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(not his real name) is an 11 year old boy, the oldest of three children. He will be attending middle school in the fall. His brother and sister are 10 years and four years old, respectively. Mark’s mother has worked with my wife for many years. Prior to this assignment, my knowledge of Mark came almost entirely from conversations with my wife. The mother is a youth group minister, and the father works for a local Sheriff’s department. My wife and I socialized with the parents a few times in the past 10 years, primarily at adult-only work events. We did watch the boys about five years ago. I remember them being unusually active. The mother has consulted my wife in the past on ideas for manages the boys. As a result of this background, I anticipated …show more content…

We spent a few minutes talking about the holiday weekend. I learned that he is close to both sets of grandparents. Before I started, he asked if we could work with clay first. I agreed to this. I used a variation of an idea from one of our textbooks. In the exercise, Mark closes his eyes and does various things to the clay, such as pinching, punching, and breaking the clay into pieces. The idea is to provide some experiences that will allow the child to get beyond ashtrays and snakes (Oaklander, 2007). Mark was very receptive to the exercise. I then asked him to think about something he would like to make. I left it open again, partly wanting to see if he would continue with one of the themes from our first session. Mark was mostly quietly while creating his clay project. I asked if he generally talks during projects, and he said that he usually just thinks while he works. He made a couple of different shapes before deciding to create the figure of a man. He named the person Greorge, pointing out the unusually spelling. I asked if the figure he made reminded him of anything, or if the name had any meaning. He answered no to both questions. Towards the end of the activities, when I noticed there were some missing features, I had asked Mark if he planned to add a nose or mouth. He said no, but then later added both features. It was not clear if there was any significance to the figure initially missing such …show more content…

A number of themes came up that are occupying Mark’s thoughts, and I can see that he is actively working through them. If an ongoing therapeutic relationship were being formed, I would provide continuing opportunities to explore the themes of friendship, violence, and life as the son of a father involved in police work.
It is common for one to fear failure, especially when the stakes are high. It was reassuring for me to have a positive experience working with a child using these techniques. I felt I was able to effectively manage the two sessions. My own confidence increased as the sessions progressed. Yet, I am left with a very healthy sense of how important it is to strive to meet children where they are. My strengths are my broad experiences with children as teacher, parent, retreat leader, and friend. I also have the benefit of participating in, and in some case nurturing, the developmental process for several

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