Comparing Love And Marriage In Shakespeare's Romeo And Juliet

Juliet's attitude towards love and marriage changes significantly throughout the play, at first she never even thought about marriage, but then falls deeply in love with Romeo, as a result Juliet decides she can’t live without Romeo and kill’s herself.

At the outset, when Capulet is talking about marriage proposals to Paris, he shows his fatherly love and concern for his daughter and her happiness. He doesn’t want to marry her off too early, or force her to marry someone that she doesn’t like. He conveys this by saying, “Earth hath swallowed all my hoped but she… woo her gentle Paris, and her consent is but a part.” This shows that Capulet cares about Juliet because she is the only hope that he has left. He tells Paris to “woo her gently” and not to push, or pressurise Juliet into marrying him, this shows his concern about her. In addition to that, Capulet tells Paris that Juliet’s “consent is but a part” which shows his consideration and trust in Juliet, that she is allowed to have her say in the marriage and that he trusts her to choose the right husband. He also doesn’t want her to marry at such a young age; this is made clear when he says “let two more summers wither in their pride

leave each other. "Let me be ta'en, let me be put to death". He was so

he is later in the play. He thinks that Juliet is too young and if she

He changes his mind very quickly and can flip-flop between what he wants for Juliet. For example, as Paris and Capulet are talking to each other Paris asks Lord Capulet for his permission to marry Juliet. Capulet then replies, “My will to her consent is but a part. And, she agreed, within her scope of choice lies my consent and fair according voice.” (1.2.17-19). In this quote, Lord Capulet is saying that his decision is only a part and if Juliet agrees to marry Paris his blessing will confirm her choice. Soon after Tybalt’s death, Capulet and Paris speak to one another once again. Tybalt suggests marrying Juliet to stop her mourning over the death of her cousin, Tybalt, and Lord Capulet agrees. Once Lord Capulet hears Juliet’s perspective on not marrying Paris he threatens her by saying, “I tell thee what: get thee to church o’ Thursday, or never after look me in the face” (3.5.167-168). This quote shows that Lord Capulet is forcing Juliet to marry Paris or else she cannot return back home. He doesn’t listen to Juliet’s opinion and seems to not care if she is happy or not with the marriage. This proves that Lord Capulet is fickle and is most responsible for Juliet’s

do not think this is genuine love to me as he later falls in love with

Capulet will go to extreme measures to do what he thinks is right for his daughter. Capulet thinks that it is inevitable for Juliet to marry Paris and goes as far as saying “I’ll tell you what: get to church on Thursday, or never look me in the face again. Don’t say anything! Don’t reply! Don’t answer me back! My fingers are itching! Wife, we thought we were very lucky that God gave us this only child – but now I realize that this one is one too many and we’ve been cursed in having her! To blazes with her, the worthless creature!” (185). In his rant he fails to realize that this is truly not what Juliet wants and that this is not what’s best for her. The only thing in the way of Juliet marring Paris is that she secretly loves Romeo and is waiting for the day that she reunites with him and they live happily ever after. This rant by Lord Capulet turns Juliet against her father and shows the readers that Lord Capulet is not the loving father he once was. Later in the play, Juliet is found dead because of Lord Capulet’s insensitivity and ignorance towards her

tension, the second he lays his eyes on her he says “if I profane with

Paris knows Juliet does not wish to marry him, yet this only makes him more determined to marry her as he sees Juliet as a prize, to show his superiority over everyone else. In today’s society, we would view Lord Capulet as a cold, unfeeling father because of the way he treats his daughter, but Lord Capulet is a prime example of Shakespearian fathers. His only wish is to make a good marriage for his daughter, but she rejects his help. Capulet doesn’t know Juliet has fallen for Romeo and so cannot be expected to understand why she doesn’t wish to marry Paris.

What is love? Is it an object? Is it a feeling? Is it even attainable? Love is everything, it is an object, it is an emotion, and it cannot be bought, stolen, given. Love can only be found. Love is discovered in the most unthinkable places during the most unimaginable times. It can never be predicted who you fall in love with or when you do but all you do know is that you are in love and you would give anything for that person, and for your love to always stay resilient through all other obstacles and distractions. In Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, Montague’s and Capulet’s are know and expected to hate each other until the miracle of love presented its self. Romeo is a Montague and Juliet is a Capulet. They both fell in love when

Love is a word that can be described in many ways. It has many facets that’s give it a deeper meaning. In the passages, Duty, Pyramus & Thisbe, and Romeo & Juliet they explore many facets of love such as sacrifice and forbidden facet of love. In this essay, we will discuss how this portrays love in each of these texts.

In Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, the ever so difficult subjects of marriage and relationships are at the forefront of the audience's mind. Between Paris’ persistence to obtain Juliet’s hand and her fathers desire for Juliet to be happy, it is an absolute wonder how the girl is going to make a decision. The first discussion of marriage is brought to the table by Juliet’s mother; Lady Capulet, who is making her opinion about marriage strongly known; saying: “Well, think of marriage now; younger than you,/Here in Verona, ladies of esteem,/Are made already mothers” (I, iii, 70-72).

What is love? Love is trusting one another, being honest, helping one another, taking the time to know each other, and it is being understanding of one another. It takes time to get to know someone. In Romeo and Juliet, Romeo falls in love with Juliet in a matter of hours. Romeo fell out of love and in love so fast that it was lust and not love.

Throughout the story of Romeo and Juliet, Juliet’s opinion on love and marriage changes immensely from not wanting to get married to getting married back to hating the idea of marrying someone other than Romeo. In the beginning of the story Juliet did not like the idea of getting married and even told her mother “It is an honor that I dream not of.” While her mother was talking to her about getting married. Later on in the story Juliet meets Romeo and they fall in love, although their families are rivals. One night while Romeo was visiting Juliet she told him “O, swear not by the moon, th' inconstant moon,” because she wanted consistency from Romeo so they could pursue their relationship.

Is love a special connection or is it something more physical? Throughout many centuries the perspective of love has always revolved around an association that the two people have in common. William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, we see how love is diverse; Romeo talked about Rosaline. He mentioned that he was very depressed and even offered her money to marry him. Today, love is a crave, something that people do not take much time to think on.