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College Admissions Essay-What Doesn T Break You, Makes You

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What Doesn’t Break You, Makes You At one point in my life, I didn’t have any friends. Quite literally, I lacked substantial friends, save for one here and there. My solitude lasted throughout my first middle school year. Eventually, I decided to try a new approach. Unfortunately for me, I had embedded the bright idea of becoming the class (or should I say classes) clown in my pre-pubescent brain. Making corny jokes, abusing the ever present bathroom humor, etc. All of this took place in my daily routine, in the hopes that someone would actually want to become friends with the weird kid. Of course, I still had the naivety that most people my age have at the time, unaware of the cruelty that people can exhibit. I unknowingly positioned myself …show more content…

Personally, I strive to make friends with the loners. Some amazing people live out there in the world, too shy to come out of their shell and show everyone their exuberance. Either they’re too shy, or they reject people, for the fear of their own rejection. I try to allay their fears by offering my hand in friendship. Some people accept it, some don’t. Admittedly, I took a huge step forward. In all honesty, I’m glad I did. Thirdly, I’ve learned how to protect myself and others. I started learning the Korean martial arts known as Tae Kwon Do. Through taking Tae Kwon Do, I’ve learned self-control and discipline. I have become brave, and can freely speak up for myself without fear of rebuke. I can hold my head high. Nobody can define Hayden Ackerman. Only I can define myself, because I know my core values. Ultimately, my experience with bullying traumatized me. What would I have done differently? Honestly, I wouldn’t have changed anything. For all I know, if I had done something differently, I probably wouldn’t understand the joys of homeschooling. I wouldn’t have people that care or understand me close by. Honestly, I’m sort of…glad that I experienced bullying. It opened a door, leading to numerous possibilities. Thankfully, that door still hangs

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