What Doesn’t Break You, Makes You At one point in my life, I didn’t have any friends. Quite literally, I lacked substantial friends, save for one here and there. My solitude lasted throughout my first middle school year. Eventually, I decided to try a new approach. Unfortunately for me, I had embedded the bright idea of becoming the class (or should I say classes) clown in my pre-pubescent brain. Making corny jokes, abusing the ever present bathroom humor, etc. All of this took place in my daily routine, in the hopes that someone would actually want to become friends with the weird kid. Of course, I still had the naivety that most people my age have at the time, unaware of the cruelty that people can exhibit. I unknowingly positioned myself …show more content…
Personally, I strive to make friends with the loners. Some amazing people live out there in the world, too shy to come out of their shell and show everyone their exuberance. Either they’re too shy, or they reject people, for the fear of their own rejection. I try to allay their fears by offering my hand in friendship. Some people accept it, some don’t. Admittedly, I took a huge step forward. In all honesty, I’m glad I did. Thirdly, I’ve learned how to protect myself and others. I started learning the Korean martial arts known as Tae Kwon Do. Through taking Tae Kwon Do, I’ve learned self-control and discipline. I have become brave, and can freely speak up for myself without fear of rebuke. I can hold my head high. Nobody can define Hayden Ackerman. Only I can define myself, because I know my core values. Ultimately, my experience with bullying traumatized me. What would I have done differently? Honestly, I wouldn’t have changed anything. For all I know, if I had done something differently, I probably wouldn’t understand the joys of homeschooling. I wouldn’t have people that care or understand me close by. Honestly, I’m sort of…glad that I experienced bullying. It opened a door, leading to numerous possibilities. Thankfully, that door still hangs
I’m awesome. It’s true. Everyone who meets me will agree, and by the end of this essay, you will too. I am from the small town of Mexico, Missouri where I haved lived my whole life. I was born on January 4, 2000. I am the millennium baby because I was the first baby born in 2000 in the the town of Mexico and I got to ride home in a limo. I went to elementary school at Hawthorne and then to the Middle School and now I am a Junior at The Mexico High School. I play basketball, football, and baseball. This summer I worked at the City Pool as a lifeguard. Last summer I worked at Pearl Motor Company for my dad. That job was definitely a lot harder than being a lifeguard, but I enjoyed both jobs. One of my favorite hobbies is hunting. I love to Turkey hunt and also deer hunt. I’ve killed three turkeys and one deer. One of my other hobbies is snow skiing. I usually get to go to Colorado every year with my church and I've been three times with my family. This is just a little bit of who I am.
Regardless of the fact that I was a dare devil as a child, I have learned to take chances, be my own person and to take on as many adventures as possible. As a child I would always be doing something, whether I would be talking to new people or going to find a rock to jump off of. It wasn’t always a good quality to have because I would take my adventures too far and put myself in a situation where I could come to be hurt. Nevertheless, I am still alive functioning and it made me the person I am today.
When I was seven I moved to a new school where I didn’t know anyone. The first person I became friends with was a girl named Carly who was and is a great person although her ADHD sometimes made others misjudge her as annoying or weird. This misjudgment lasted well into middle school and even high school. We grew apart as we got older and moved in different directions, but we still hung out occasionally. And I still felt the connection between the two of us, it only made sense that I should remain friends with her, even if we didn’t talk often. So, when, in the 9th grade, someone whom I considered a friend started making fun of Carly, who wasn’t there, I wouldn’t stand for it. I calmly, yet admittedly assertively, told them that what they were
My greatest challenge was overcoming my social issues. Two years ago I walked through the doors of Montgomery Middle School after moving from another small town...again. Before that, we had moved every year, so I never made lasting friendships.
I would alter the world to where bullying could be something of the past. Bullying from people I considered my friends has left a lasting mental scar on me. I now have a lot of trouble talking to people, which in turn has resulted in me having a smaller friend group. Previous bullying has also left me with low self-esteem. Fake compliments and insults have made it hard for me to believe true compliments. I also flinch when someone moves their hand too quickly in my direction.
Ever since I was little I have aspired to be something great in life, a chef, a pro. soccer player, and an artist. I still hold on to those dreams in hopes they will come true. All of these dreams shape who I am today. I play soccer for “Charlotte Soccer Academy” and previously for the “Waddell Soccer Team”. Both have kept me being a team player and a stronger leader. I go to visual arts camp over the summer and try to use creativity at any moment possible. I love making cupcakes and baking which also allow me to be creative. I have finally realized that all of these dreams originated from my family. I pursued soccer, like my parents did throughout their lives. I continue drawing, like my mother and father did until it became their life and jobs. I am still love making cakes and cupcakes every weekend, just like how i've seen my grandmother make them. Life has a very strange and mind-boggling way of turning out. I know that sounds cheesy, but it is really true.
They say that there is nothing to fear but fear itself, yet I tend to disagree. Our world is packed full of things to be afraid of. As a child, we are afraid of the dark or monsters hiding underneath our beds; but, as we grow with wisdom and age, those fears become bigger and more worldly. We fear things like terrorism or illness. The fear that consumes me most is that my best might never be enough.
“We know what we are, but not what we may be” (William Shakespeare). Life is full of unexpected surprises you never know what life will bring or take away from you, so cherish every moment you have. You got to have limits, goals and aspirations to go somewhere in life. There will be obstacles and struggles that you will have to go through but those moments are what make you who you are. In my life I’ve learned, heard and seen several things that have made me who I am today. For those reasons I have set myself limits, goals and aspirations that I wish to accomplish throughout my life. In one word, I would describe myself to be ambitious! I always set some kind of goals towards myself.
Ever since 8th grade, I have worked hard a lot more when I play volleyball. Right when the varsity coaches asked me to join their practice, I knew that I had to work hard and that it will pay off. Now, at every practice, I would play my heart out even if I was playing with a fractured finger or a rolled ankle.
In the novel life lessons:two experts on death and dying teach us the mysteries of life and living. The novel talks about many lessons such as
I’m walking in the hallway coming back from music class, and I see my best friend Erdem inputting his locker combination. What else would I do but mess him up? He doesn’t do anything, so I do it again, and it’s hilarious to both of us. Then, my other friend Justin comes up to us, and he laughs. We’re all laughing because we can mess with each other and not get mad. I have many friends in Demarest Middle School that I can mess with or be weird with, and they wouldn’t judge or make fun of me. In the past, it didn’t occur to me that I could actually make friends and not be a social outcast in a new school. Well, I did.
It was halfway through my sophomore year when my mom and two older sisters sprints down the stairs and storms out the house. Confused and worried, continuing to curl my hair. My mom walks back in towards me with a gruesome look in her eyes. With so many ideas already running through my head, I was notified that my grandmother was killed by my uncle. I cannot even describe my sense of emotion at the time. Confusion, hatred, and hopelessness all merged into one. And all I could think about was just giving up on everything. That is until my pastor said these words that I will always remember; “You're going to get through this, just have faith.” I took in those words and began to put his words into action
Throughout the years, I have taken some writing and speech classes. While in high school, I was honored with being able to take college classes. I have seen numerous ways my literacy has improved. From texting to sending Facebook messages, my grammar and spelling has changed dramatically. I never realized how annoying and immature it was communicating that way back then. After I pass this class, my WOVE will be outstanding and will help me incorporate it in the real world.
If you asked the younger version of myself what failure was it would have included not earning straight A’s or not turning in my homework on time. Little did I know, the meaning of failure is not always as innocent as those days on the playground. The moment I entered junior year, I knew I discovered the world was filled with more diverse forms of what failure meant.
Everyone may face a bad things in life, and suddenly for some reasons it turn to be good things. At some point it may forces us to things we weren’t thinking about, change our lives. One of the bad things that happened to me is not attended to law school which it was my dream. My story begins when I graduated from high school, and continued until I obtained college degree, and having a job in one of the largest companies in Saudi Arabia.