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What would have I possibly done wrong as a child? Sometimes they would've been better without me. Before my mom gave birth to me, they was your typical average couple. They did everything together like they were meant to be. Until I stepped out the bomb I saw another meaning of love. I remember when my dad came home late from work, and he would start drinking with the next door neighbor until he passed out. Me and my mom would lock ourselves in the bathroom because we knew that he would get mad at our presence. There would be days where he use the rent money just to gamble and we would move to a different apartment. I saw my mother getting hitted, yelled and even cheated on. Off course, I didn't see him in the daytime because I was somewhere …show more content…

The weekends was the worst days of my life. I was only in kindergarten, I remember that my dad would get mad and beat me with the belt because I didn't know how to read and write. He would leave me with bruise all over my body and yank some of my hair off. My mother would just watch and remain in silence. I would go to school cover up no matter how hot the weather is. As time flies by, I never heard my dad said I love you or even care about me. I have two other siblings, and they never got beaten to death or knows how it feel to be hated by your own father. I took care of them and feed them when my mom wasn’t feeling good. I was jealous at them but they dont understand whats going on? Here I am now, I’m standing at my shadow and trying to get rid of the pain feeling because of suddenly it feel just right. I saw my dad left with another woman and left my mother with my sister and brother. I grew up having the mentality that being hurt is love because you get used to it. I’m trying to hide being that shy person, avoiding guys on date, and trying to be that girl who is satisfied with life. This is my story as a …show more content…

The aggression can be intimate that includes physical violence and emotional harm. Child abuse is when they are physical abuse intentional use of physical force against a child. It is different for everybody because other might consider as an aggressive punishment that includes spankings, pushes, punched, slapped or pinched and beaten with belts or objects. For instance, the child was being hit when her father was mad because she didn’t simply know how to read. A possible explanation is that because children are spent with their caregiver is at increase becoming a victim of violence. Just as in the story, this started of with a normal couple that seem like they are having a summer love. Because many couples are not ready to fully be committed that they feel the pressure of responsibility, stressed out and not financially stable. One of the issues that most children feel in a violence home is being guilty and afraid. Guilty was a problem for her in the beginning since she blame herself if she had done something wrong after she step into the world. Children are being affected that they start losing their attachment style from their parents and they become to be afraid of being abandoned when they get older. Another way children are being effect is in a behavioral development aspect such as increase of social isolation, school problems,creating stress disorders, acting aggressively. For example, she

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