As a journalist, I have learned to ask a lot of questions, and lately I have been noticing I have been asking one question more frequently than others; “why not?” When I began to tell people that I wanted to be my own boss and someday have my own publication, continue to make music and also open up my own store, I got a lot of strange looks. I was told that I needed to get a practical job instead of running the risk of being ‘a starving artist’. After receiving this response routinely, I began to wonder what was really so bad about that. I began to realize that while yes, things might become a struggle, rent might become unbearable and I might not be able to afford luxuries, I would be more than happy to wake up every morning and know that …show more content…
It’s secure and comfortable to do something that many have succeeded in rather than carving a unique path. I am not going to be scared anymore, when I know what I want, I am going to do everything I can to get it, no matter how many people call me crazy or tell me that it isn’t practical. Attending the University of La Verne is not the most practical college choice for me, but I want to go there, and if accepted, I am going to find a way to make it happen. I have always believed in taking life into my own hands and taking chances, whether the odds have been in my favor or not. I have been a dream chaser and risk taker in a world where staying in one’s comfort zone is encouraged and even celebrated. I believe that to be successful, you are going to have to learn to take risks in your life. You have to snap out of the trance that fear has you in and shoot for the stars. I know that nothing worth happening is going to happen if I’m too afraid to even try to make it happen. I’m going to have to twist fate myself, if not, it will never be
I remember waking up that day and that feeling in my stomach, knowing what was about to happen. Growing up I knew about my father's sickness. My family, I recall, was always supportive. No one ever thinks about how one day, everyone you’re around for years, can just vanish. I cherished my friends as I was growing up. I lived there for a majority of my life, up until fourth grade. I remember sitting at a neighbor's house and having the mother come into the room and inform me that I need to be home swiftly. As I ran home, my head was crowded with thoughts to the point where I could not even think about why I was supposed to be home quickly. That day marked the transition of what would be the biggest change in my life. As by dad became sicker,
“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are. While your reputation is merely what others think you are.” -John Wooden.
Thus, it 's easy to see how when I was younger I had no idea what I wanted to be. I just knew I wanted to be good at something and be helpful to people. I hoped the person would know I had invested time to make their life easier. It never mattered if they remembered my name or my face, just more that I had cared about them. Yet, I was afraid. I didn’t think I had the courage, the ability, to be exceptional at an occupation. Certainly never enough for it to warrant a novel. Actually I still think that, but here we are. However, we are not really here because any recent accomplishment I have had. No, we are here because of three people.
Ask my teachers, friends, coaches, and family, they’ll all tell you that I’m mature. The way I hold myself responsible for my life, my studies, and my activities through the good and bad is a unique quality about me that they admire, but also know little to nothing about.
In the novel life lessons:two experts on death and dying teach us the mysteries of life and living. The novel talks about many lessons such as
Personal lifestyle choices can be influenced by the family of origin, peers, social movements, and global revolutions, and can have a positive or negative life-long impact. A COUPLE OF SENTENCES DEFINING THE LIFE COURSE PERSPECTIVE AND HOW/WHY IT IS USEFUL IN UNDERSTANDING OLDER ADULTS. Based on an in-depth qualitative interview, this paper will include an analysis of lifestyle choices and trajectories, particularly how human agency and cohort effects, have impacted the life course of my interviewee Chris (Christine).
I would say that one of the biggest things in my life right now is basketball. I’m not the greatest at it, but compared to last year I am a lot better than I was. It’s been a lot of time and work put into this and I am glad to say I am a basketball player for the school of East Wake Academy. I have been one of the biggest players in the school program.
Trying to stay in your comfort zone and letting fear get the best of you will always choke your creativity and sabotage any chances you might have of succeeding. In order to achieve any worthy goals, you must start realizing that discomfort is a prerequisite for success. In his teaching, The Life Excellence Plan, Stephen McGhee wrote “You make yourself feel uncomfortable by stepping into uncharted territory. You allow yourself to rise up.” Being too comfortable is a sign that you are at a standstill in your life. In this world of convince it’s easy to get comfortable and fall into a life of mediocrity. No risk, no reward. On occasion we can get so comfortable with where we are in our lives that we no more test ourselves to push ahead in life.
I have always been passionate about how society and social stratification affects our daily lives. I believe these issues are relevant to everyone, in everyday life, and sociology affects everyone on a personal level. When I was an undergraduate student, I had a professor that opened up my mind to the study of sociology. It was at that time, that I decided, I loved the subject so much that I wanted to someday teach it on a post-secondary level. It is a subject that has broadened my horizons, and made me question the ways in which I view society, not only here, but abroad, in other countries. If I could bring that passion to just one of my students, who knows what a
Ever since I was a child, I’ve always had a special love for scrapbooking. I began to scrapbook when I was about 10 years old. We had a project due in school that involved us making a scrapbook about ourselves to show the class a little about our lives. I was so excited I had never made a scrapbook before, but I always watched my cousin make scrapbooks at her house. Scrapbooking brings so much joy in my life for being able to cherish the memories I’ve made, and to be able to put them in a book so when I’m older I can look back and remember all the good times I’ve had. The best part about scrapbooking is that you can be original and make your book however you want to express yourself, there are no limits to scrapbooking.
All people face realities. Good realities, bad realities, and neutral realities. No matter what, you will face them. What are these realities though? The rich, the poor, and the middle class all face them.
Your mind can be an extremely powerful weapon, it can bring you fame and it can bring you fortune. It can bring you pain and it can bring you torment. Your mind is everything, every step, blink and breathe is controlled by it. With so many capabilities, it is a common question as to how far the human mind can be stretched, how far it will go and how long it will endure the nature of our society and the world as a whole.
Growing up I never gave too much thought to college, whenever people asked me about furthering my education my only response was “I don’t want to go”. I didn’t see the future in it, “success doesn’t come with a piece of paper” I thought to myself, and although that was true I didn’t realize all the doors that weren’t open without that piece of paper. I always felt optimistic growing up, but for whatever reason, I never felt sure about the route I would take in life. Graduating high school was a priority but after that there was nothing. I’ve always had big dreams but back then I hadn’t mustered up a plan on how to get there, like driving to California with no map or GPS I was stranded, suspended in this mindset of what I wanted to be and what was comfortable. Neither of my parents went to college and in spite of that my childhood was beautiful. In hindsight I think that was a big reason I thought the way I did. When I was a kid I remember looking at my
Understand that life is not a straight line. Life is not a set timeline of milestones. It is okay if you don’t finish school, get married, find a job that supports you, have a family, make money, and live comfortably all by this age, or that age. It’s okay if you do, as long as you understand that if you’re not married by 25, or a Vice President by 30 — or even happy, for that matter — the world isn’t going to condemn you. You are allowed to backtrack. You are allowed to figure out what inspires you. You are allowed time, and I think we often forget that. We choose a program right out of high school because the proper thing to do is to go straight to University. We choose a job right out of University, even if we didn’t love our program, because we just invested time into it. We go to that job every morning because we feel the need to support ourselves abundantly. We take the next step, and the next step, and the next step, thinking that we are fulfilling some checklist for life, and one day we wake up depressed. We wake up stressed out. We feel pressured and don’t know why. That is how you ruin your life.
Futures I craved in the past were nothing compared to my goal of becoming an artist. It was the dream I never considered to continue into a career because of stereotypes such as, “Few people make enough money from art to sustain themselves.” I have experienced countless lessons in my life, but this is the most important one I developed on my own. I am excited and exceedingly proud of my journey to find that belief, the way I discovered it, and what this realization means to me. I believe what you are meant to do in life is what you love most.