In today’s generation people have different meanings of the word “slut.” Men sometimes use the word differently than women. For example, “A Toronto police officer told a crowd of college women that if they wanted to avoid sexual assault, they shouldn’t dress like sluts.” Women are more likely to be called a slut than men. There is two completely different definitions of this word from the dictionary and a woman’s point of view. According to Dictionary.com the word slut means “A sexually promiscuous female, especially one who dresses or acts provocatively.” This is sometimes true but not always the case. She may act provocatively but that doesn’t mean she’s a slut. If a man acts provocatively what does that make him? Not a slut, it just makes
On the flip side, the "sluts," typically hailing from less privileged circumstances, embrace a liberated lifestyle. This stark divide is not a mere financial discrepancy; it encapsulates societal norms dictating the conduct of young women. The "snobs" conform to traditional roles, reinforcing the notion that wealth determines an individual's value, while the "sluts" courageously challenge these stereotypes, becoming the targets of societal demonization.
When asked to define the word rape, a number of responses may be given depending upon what country or state one lives in and if one is a male or female. According to Pandora’s Project.org, rape is defined as any sexual contact or penetration attained without consent; with physical force, intimidation, threat, trickery, or when the victim is mentally capacitated, physically or mentally impaired, asleep or unconscious; this includes due to voluntary or involuntary alcohol or drug consumption.
In the book, Slut!—Growing up Female with a Bad Reputation by Leora Tanenbaum, she collects a multitude of testimonies from women who have been subjected to sexual harassment, physical abuse, rape, incest and slut-bashing from all ethnicities and locations around the globe. One astonishing truth approaches you at the beginning of the book. Tanenbaum enters a table that shows the positives and negatives of being a sexually active man and a sexually active woman, unfortunately the truth is absolutely ludicrous. The table states a total of two positives of being a sexually active woman; hot and sexy. On the contrary, it states three negatives for sexually active men, compared to the twenty-eight negatives for sexually active women. This list consists of names from “slut” and “Jezebel” all the way to “prostitute.”
Every night girls between the age of 10-17 go missing into the darkness of the night.
In the article Good Girls'': Gender, Social Class, and Slut Discourse on Campus sociologists Elizabeth Armstrong and Laura Hamilton conducted a research at a Midwestern university in order to better understand the use of slut discourse between woman. Slut shaming is the act of criticizing a woman for her real or presumed sexual activity. It also includes criticizing her for behaving in ways that are associated with her real or presumed sexual activity. Slut shaming exists within a society because of the society sexual double standards. Traditionally men are encouraged by society to engage in sexual promiscuity but women are forbidden in engaging in sexual promiscuity. If a woman dares to engage in any behavior that could be interpreted as sexually promiscuous then she is branded as a slut or a whore.
The theory being tested in the article is that women participate in slut shaming as a way for them to distance or separate themselves from other women. The reason they separate themselves is a way for women to categorize other women into different statuses and a way for themselves to maintain their own status. The status classes women are categorized in are linked to the social class they are a part of. Slut shaming among women is not necessarily based on their sexual acts, but of the way they act as a woman. The theory also states that slut shaming is also a result of male dominance and female submission. The slut label was created by men due to a double standard created by society. The double standard is that men are expected to act upon their sexual desires regardless of being in a relationship or having any emotional connection with the person they’re engaging that sexual act with all while women are only allowed to participate in sexual activities if they are in a loving and committed relationship. However, if
The sexual objectification of woman has led to led to a normalization of cat-calling. For most men cat-calling is about proving to other men your bravado, machismo, and virility. But unfortunately it's a terrible mating strategy. Most women never have sex with a man who started by cat-calling her as a stranger on the street. I think cat-calling for these types of men, is due to how little they understand about women as humans. In our culture porn is heavily normalized. As a result, men started to believe that women loved being called sluts or
From this point in the discussion we turned to Nicole’s chosen academic publication on sexual double standards and sexting. The article asserts that boys accumulate positive ratings by possessing and exchanging images of girls’ body parts. Such images operate as a form of currency and value for guys, but for girls the images they hold of boys do not hold similar status. Girls develop a negative sexual reputation in which they are seen to be dirty and promiscuous if they sext whereas guys are praised for essentially perpetuating masculine
She used the term slut-shaming for when people make girls feel bad about expressing their sexuality. In class we examined the term double-bind, when girls are shamed for both having sex and not having sex. It was a positive that she discussed the shame girls face with expressing sexuality, but it was negative in the sense that she didn’t mention they also face being shamed for not having sex. She presented her information like a heterosexual script, where the woman is the ‘gatekeeper’ for sex and the man is the sexual aggressor, always pushing the limits of the woman to have
The first question is, of course, as always, “What is slut shaming and rape culture?” The answer is not something you want to hear. Scarlett Peterson, of Kennesaw State University defines slut shaming as, “...the idea that a person who owns their sexuality and engages in sex for fun is something to be ashamed of…” (Peterson, 2015). But that’s not all. Slut shaming involves gossiping about women in promiscuous clothing, judging women on birth control or women who go for abortion, girls who lose their virginity young, or girls that wish to wait until marriage. So, who isn’t slut shamed?
Teens may unintentionally send a sext but along with legal consequences some emotional consequences may occur.
What is even stranger is that women fully enforce this sexual double standard. Over 99% of woman agree that women enjoy sex as much as men do, yet when asked to describe a woman who has had many sexual partners, over 59% percent of women used words that fell under the negatively connotative ‘Promiscuous’ category, using words like “slut,” “cheap,” “loose,” “whore,” “easy,” and “dirty.” Twelve percent of women even used words that would suggest that sexually liberal woman are psychologically damaged, using words like “insecure,” “lonely,” “desperate,” “needy,” and ‘unfulfilled.” Only 8% of women tagged a sexually liberal woman in the more positive category of “sexually focused,” the respondents feeling that “these women were uncommitted and focused on sex rather than the relationship” (Milhausen and Herold). In addition, “Women were more likely to discourage a female friend from dating a highly experienced male that a male friend from dating a highly experienced female” (Milhausen and Herold). This fact furthers the case for women’s involvement in maintaining the double standard. In a one study researchers found that “Women will endorse a sexual double standard in which women are judged more
I chose to respond to this perticular post because, the construct of prude/slut shamming is a growing problem in today’s society that is constantly overlooked. It is not a new concept by any means, but it is an archaic one. With the feminism/equality movement at an all time high it is even more suprising that prude/slut culture is still growing at the rate it is. It could be argued that this notion is growing in direct relation to women
The word slut means many things to many different people. It can simply mean dirty and untidy or it can mean a woman who is promiscuous and dresses in an improper way. The word slut has a negative connotation that is typically used to degrade women. The word slut is just another word to criticize a woman’s sexuality. This word, along with many others, has helped launch a Feminist Movement that works to promote equality and expose the double standard.
“She was asking for it.” A response used by those who feel that their actions were not in the wrong simply because they felt as if the woman’s speech and appearance was an “invitation”. Slut-shaming is the act of society labelling women and girls as being sexually out-of-control based on her behavior because they believe that her actions are associated with her sexual activity. In other words, slut-shaming is society scapegoating women who behaves provocatively. Scapegoats are people who bear the blame for others.