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Tahmina Ahmed
Professor Cammilleri
English 201
19 march, 2013
“Forgiveness is not forgetting an injustice done; it is the understanding that allows us to set aside the emotional impact of that injustice pertaining to ourselves. When we no longer hold those emotions, and have understanding for the person, we forgave them “(singer). In other words, this quote means being able to forgive a person actually allow the person forgiving to begin the healing process, but this does not mean that the person forget what damage it has caused them. In psychology, “forgiveness is a process that involves the change in emotions and attitudes regarding the offender.” This definition of forgiveness points out that forgiveness is a personal choice
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As Brown goes on, she continues to describe how the relationship is getting bitter and bitter, to the point where the protagonist lost herself and her identity due to her partner’s behavior. Then the partner leaves her but eventually returns in her arms. Even though the partner has hurt the protagonist immoderately, she takes her back once again. In this situation, the protagonist is hurt but trying to recon ciliate but she hasn’t forgiven her partner and is being resentful towards her. The pain that she felt initially was still there. She had not moved on. Even though she has taken back her partner, forgiveness is not present. So she continues to feel the hurt of the past pains not being able to move on. She's held in bondage by her pain. If she had forgiven her partner, the pain would have been less. We live in a society where there are very few people who truly forgive one another for their mistakes or shortcomings. In a perfect life, everything would be splendid and peachy. In all reality, in most of our lives we face obstacles from day to day. In life we will always be around individuals who upset us, make us angry and are dishonest with us or even hurt us physically or emotionally. In “forgiveness” the lead character says to her mate “That night I bled again. I woke up and the bed was red, all full of blood and wet, I reached over to touch you

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