Coping Mechanism Disparity Between Men and Women After a Breakup

Effective communication is one of the most important things to maintain a happy relationship. Communication will help to create a better atmosphere and to know what are the interests, thoughts and feelings of your loved one. All romantic relationships need a lot of communications from both sides. The main factor is interpersonal communication, which couples are able to overlap environments and create a relationship. We reviewed the movie “The Breakup” and have found the concepts of Integrating, differentiating, and terminating. This movie shows how ineffective communication can dissolve a relationship. The lack of communication is the main factor why Brooke and Gary break up. This couple tends to rely on other people instead

Throughout our lives, many of us crave and strive to be loved and cherished. Many find purpose and happiness when they share reciprocated affection with another person. Heartbreak often occurs when what we wished for in a relationship is not returned in the same manner. Miranda in “Sexy” by Jhumpa Lahiri felt this at the end of her relationship with a married man named Dev. He had treated her unlike anyone else before. This caused her to believe their relationship meant the same to him as it did to her, despite him being married to another women. Mr. Kapasi in “Interpreter of Maladies” found affection towards a woman who was cold towards her family, but was warm and showed great interest in him. He had started to believe she was different

Whether you eat a whole tub of chocolate ice cream while crying or you party like a rock star all weekend while drinking, a break up is a break up. If you’re the person who eats a whole tub of chocolate ice cream, you probably accompanied it with romantic movies. Although they are comforting for the time being, they always leave you to wonder, why didn’t my break up didn’t have a happy ending like the ones in the movies? In Peyton Reed’s 2006 romantic comedy, The Break-Up, it portrays the realistic events and feelings of a failed relationship. In comparison to other romantic comedies, this film seems to stand out because it teaches the audience the lesson that not all break ups leads to make ups.

Relationships with a significant other can turn into something that is life-long, or can turn into something brief and can lead to a lot of hurt feelings. Breakups are already hard to go through and sometimes people do not know how to deal with it. There are certain factors that can go into a relationship that are indicators of the failure of the relationship. Past relationships can also be an indicator on whether or not the post relationship dissolution will be positive or negative. Stress is another factor that can make getting over relationships much harder, this is seen especially in young adults. Coping mechanisms to learn can lead to a faster recovery of a person’s mental state and allow someone to become more positive and make new romantic relationships. Relationship dissolution can happen to any couple, early recognition of problems can show if the relationship will be successful or fail. Stress from breakups is also common and knowing ways to deal with it can make it easier to go through. Ways to cope can positively increase a person’s well-being and instead of letting the relationship get to your head, it can make it easier to overcome.

Love is what makes us creative, or it can also nail us to pain. If we pay attention we will see that Failed Romance can show our blind spot, our well-hidden trauma. Right there, instead of getting into a new Romantic commitment, we should stop and think what made the relationship collapsed?

Everyone who loves eventually go through it. Whether somebody you loved broke up with you or somebody you loved died. A heartbreak can truly “76 percent of people say that being lovesick after a breakup is understated and that it can lead to major emotional and physical problems (Gueren).” “But rejection also sends blood flow to two other areas: the secondary somatosensory cortex and the dorsal posterior insula, both involved in producing physical pain. That's why you may feel achy all over, not just in your heart (Beil).” Not loving someone will prevent you from receiving a heartache will which will allow you to stay healthier instead of getting your heart broken and risking your health and being a debbie-downer. Instead, people should just treat themselves to chipotle or ice cream. Yes, it’s not that great for your health as well but at least you’re happy as you eat it instead of being all mopey and just feeling all broken with no sight of what’s going on with your

Almost everyone will go through a breakup. Those who have been through a rough breakup may agree that heartache hurts. Individuals handle breakups in many different ways; some might become depressed, stop eating, or even overeat. In Aaliyah’s “I Don’t Wanna” and FeFe Dobson’s “Can’t Breath”, each artist expresses their emotional response to handling a breakup. Each are fighting to hold on to the relationship and not wanting to believe that the relationship is actually over.

The Break-Up in summary is a movie about a couple, Gary and Brook, who break up after dating for 2 years. The couple live together in a Boston condo. The first instance of the couple’s dysfunction is when Gary came home from work one day and Brook asked him to do few things to help her before a family dinner party that was going to arrive in 20 minutes. This then proceed to turn into several arguments throughout the night. As a result, of a heat of moment action, Brook says she’s done with the relationship (for further details please refer to the video clips from the presentation). The rest of the movie is about Brook trying to get Gary see that she didn’t want to break up; that what she had said about being “done” was not true. Therefore, Brook tried to create situations that would make Gary jealous, but instead actually drove them further apart.

Breakups are hard, to say the least. It’s a similar idea to being addicted to some sort of drug and going through withdraw. Well, that would be in the most extreme of cases, anyways. Many people deal with breakups in different ways. What is generally expected would be a lot of crying and maybe some anger mixed in. Some people are calm about it, to the point of it showing no effect to them. Usually, I would see myself being the calm person, yet I find myself in my ex’s closet, looking out on an empty room in an attempt to see whatever he could be doing.

What makes an individual who they are is diversity. Part of diversity, is personality; on the other hand, it is the challenges one has been through, and how that individual chooses to respond to the situation. Individuals are not born with opinions, they are molded by our struggles, these struggles can transform into motivations. For example, if a person were to lose their father to lung cancer, they would be less likely to pick up the grim habit of smoking. Most of life’s motivations originate from loss and observations. My catastrophe was remarkably like any other teenage loss, a break up. A large quantity of teenagers have breakup stories, but I feel as if mine is unique and inspiring.

You see, what is typical is that people take the brunt of the breakup on themselves. They take the blame for the breakup and they often agree with their ex. No matter what their ex might say, they agree and try frantically to change in order to suit their ex. Their ex's reasons for breaking up with them could be completely insane but they will still want to change while hoping that their ex will take them

Try not to be cruel, be honest, don’t say things that might confuse or hurt like bringing back the past or the reasons why you want to end it. Be prepared for any reaction, the dumped can react since he or she didn’t see it coming. You should try to be comforting but not too attach but also don’t just storm out of there. For both of you to have a chance to move on, you should avoid each other and if you have each other’s thing try to sort it out so you both won’t have an argument. The best lesson of a failed relationship is to learn from it and don’t let it repeat it. Also know when to walk away, why be bickering about a lost cause.

Undoubtedly, the experiences serve as lessons learned. Dealing with a broken heart is never an easy task—sometimes people fall

The aim of this paper is to shed light on the reality of how painful a break up can be due to the studies that verify the impact of a breakup on a person for the society to understand and sympathies with the victim of the breakup and for the victim of the breakup, to understand why breakups hurt so much and create that much pain making the victim go through a traumatizing event and not understand what’s happening . Breakups are often discussed in a way that suggests that they have little to no effect on personal well-being and it’s just something a person needs to get over when in reality the breakup is one of hardest events a person can go through especially if the relationship was a serious romantic one that lasted for a long time

It 's apparent that not every relationship stands the test of time. In hindsight, it is much easier to see why the relationship needed to end, but during the heat of the moment, emotions make it almost impossible to get out of it, even if you are not happy.