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Deviance And Deviance

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Deviance is said to be in the eye of the beholder, so what one may see as deviant another might see as normal. So how does one particular behavior get labeled deviant by society and not another? When our minds fail to coordinate and function normally, almost every part of our body is usually affected. When my best friend was 16 she was diagnosed with a mental illness, depression, after her dad passed away. When I saw her for the first time after his death I knew right away she was going to struggle based off her frail voice and vulnerable mindset. She was sent to counseling two weeks after the incident, and was immediately prescribed Celexa- a serotonin reuptake inhibitor that treats depression. She always told me she felt like she was in a constant bubble that was continually being filled with pity, sorrow, and grief by her peers and own emotions. The never ending, “I’m sorry for your loss” and “What happened” caused her to ball up inside and feel virtually empty, even though it was something individuals were saying out of kindness and curiosity. For awhile I thought I had lost my best friend mentally, and I was afraid that I would never get her back. It was expected for her to be mournful, but society pressured more agony on her than she had intended to feel. Her routine turned into eating, sleeping, going to counseling, and watching wistful movies. She felt she was categorized as “different” than anyone, and she felt like she couldn’t escape her own head because of not

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