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Chapter Summary Of The Dictionary Of Obscure Sorrows By John Koenig

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Saely Nichols Mrs. Yearick AP Lit and Comp 6 February 2018 Sonder Have you ever passed a car on the road and wondered where the people in it were going? Did you wonder if they were happy or sad or in love or mourning? In that moment you stepped outside of your own life and realized that the person or people in that car had a life just like your own and they were not simply just a car on the road. Although we most often go about our days thinking “I, me, mine”, actualizing that everyone else you pass in your life has a life just as crazy and elaborate as your own creates a deeper understanding for others and a better life for yourself. In 2017, John Koenig completed a seven year project in which he wrote a book called The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows (Koenig)1. In writing this book, Koenig’s goal was to help people communicate feelings and emotions through words that never before existed (Koenig)2 . Without words, it would be difficult to understand others at all. While it is easy to see someone’s physical pain, without words, it would be hard to truly understand what they are feeling. Koenig’s book helps to further our understanding of each other with words that describe things we all feel but find hard to put into words. One word Koenig can take credit for creating and defining is “sonder” (Castello)3. In his words, sonder is “the idea …show more content…

This means who you become in someone’s memories can be twisted and turned if the memory is vague. Perhaps creating good memories in the minds of people you meet will make them remember you happy and positive. Even a brief interaction with someone could stay in their minds until they die even if it does not stay in your own (Castello)14. Most of us would not want the only memory someone has of us to be negative, so staying positive in fleeting moments or even in long lasting relationships can prevent people from securing negative or confusing memories of us in their

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