Depression is a negative feeling of hopelessness and feeling like you don’t belong. It can affect anyone at anytime without warning. Being in such a depressed neurological state makes people act certain ways and do certain things. According to the medical research group Mayo Clinic:
Everyone will have a sad moment in their life, whether it is a death, a friend betraying he or she, or not getting accepted to the college of his or her choice. Depression can be described with many different words, but it will come down to sadness. People who live
There are several different explanations that fall under the psychodynamic "umbrella" that explain why a person develops depression. Psychoanalysts historically believed that depression was caused by anger converted into self-hatred. Children who develop depressive symptoms typically are raised by neurotic parents who are inconsistent, lacking in warmth, inconsiderate, angry, or driven by their own selfish needs. These behaviors lead to the them feeling alone, confused, helpless and ultimately, angry. But, out of fear, love, and guilt, they repress anger toward the parents and turn it against themselves so it becomes an anger directed at him or herself. Caught between the belief that he or she is unacceptable, and the imperative to act perfectly to obtain parental love, they become prone to experiencing exaggerated anxiety and feelings of depression. They also feel that he or she is not good enough, no matter how hard he or she tries. Now, this sort of treatment and environment can evolve into more severe depression and anxiety disorder as an adolescent and adult. (Pshychodynamic Theories, 2007)
What emotions is Mrs. G. experiencing at this time? Answer: People deal with loss in different ways. Painful emotions take place when the reality of the loss sinks in and the numbness of the loss wears off. This is when a person starts to face their feelings. Mrs. G. has been experiencing many different emotions including withdrawing from other people, feeling alone in the situation, not having the desire to eat, losing weight, having trouble sleeping, looking sad, feeling tired, and feeling depressed (American Cancer Society, 2014).
Everyone goes through times in their lives that they feel "down" or "blue". This is normal, but what is not normal is for people to remain in a constant state of sadness. This is how people suffering from clinical depression feel. They are unable to leave these feelings behind, and their lives become interrupted to some degree depending on the type and severity of their depression. Depression is not uncommon and it affects millions of individuals around the world.
One of the concepts that people do not understand about grief and loss is the general idea of what it is and how it impacts people. According to Teen Health and Wellness’s article “Grief and Loss: Experiencing Loss,” is what happens when you no longer have something or someone that was extremely significant in your life, and the emotions that result are very real to you. You are entitled to these emotions. Many experts believe that the best thing for a person grieving to do is to let themselves feel sad. Lattanzi-Licht writes, common symptoms of grief are: “guilt or anger; restlessness; a sense of unreality about the loss; difficulty sleeping, eating and concentrating; mood changes; a loss of energy; constant thoughts of the
4. Depression Two types of depression are associated with mourning. The first one is a reaction to practical implications relating to the loss. Sadness and
Throughout life, we will all experience sadness and anxiety as a result of the stresses of life. This is a normal response to the different hardships that we might encounter in life. Tragedies such as getting fired from a job, getting a divorce, losing a loved one, or having any other form of disappointment can cause the person who is experiencing the hardship to feel sad, scared, lonely, or even hopeless. Even though these feelings are normal responses to difficult situations which are typically resolved with time, some people unexplainably experience these feelings daily, making it difficult and almost impossible to function. Often times these people may be experiencing depression, an anxiety
People who are not depressed or have never come to contact with clinical depression, are more often than not inclined to judge someone who is clinically depressed and call them dramatic, self-indulgent, or even worse tell them that they are just “under the weather.” Diagnosed clinical depression is not something that one can just shrug off, in fact it’s a disease that will cause the mental health state of an individual to decrease. Though depression isn’t something one can physically see like the flu, depression causes the patient to feel the effects as if it were a physical disorder. These symptoms include but are not limited to, fatigue, muscle aches headaches, etc. Though sadness can also cause an individual to feel these symptoms, sadness is temporary. Whereas depression, lingers and tends to become part of the patient’s everyday life, like a best friend. Though everyone at some point in their lives will experience sadness, the underlying question of why some people experience sadness that leads into full on depression remains. The article titled “Sadness, Depression, and Avoidance Behavior” by Allan M. Leventhal, primarily discusses an explanation to why some individuals are more prone to depression and subsequently will become clinically depressed, and why others are not. Furthermore, the article offers a clear separation between sadness and depression.
Sadness is an emotion similar to a complicated math problem, it can be expressed and more than one way and might have more than one answer. What makes me sad in my life now is the close minded people who are so shut up in their own little world to understand anything that involves another person's hardships. I’m sad for the people who are uneducated about emotions especially sadness, but instead are told to suck it up and don’t cry. I am sad for those who are sad, people who feel alone and lost within the swirling thoughts that never seem to end, a constant whirlpool. People need to know they have support and someone to talk to. In the future I hope for more awareness of these difficulties that are sometimes ignored by the only people who can help
Personal Critical Incident Reflection Paper_ Miscarriage Introduction Pregnancy is meant to be an exciting happy time; not only for the mother, but for the whole family and friends. So, when a woman miscarries, the psychological impact/ trauma is unbearable and very devastating. The experience and feeling of loss, grief, guilt, and
I think that the most useful ways to deal with sadness is to identify the problem and deal with it. For example, when my mom was upset with some of her co workers from work, she kept quiet but then she could not take it anymore and decided to talk to them. She was not rude or impolite, instead she just addresses the problem and they listened to her. Rather than bottling up feelings, one should find the origin of the problem and fixing it in a calmly manner. Another thing that I do is to brighten my mood by doing something I enjoy like reading and watching shows on Netfliix. One should not dwell on the sad and negative emotions, instead they should do things that make them happy. Working through the problems and staying optimistic are the best
Grief, grief is the price that we pay for love. We are all destined to feel grief at some stage in our lives. Grief has a way of reminding us that we aren’t numb, that we are not invincible no matter how hard we try to convince ourselves otherwise.
Sometimes when you go through hardships you feel that you are alone and there is nobody there for you. Recently this past year I lost my grandfather I didn't really understand why it had to happen the way it did it was just a lot for me. When it all
Belmaker and Agam (2008) described that depression is very similar to the normal emotions of sadness or bereavement, except that sadness does not subside even after the external cause is removed. Likewise, when bereavement or normal sadness exacerbates disproportionately to the external cause, depression is likely appropriate to be considered.