Happiness and Sadness are two emotions that people experience in their everyday lives; however,
happiness is considered more than sadness. People always want to get rid of sadness and often suggest
to every sad person, “Get over it; take a pill” (Sharon Begley, Happiness: Enough Already, 457).
Happiness and sadness co-exist together. No one can experience happiness without sadness; however,
sadness can be experienced without happiness. An important element of finding happiness is practicing
compassion and sadness that leads to be more compassionate, kind, and loving person.
All our important events in life are colored with sadness. In the article, “In Pursuit of Happiness,” Mark
Kingwell states that, “The New English Dictionary,
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According to the above quote, happiness can be achieved from success, but success can never be
achieved without sadness. People who are successful today was once trying to complete their dreams,
and in order to do that, they have faced so many failure attempts which caused them sadness, anger
and fear. Sadness increases the level of happiness.
Sadness helps people to realize what they have. When people are happy, they tend to enjoy the
moment and do not care about anything; however, when people are sad, they tend to retrospect their
old memories. Suddenly, they try to appreciate those happy times. Sadness is pivotal for our happy
moments. Sadness shows us the importance of persons in our lives. When our boyfriend or girlfriend left
us, we realize how much attached we are to that person.
Sadness helps us to see who our real friends are. In many difficult situations, mean friends leave us
halfway to deal alone; however, real friends stands by our side and help us in every possible way.
Sadness actually saves us from two-faced peoples.
By emphasizing happiness, we risk our lives in different ways. People spend so much money on buying
self-help books which are worth nothing. Sometimes, being too happy can be harmful. It ends
“How ironic --- he waged war against the English for ten long years and then died in his bed like anyone else” (Dumas 2). Dantes was speaking to Monsieur Morrel about Captain Leclere’s death. I took a particular liking to this quote because no matter who we are or what we do in life, we all end up in the same place. “Joy sometimes has a strange effect: it can oppress us almost as much as sorrow” (Dumas 18). Dantes said this to Danglars and Caderousse.
Trained in the profession of psychology, Sharon Begley had multiple pieces published in The Wall Street Journal, and conducted several survey critiques of happiness. Begley introduces the article by talking about a book labeled “The Loss of Sadness: How Psychiatry Transformed Normal Sorrow Into Depressive Disorder.” Essentially, the novel depicts how today’s society relies too much on a pill for solving ones disputes. It is normal to feel dismal after an event such as a break up, and instead of letting an individual cope with the feelings the assumption is that a person is depressed and needs to seek medical attention. Begley proceeds to touch on the fact that “...only by experiencing sadness can we experience the fullness of the human condition” (557). It is necessary to feel all different emotions rather than masking them all with one. Begley is not stating that happiness is a bad thing, rather she interprets that it is healthier to be in a state where you can have improvement in your life.
A person’s happiness can have an impact on others. People can get agitated because a group or individual is at peace or sons and daughter can be happy as a result of witnessing their parents being content. Delightment is capable of encouraging expansion of one’s knowledge. For instance, if one realizes their potential in achieving greatness in a certain subject, the satisfaction could lead to desiring to draw in more knowledge, knowing the greatness that individual can achieve. Someone who is depressed doesn’t have the motivation to achieve something positive. There are people that misinterpret or have a negative pleasure and peace of mind. That’s the incredible potential happiness
What drives you? What keeps your motivation flowing? The gripping story of Chris Gardner will surely spark a fire to the success you desire. “The Pursuit of Happyness” is a book that also inspired the self-titled movie. These two works have the ultimate story of triumph and self-perseverance. With both works being released in 2006, both number one seller for their respective audiences; they did carry many similarities and differences. Discussing each work, I will compare and contrast both works with the theme, settings, and characters and navigate the overall message they provide.
People travel through life with what seems like a single goal: to be happy. This may seem like a selfish way to live, however this lone objective is the motivation behind nearly all actions. Even seemingly selfless deeds make people feel better about themselves. That warm feeling experienced while doing charitable acts can be described as happiness. But what is authentic happiness? There is an endless possibility of answers to this question, and man seems to be always searching for the solution. Although one may reach his or her goals, there is always still something one strives for in order to be happy. In the book Stumbling on Happiness, Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert takes the reader through
Happiness is a fickle concept and is something every person on this planet seeks out for self-fulfillment. Happiness also gives our lives a sense of perfection. Everyone is in the pursuit of happiness, but not all will find it with guarantee. Happiness can occur at any point in someone’s life, depending on the circumstance or what the individual desires greatly. However, happiness does not come and should not arise from materialistic values. James Hamblin uses the rhetorical devices of ethos, pathos, and logos to promote this theory of how happiness is achieved in “Buy Experiences, Not Things” to show the reader that there is more to life than materialistic values.
People tend to feel the most happiness in their daily lives rather than happiness over all. For instance, if someone opens the door for you, does something outrageous, tells a funny story or simply reacts kindly to you, you can experience happiness. Laughing at someones joke can cause you to feel happy even for just a moment. Another definition of happiness in our daily lives is self appreciation such as, getting that new raise, getting an A on a test or even getting into the college you want. These examples all cause happiness in different but still rather large ways. We seem to think that happiness is so difficult to come by, we focus so hard on what happiness is that we don't even realize the simple things in life that are truly making a difference. We can become significantly happy without even noticing. Although happiness seems like it’s hard to find it’s not all that difficult. What’s hard to come by is the feeling of genuine happiness ; genuine happiness is what people truly look for.
Happiness: a Human Disease -- An Examination of the Allegorical Theme of Existentialism in the Happy Man
“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.” -- Denis Waitley
Happiness is a key to everybodys life. Even the most depressed man on earth has a little happiness deep down inside. Its what keeps us striving to fulfil our needs and wants on an everyday basis. There is not one kid who does not get excited over a dollar to spend at the candy shop. What about the feeling of getting a promotion at your job, or even finding the cure for cancer. Being happy is not just healthy, but it is also rewarding for each and every individual. We strive to find anything that will turn a bad day to a good one. Individuals will compromise to attain their happiness. You can not get what you want without giving something first.
Throughout life, we will all experience sadness and anxiety as a result of the stresses of life. This is a normal response to the different hardships that we might encounter in life. Tragedies such as getting fired from a job, getting a divorce, losing a loved one, or having any other form of disappointment can cause the person who is experiencing the hardship to feel sad, scared, lonely, or even hopeless. Even though these feelings are normal responses to difficult situations which are typically resolved with time, some people unexplainably experience these feelings daily, making it difficult and almost impossible to function. Often times these people may be experiencing depression, an anxiety
Happiness is a result that we deserved, furthermore, it becomes a motivation for us to keep trying and getting success in life.
Sadness is an emotion similar to a complicated math problem, it can be expressed and more than one way and might have more than one answer. What makes me sad in my life now is the close minded people who are so shut up in their own little world to understand anything that involves another person's hardships. I’m sad for the people who are uneducated about emotions especially sadness, but instead are told to suck it up and don’t cry. I am sad for those who are sad, people who feel alone and lost within the swirling thoughts that never seem to end, a constant whirlpool. People need to know they have support and someone to talk to. In the future I hope for more awareness of these difficulties that are sometimes ignored by the only people who can help
Belmaker and Agam (2008) described that depression is very similar to the normal emotions of sadness or bereavement, except that sadness does not subside even after the external cause is removed. Likewise, when bereavement or normal sadness exacerbates disproportionately to the external cause, depression is likely appropriate to be considered.
Without happiness, people might not be living their lives the way they yearn to. This is a prominent part of the