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Charles Horton Cooley's Theory : The Looking-Glass Self

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The Looking-Glass Self

It wasn't until after my second child was born, when it came to my attention, I didn't actually know my “real self.” This came as a bit of a surprise, as it often does to most. Uncovering layers of the psyche, is not exactly pleasant, but the freedom that comes with it, is undeniably worth the effort. Charles Horton Cooley's theory, the looking-glass self, “could be summed up as, we see ourselves as others see us.” (Farley, Flota, 2012, p. 67). In other words, be believe the stories we make up in our heads, rewrite the script based on our perceived interpretation, and adopt the story as truth. As an agent of socialization, this theory lead to a deeper inquiry of not only my own authenticity, but what is potentially being projected (consciously or unconsciously) onto my children and students. Closer examination of the social institutions and the roles parents and teachers play if regards to Cooley's theory, is explored below. Upon graduating high school, my senior class was required to take a standardized test that required an average of 65% or higher to satisfy state qualifications to graduate. With a long history of below average test taking skills with grades that reflected a “below average” intelligence, I knew there were no “Bright Future Scholarships” in my future. The test was heavily saturated with math, a subject that was as foreign to me at as the Chinese

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