Coping Methods Can Be Directed By Spirituality

The life transition of death and dying is inevitably one with which we will all be faced; we will all experience the death of people we hold close throughout our lifetime. This paper will explore the different processes of grief including the bereavement, mourning, and sorrow individuals go through after losing someone to death. Bereavement is a period of adaptation following a life changing loss. This period encompasses mourning, which includes behaviors and rituals following a death, and the wide range of emotions that go with it. Sorrow is the state of ongoing sadness not overcome in the grieving process; though not pathological, persistent

Loss is a phenomenon that is experienced by all. Death is experienced by family members as a unique and elevated form of loss which is modulated by potent stages of grief. Inevitably, everyone will lose someone with whom they had a personal relationship and emotional connection and thus experience an aftermath that can generally be described as grief. Although bereavement, which is defined as a state of sorrow over the death or departure of a loved one, is a universal experience it varies widely across gender, age, and circumstance (definitions.net, 2015). Indeed the formalities and phases associated with bereavement have been recounted and theorized in literature for years. These philosophies are quite diverse but

My mom's brother died at a young age, and her mom died of ALS. My dad´s mom died from cancer when he was seven, and his dad died when I was one year old. We were taught that death is part of a life cycle, and it eventually will happen to all of us. We were taught to not mourn the loss of a loved one, but to celebrate the life that they lived. My mom's brother had a disease that made his legs not work. Mom told me that whenever she felt sad about the death of her brother she would think about how happy he is in heaven, because he would have legs that he could use. Other people handle death in a different way. Many people cry, and feel really sad about death. Others like to share happy moments in the loved one´s life. I do believe there is a right and wrong way to grieve. Of course most people will shed tears and be upset for maybe a few weeks. But many people will go on and on about the sadness. It's almost like they shut down. They could start making bad decisions, stop doing hobbies that they like, or turn against their religion. I believe the right way to grieve is to celebrate the loved one´s life. Talking about good memories is a great way to cope with the death. Surrounding yourself with family and friends who can help give you a shoulder to cry on or talk about good memories they had with the loved one that passed

Death is a part of life and eventually everyone on this earth will experience it. Nurses play an important role in death. Mourning the death of a loved one is something that almost everyone will experience in this lifetime because it is a natural response to death. Bereavement, grief and mourning are all effected by one’s culture, religion, the relationship with the deceased, personality, and how the person died.

Dying is a process that involves the entire family; that is to say, the family that is defined by the person. The nurse must be aware that this is not only an individual process but a family process. This involves recognizing family dynamics and communication patterns and facilitating healthy interactions.

Death is a universally experienced phenomenon. In the United States alone, over 2.6 million people die each year (Center for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2015). For practitioners, it is of utmost importance to better understand the process of grief to develop better interventions for bereaved individuals.

Death is inevitable at some point everyone must face it. Whether it is the death of a family member, friend, or a family pet, people are forced to deal with the death. Nurses however have more frequent encounters with death than the average person does. When a patient dies in a healthcare setting his or her nurse is obligated to deal with that as well. They must find ways to cope with the increased amount of death that

At times the dying patient’s loved ones become the nurse’s patients. As stated in End-of-Life Care: Caring for the Dying Patient and Family of the Dying Patient, “End-of-life (EOL) care of the dying patient and the patient’s family encompasses a variety of interventions that meet the physical needs of the patient and the emotional/psychosocial needs of the patient and the family. The rationale for EOL care is to provide physical comfort for the patient by managing pain and reducing emotional stress, and to promote effective coping and spiritual comfort for the patient and family” (Woten and Schub, 2016). As future nurses, it is critical that we acknowledge the potential we hold, we treasure the gift we have been given and we take our responsibilities

Death and dying is a natural and unavoidable process that all living creatures will experience at some point in life, whether it is one’s own person death or the death of a close friend or family member. Along with the experience of death comes the process of grieving which is the dealing and coping with the loss of the loved one. Any living thing can grieve and relate to a loss, even children (Shortle, Young, & Williams, 1993). “Childhood grief and mourning of family and friends may have immediate and long-lasting consequences including depression, anxiety, social withdrawal, behavioral disturbances, and school underachievement” (Kaufman & Kaufman, 2006, p. 61). American children today grow up in cultures that attempt to avoid grief and

Grief is the act following the loss of a loved one. While grief and bereavement are normal occurrences, the grief process is a social construct of how someone should behave. The acceptable ways that people grieve change because of this construct. For a time it was not acceptable to grieve; today, however, it is seen as a necessary way to move on from death (Scheid, 2011).The grief process has been described as a multistage event, with each stage lasting for a suggested amount of time to be considered “normal” and reach resolution. The beginning stage of grief is the immediate shock, disbelief, and denial lasting from hours to weeks (Wambach, 1985). The middle stage is the acute mourning phase that can include somatic and emotional turmoil. This stage includes acknowledging the event and processing it on various levels, both mentally and physically. The final stage is a period of

“Ordinary people” everywhere are faced day after day with the ever so common tragedy of losing a loved one. As we all know death is inevitable. We live with this harsh reality in the back of our mind’s eye. Only when we are shoved in the depths of despair can we truly understand the multitude of emotions brought forth. Although people may try to be empathetic, no one can truly grasp the rawness felt inside of a shattered heart until death has knocked at their door. We live in an environment where death is invisible and denied, yet we have become desensitized to it. These inconsistencies appear in the extent to which families are personally affected by death—whether they

The passing of a loved one is a universal experience and every person will experience loss or heartache, at some point in their life. Some people obviously appear upset, some do not, grief is individual, dependent on; age, gender, development stage, personality, their normal stress reactions, the support available, their relationships or attachments, other death experiences, how others react to their own grief around them (Thompson & Hendry, 2012).

Marilyn’s level of income in factory work is also significant because it is a pre-determined fact of mortality. The relationship of each state’s income gap and the age-adjusted mortality rate showed that “mortality is higher in states where the income gap is greater than in states where the income gap is smaller” (Anderson, 2003, p. 179). Although, in her home state of Ohio, the rates were just about in the very middle.

spirituality could aid in the coping with negative life events (Pargament, Ensing, Falgout, et al., 1990). The sample in this study was selected from ten Midwestern churches, representing a range of denominations and consisted of 586 participants. It found that beliefs in a just benevolent God, the experience of God as a supportive partner in coping, involvement in religious rituals, and the search for support through religion were associated with more positive outcomes; and Spiritually based coping activities related most strongly and consistently to positive outcomes, contributing unique variance to the prediction of each of the outcome scales (Pargament, Ensing, Falgout, et al., 1990). Spirituality can help with the coping of significant negative events, including death illness, injury, divorce, and problems at work. It can be a buffer against stressful live events and help many people overcome distress and difficulties. After the attacks on the World Trade Center and the pentagon on September 11, 2001, 90% of Americans coped with the stress by turning

You may not have thought about your role as a caregiver for the family of a dying patient. Besides a few lectures in class about cultural and social factors impacting nursing care, this topic of dealing with the death of a patient is often glossed over. From my own experience knowing what to do or say when someone is suffering the loss of a loved one is not something nursing students spend a lot of time learning about in class nor is it easy to prepare for. This paper briefly looks at ways nursing staff can support families during the actively dying phase, the time of death, and immediately following the patient’s death in the hospital care setting. A nurse once recommended the book On Death and Dying to me, by Kubler- Ross. It was put perfectly