after being forced to become “normal”, she couldn’t hold in. Stargirl Caraway, the counterpoint of Mica Area High School, always enjoyed being unique and going in her own direction. Not afraid of being laughed out and living off her own morals, she soon runs into problems with the rest of the students. The student body of MAHS doesn’t accept Stargirl and her friends as one of them and tries to avoid them to let them do her own thing. Her boyfriend Leo Borlock, in attempt to regain popularity, tries to change Stargirl to act like the other students, for what he thought was for the better. Stargirl’s new persona only lasts for so long until she can’t hold the want to be unique to …show more content…

Originally as the spirit of the school, it’s proven that people were willing to cheer for Stargirl. However, the table turned with her friends and Stargirl getting shunned by the whole school. The reason we don’t want to be ourselves anymore in front of our peers and public is the fear of being shunned by the others - that is what sends us to remold our figure. The thought of being left out from the rest, picked out, and laughed against turns us down from sharing our true beliefs and opinions.

This story also demonstrates how we’ve all grown intolerable to change as we’ve grown accustomed to the predictability and familiarity of similarity. Whenever we sense change, we begin to feel uneasy and overthink the actuality of a scenario. Just like the students in MAHS felt when first being exposed to Stargirl, there is a transition period for us to adopt and realize the possibilities from change. Stargirl was claimed the reason why students were excited to go to school, to see what crazy stunt she would be doing the next day. Sometimes, change is what makes life

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