Introduction Cross Dressing has been at the center of debate for many years. There are conflicting opinions concerning the origin of the behavior and individuals that behave in this manner. The purpose of this discussion is to research human sexuality of cross dressing as it relates to psychology. We will investigate the findings published in several books and journals concerning cross dressing. The research will also focus on the treatments that are available for individuals that cross dress and their families. Let’s begin our discussion by defining cross dressing and the psychological factors that can lead to the behavior. Cross Dressing Defining Cross Dressing can be a rather arduous task because it is a complex subject. …show more content…
(Bullough) The author asserts that the husband must be completely honest with his wife about the behavior. (Bullough) In addition, if a cross dresser is about to get married he should inform his future wife. (Bullough) The author contends that being honest about this behavior to the future wife will allow her to deal with the situation better. (Bullough) An article in, The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, explains that some women leave the relationship even if the husband is honest about his behavior. (Cairns) On the other hand, many stay for the sake of the children. (Cairns)The author explains that there are psychological reasons why these choices are made. The article asserts, “the wife who stays with a deviant husband, whether for the sake of the children, lack of alternatives, or even her love for him, is, almost by definition, psychologically deficient; whilst the wife who leaves her husband is also lacking because it was her own inadequacies which impelled her to marry him in the first place. Far from the transvestite causing psychological stress for his wife, the situation has been reversed and the wives are depicted as acting out their own problems and as needing treatment and therapy so that they can adjust to their husbands' needs. If, however, they have already adjusted, this too can be seen as the outcome of some personal, psychosexual malfunction. (Cairns) The author,
Since the beginning of time, women have been seen as different from men. Their beauty and charms have been interpreted as both endearing and deadly to men. In the Bible, it was Eve’s mistake that led to humanity’s exile from the Garden of Eden. However, unlike in the Bible, in today’s world, women who drive men to ruin do not do so through simple mistakes and misunderstandings, they do so while fully aware of what effects their sexuality can cause. One thing remains constant through these portrayals of women, and that is that they are portrayed as flawed creations and therefore monstrous. It is a woman’s sex drive and sexuality that can lead to her monstrosity. The femme fatale is an enticing, exquisitely beautiful, erotic character who
Both involve cross-dressing, but the transvestite does it for sexual pleasure. The transvestite feels he is male and does not want to change genders. People with gender dysphoria believe they are the opposite gender and cross-dress to feel more appropriate. For instance, a man may feel that he is a woman and will dress as women all the time. People with gender identity disorder typically wish to change genders. A nice example of that is Bruce Jenner wants to be a female and officially changing his sex to
Wilton later describes how, by turning away from the heterosexual male-female institution, women are taking a crucial step on the path of liberation. Although a woman may be content having relations with a male, the male’s dominant role in society should be enough persuasion for the former to leave such structured relationship so as to explore a freer partnership that goes against societal expectations.
There are many ways in which infidelity can be explained depending on what you are reading or with whom you are speaking. Emotional and sexual infidelity is the two most studied forms of infidelity. The cognitive approach to infidelity explains that as our cognition is developing, we are also indirectly learning behaviors that could contribute to infidelity as adults. Infidelity no matter what the circumstances are surrounding it can leave both partners devastated. The circumstances surrounding infidelity can include a broad range excuses. The evolutionary approach to infidelity explains that men are more distressed by their partners committing sexual infidelity, whereas
I am lost in the turmoil of my own mind, the faithful spirits that ‘tend on mortal thoughts’, deserted me long ago. I repudiated my fundamental social aspect of being a woman and a wife. I did the unthinkable and gave away my woman hood, my femininity, my tenderness. And what for? To stop
Marriage is depicted as an adventurous lifestyle between two “soul mates” for an eternity, but during the 20th century women were viewed as house wives. Gail Godwin’s “A Sorrowful Woman” and Karen Van der Zee’s “A Secret Sorrowful” illustrate how men exceed boundaries to satisfy women. These two narratives demonstrate how children can play a huge part in a couple 's marriage from different perspectives. “A Sorrowful Woman” and “A Secret Sorrow” demonstrate how the husbands so dearly loved their family, although Godwin implies the marriage is slowly falling apart, Van der Zee reveals an infertile marriage that is prosperous and full of love.
Cross-dresser could be defined as when women in the Revolution wear the clothes of the opposite gender. However, it wasn’t just the clothes that changed, but also their attitude. There were several reasons why females cross dresser during the Mexican Revolution. The first reason was to entry to military and revolutionary factions. During the Revolution leaders as Villa didn’t agree that women participate in the battle. For instance, Villas dorados, who required only men soldiers. However, there was someone named Petra Ruiz who initially entered the Carrancistas. When she passed herself as a man she named her Pedro. In addition, her nickname was “El echabalas” because she was good using guns. Another example is Petra Herrera, who also was known
Today, women are hasty to have equal roles with their spouses as well as other men in the society. A marriage in today’s society consists of women wanting just as much authority as any male in the house unlike the couple in The Yellow Wallpaper. The narrator states, “John laughs at me, of course, but one expects that in marriage.” The woman truly believes that John has the right to not take her seriously and then becomes slightly afraid. In one entry she wrote, “The fact is I am getting a little afraid of John.” She lessens her self-esteem and morals because she believes it is expected. If this were to be expected in today’s marriages most women would not have husbands at all. Earlier generations are born to think everyone, gay or straight, man or woman, rich or poor, should take on equal roles and not expect to be less than the other. Who actually wants to feel like it is normal for their spouse to laugh at their beliefs? From a woman’s stand point the narrator truly is oppressed by the orders of John. The narrator keeps her words and thoughts to herself in a diary and most woman back in that time period did the same as her. Today, most doctors don’t show sexist opinions on medical conditions nor the cure for them. In “The Yellow Wallpaper” the narrator’s husband is also her physician so the medical attention stays within their household and never gets much of an outside opinion and that is what makes the woman so oppressed by her husband’s
A woman in the Victorian era was good for few things – marriage being of the upmost importance. When married, a woman needed to pure of sexual experiences and desires, for only men had sexual needs to be fulfilled. If a woman were “ruined,” or not a virgin, she was unmarriageable. Few outlets were available unmarried women to survive, and many of them turned to prostitution. We shall see the image of a ruined woman presented by Christina Rossetti in “The Goblin Market,” and find the conflicting images of a prostitute in D. G. Rossetti’s “Jenny” and Thomas Hardy’s “The Ruined Maid.”
For instance ,by adding, “I want a wife who will type my papers after I have written them,” Syfers depicts wives as more of employees than partners. She also adds, “I want a wife who will not demand sexul attention...and who understands that *my* sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy.” Syfers included this hyperbole not to say that all husbands were bound to have affairs, but to shock the reader and impress upon them that women were bound to their husbands and voiceless in the
John demonstrates the power of male to stop his wife’s complaints. John holds resolutely to the conventional lines of the marriage plot and produces authority out of a distanced and ironic critique of women diseases. Janice Peritz stated in her journal that, ‘’Author, Williams Howell, had nothing to say about the provocative feminism of Gilman’s text after he added her short story to his collection which caused Gilman’s story to be completely ignored’’. Gilman makes a strong statement about males in society during her time period. The men are portrayed to really see women as children more than as individuals. The dominance of men is undeniable, ‘’ He does not believe I’m sick’’. The narrator has lost control to decide is she’s sick or not, which is one of the most basic things a person can determine. The narrator stated, “If a physician of high standing, and one’s own husband, assures friends and relatives that there is really nothing the matter with one but temporary nervous depression, what is one to do?” Gilman portrays that women ‘‘invented” their emotional illnesses in order to attract attention and sympathy of other relatives. It is possible to say that male physicians prefer to find any excuse not to treat psychological disorders seeing them unimportant and even “imaginary”. The typical male makes his wife a conformist by enforcing his
Logically, we must first analyze the nature of these women’s personal confinements and establish that their marriages were, in fact, prison-like in design. In “The Yellow Wallpaper”, female author Charlotte Perkins Gilman develops a clear power dynamic between her main character, Jane, and her husband, John. Meant to aid as a representation of all/most of men in marriage, John’s tendency to assert entitled dominance over Jane indicates the overall tendency of marriage to encourage male superiority. As Jane explains why they happened to recently move into their current house, mainly due to her “nervous condition”, she asserts that despite him being a doctor, “John does not know how much [she] really [suffers]. He knows there is no reason
Underneath The Wallpaper Written in journal form, the author uses symbolism to paint a vivid picture of the character’s marriage, the social perception of women, and an inadequacy of understanding within field of psychology. The dialogue of “The Yellow Wall-Paper” is taken from the context of the main characters journal. The main character shares her inner thoughts and perceptions to give the reader insight to her reality and deterioration of her mental condition. The yellow wall- paper encountered by the main character serves many symbolism functions to the author and is subject to interpretation by the reader. The main character perceives her husband John and herself as ordinary.
Over time I met a plethora of men who would confess to me that they were crossdressers in secret, and they wore their wife's clothes, makeup and so forth when they weren't around. I cant tell you how many men I met out there who was into crossdressing.
In the last few decades, there has been a rapid change in social attitude towards so-called sexual problems. There has been a call for the freedom to live in the style of which one chooses, so long as no one else is harmed in the process. One area that appears little understood, however, is transvestitism, or cross-dressing. In order to gain some knowledge about this phenomenon, there are many aspects of transvestitism that should be examined, some being: history, societal views, the gay versus straight issue, and women dressing as men.