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Comparing Those Winter Sundays 'And My Papa's Waltz'

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Cassidy Bulger The poems “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden and “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke both reflect upon the relationship between a father and his son. The two poems outline two different situations, but a combination of negative and positive feelings are present in both. In “Those Winter Sundays” a son realizes his father’s unappreciated acts of love and feels guilt for not appreciating him. In “My Papa’s Waltz,” a son, though abused, longs to gain the love of his father. The two poems are both able to portray a relationship between father and son that contains a mixture of love and harshness. In “Those Winter Sundays,” the father shows his love for his family by keeping the house warm, and the shoes polished. No one in his house ever thanked him for it, but that was not what the father wanted. His labors were out of love, not the expectation of thanks. The speaker recounts the fact that he would often speak “indifferently to him” (Line 10). Eventually, the speaker understands that this was how his father showed his love; “What did I know, what did I know of love’s austere and lonely offices?” (Lines 13-14). Once the speaker realizes this, a sense of guilt is conveyed by the speaker who did not appreciate his father’s actions. …show more content…

The father is a drunken man who abuses his son, but the son accepts his father’s actions and continues to seek love from him. The boy would “waltz” with his father while the mother watched with fear, and with “every step you missed, my right ear scraped a buckle. You beat time on my head…” (Lines 11-13). The father drunkenly abused his son, but the son who “...hung on like death...Still clinging to your shirt” (Lines 3 and 16) was longing to be loved. The tone of this poem is violent and harsh due to the unhealthy relationship between father and

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