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Dangers Of Conformity

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Control, leverage, and power are key words used in current society. People wield them like a sword under the guise that it’s always in the best interest of the person that’s on the wrong end of the sword. Conformity is often the first step to loss of individuality. People don’t choose to conform, they are forced to conform. The dangers of conformity aren’t just the loss of independence and individuality, it often creates a scenario where we become so afraid, and it becomes so uncomfortable to question those in authority that we often end up conforming before we’re even asked to. We’re a leaderless society because the last thing that people want, in a position of power, is to have an uprising from the people beneath them. The goal of many adults …show more content…

I remember coming home from church telling my mother that the 40-year war took less time. Causing my mom to laugh and giving my dad another reason to be agitated with me. One time during an extremely long service, they passed around the collection plate five times. On the fourth and fifth pass, I took money out. Of course, being a close-knit family, my sister immediately ratted me out. On the way home, my dad repeatedly told me that what I had done was wrong, but he was more focused on what I had done and how it embarrassed him. Again, I was confounded how everyone in the world looked at it different than I did. I wasn’t trying to be obstinate or an instigator, but I told my dad, the embarrassing thing is to pass the collection plate five times trying to extort and guilt people into giving money. My dad responded by telling me they were not guilting any one into giving anything, these people had the free will to give or not to give and then he asked me how I could think the church was guilting people into giving. To me, the answer was obvious, if they truly wanted to make it free will, they wouldn’t pass the plate around so every parishioner could watch the person next to them is give, they would put the collection plate in a private room and then the people would have the freedom of choice to give or not. My dad replied, if they do that, no one give. Without thinking of where I was, I said, “That’s my fucking point.” Realizing that he had been caught, and that my point was completely reinforced, my dad immediately took the focus off of the church and put it on my language. Not because he found my language appalling, but that he found my logic insulting. He then asked me why I took money out. I told him, it was simple, every time they passed the plate around they said it was for the needy. I told him, I needed money. My dad then got upset, thinking I was mocking him, again, all of this coming from the guy

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