Who I Am Who Am I? Normally I’d say what we’ve been programmed to say: date of birth, nationality, height, weight, strengths, weaknesses, goals, etc. But this assignment is different because you’d like to know who I am on the inside, or what makes me, me. I believe who I am, and mostly anyone for that matter, depends on 4 things: your environment, people you’re around, decisions you make, and the power of suggestion. These things will “steer” and change the course of your “life’s ship” for better or worse, that’s up to you. Growing up in the small town of Belle Glade, family of 7, in a 2 bedroom apartment was cramped but comfortable. Looking back, I can see how we struggled, but at the time we never wanted for anything. I never wanted to hear “NO” so I waited for a yes opportunity to present itself, and I would ask then, and in most cases it worked in my favor. My father worked while my mom was the housewife. As we grew, both parents worked and the neighbors would watch over us. Back then they could discipline you, because it took a village to raise you, unlike today. Being the child of Haitian immigrants was difficult because of the teasing and taunting. They’d say that “you eat cat” or you have “H.B.O. (Haitian body odor).” On top of that I have an outie, so that made me an introverted, shy kid and my mother’s one of Jehovah’s Witnesses so that excluded me from birthday celebrations and holiday assignments. I’d either have a separate task or just asked to sit this one
Who am I? This question asked so often suggests that there is actually a reasonable answer. Almost as if our own personal being were a fixed thing. Generally, people who ask this type of question are usually struggling with their identity and thus are looking for something to make sense of themselves. The irony is that the more you seek to identify who you are, the more you are exposed to being fragile. Some people spend their live looking for an answer that could possibly satisfy them but still never find anything. The main focus shouldn't be on discovering who you are but on considering the social influences that have affected you.
There are many factors that shape us into who we are, and who we will become. Some of these factors we can control, while others we cannot. While we are born into many traits of our identities, much of our other behavior is learned. My identity, for example, is “based not only on responses to the question ‘Who am I?’ but also on responses to the question ‘Who am I in relation to others?’” (Allen, 2011, p. 11). My identity and the question of who I am, are both influenced by many aspects of my life, including my hometown, my family, my friends, and my beliefs and moral values.
Who I am? Personally, I believe that a person’s identity can take only one of two routes. One, a person’s identity can change within that person’s life. Who I am now, is not necessarily who I was when I was younger. Experience can and will likely modify our identities. Therefore, experience can solidify our personal identification or it can weaken our personal identification. And as such, individuals and their perspectives are always evolving, or at the very least, they should evolve over time. Although there are some identities that evolve throughout one’s lifetime; there are some identities that remain consistent. Two, some identities cannot and will not change. So identities are socially and/or politically forces upon you, some identities are genetically assigned to you, and some you choose to keep. No matter the reason or reasons, these identities have been and will be consist within your lifespan. But, how you deal with them is up to you as an individual.
Now its time for me to define my personality. Who am I? What events in my life influenced the
A person’s identity is shaped by many different aspects. Family, culture, friends, personal interests and surrounding environments are all factors that tend to help shape a person’s identity. Some factors may have more of an influence than others and some may not have any influence at all. As a person grows up in a family, they are influenced by many aspects of their life. Family and culture may influence a person’s sense of responsibilities, ethics and morals, tastes in music, humor and sports, and many other aspects of life. Friends and surrounding environments may influence a person’s taste in clothing, music, speech, and social activities. Personal interests are what truly set individuals apart. An individual is not a puppet
I like your post because I don't even share the entire same opinions as the other cultural people; because that is what makes each individual unique in our own way. It is easy for me to get along with people from immigrant family and of different cultural and I must say I owe it to by diverse and multicultural background (I was born here in the United States, but I grew up I England and Nigeria; my mother is a Briton-Nigerian and my dad is a Nigerian-American). I always like to think that that gives me upper-hand with the way I view things and appreciate others; especially the ones that feel like they are outsiders, and yes, everyone now and then I get cultural shock every now and then (you can read my original post to see why). My sister
Sometimes a person may feel that they have no purpose in life. Finding out who you are just takes the time of sitting down and thinking of the importance in your life. Who am I? I am Mercedes Kimberly Kingston, and I am a person with different personalities, characteristics, and identities. The many ways, in which I identify myself, in fact, are the ways that define who I am. My Identity is something only I can fully define. I have a little brother, which makes me a sister; I have two loving parents, which makes me a daughter; I am in college studying medicine, which makes me a student; and I have wonderful friends in desperate need of support, which makes me a wonderful best friend.
I was born _name__ on _date__ in _place__. I am a son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and friend. I was desperately shy as a small child, but grew out of it. My teen years were happy times sports, friends, summers spent in __place_. It all helped shape me into who I am today. My interests are many. I have always enjoyed reading about history and follow the history channel faithfully. I love music. It's been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. I find it calming when life gets rocky.
School, to me and among many peers of my age, is not a distant term. I have spent one-third of my life time sitting in classrooms, every week since I was seven years old. After spending this much time in school, many things and experiences that happened there have left their mark in my memory. Some are small incidences while some have had a great impact on me. However, regardless the degree of significance, things that happened all contributed to shape the person that I am now.
There are three very important aspects that play a major rule in my life. They can be categorized as intellectual, social, and spiritual. My intellectual self is interesting because I am mainly right-brained which means that I tend to use my creativity more than my mathematical skills, also making me a visual learner. My social self consists of friends, family, and my surroundings. I spend most of my time at home with my family. Whenever I am with my friends, I observe their behaviors and listen to their opinions. I am more of an independent type of person. Being with different people has influenced me into appreciating different cultures and beliefs. I have learned things that have now been incorporated into my own set of beliefs and
Over the course, I have learned that all people are unique and have their own personal traits and qualities. One person does not just simply fall into one category, but various categories. What is beautiful about all of us is that we all have diverse personalities, traits and qualities. I have learned that we should be proud of and embrace these unique qualities of ours.
When asked to describe myself I never know what to say, but I should know myself the best, right?
The world is changing every day every minutes even seconds. We can’t remember the all, but there are still some depths memory that never ever will forget, just like in recently, a basketball super star called Kobe Bryant. He played his last basketball game on April 14th, that game he played is attention by the whole world, on most of the web sites are all talking about him. Whatever they do or think, Kobe must be a greatness hero in their heart. But he isn’t the one in my heart, the person who i memorize is totally different from Kobe, he did the most meaningful things for me and the people have same feeling with me.
When I look in the mirror I know whom I am, but society makes it difficult to understand who I am, because I was born to immigrants of Nigerian descent, and I am a first generation American, that term is sometimes used so loosely. By looking at my name they assume that I am from some island, but I am so quick to tell them that “I am Nigerian”, there is another statement that normally follows this. “You do not have an accent”. I wonder if I had an accent would I be considered Nigerian and not American; then I say that “My parents are Nigerian” and then that changes, so to them I am just associated with the Nigerian culture it does not make me Nigerian, there has been many discussion between my friends who are the same like me confused to
Who am I? Who will I become? These are questions asked many times over as we constantly feel the need to define ourselves. Many people believe that a person can be defined as a collection of all his or her actions. However, this view is not entirely correct. It is not just our actions that define who we are or who we will become, but It is also our morals and values, the parenting that we received, our circumstance, our friends and family and society as a whole that has a great impact on who we are and as well as who we will become.