Different Styles Of Emotions And Emotions

The individual who experiences these awful memories will forever hold that pain into adulthood. Memories and negative past experiences are big factors of trauma. Trauma is a distressing experience psychologically, and can last for a lifetime, that may keep an individual from executing certain activities successfully. Lin Shi and Jason Nicol from Dekalb, Illnios are specialized in Family Therapy, and have observed a criminal through the experimental process. Shi and Nicol have announced that, “In the stabilizing sessions that followed aggressive episodes, regardless of what set him off, he frequently referred back to his unpleasant experiences with his parents which often involved a strong physical reaction” (par. 10). The pain coming from an unpleasant experience had resorted out into violence every time the brain conjures up a past memory that was agonizing. A negative reaction is usually shown when the individual had been hurt physically and/or emotionally from any past events. These painful childhood memories make an individual rash out into anger followed by the offenses committed (Shi and Nicol par.10). When a sixteen year old male was analyzed by a treatment center, the clinic had been told that the boy’s mother walked out of the child’s life at the age of two and had been living with the father (par. 5). Children who are left by the main nurturer in the family effects the decisions carried into adulthood. Negative consequences are the

Sadness, fear, and anger are emotions that many people view as strictly negative. Society assumes these emotions’ only purpose is to damage people’s lives, and because these emotions are viewed as harmful, many people try to avoid them. However, these emotions are not given the credit they deserve. People encourage others to be optimistic and positive, but human beings are not supposed to be always happy. Negative emotions are surprisingly significant because they offer many benefits that positive emotions do not, but positive emotions are necessary as well. People’s lives are supposed to have a balance of each emotion in order to stay mentally and physically healthy. Even though people attempt to be happy all the time, they should accept

Most people are very convinced that they have memories of past experiences because of the event itself or the bigger picture of the experience. According to Ulric Neisser, memories focus on the fact that the events outlined at one level of analysis may be components of other, larger events (Rubin 1). For instance, one will only remember receiving the letter of admission as their memory of being accepted into the University of Virginia. However, people do not realize that it is actually the small details that make up their memories. What make up the memory of being accepted into the University of Virginia are the hours spent on writing essays, the anxiety faced due to fear of not making into the university and the happiness upon hearing

Emotions are a necessary part of our whole humanity. They may be more than we have learned to be comfortable with, but they are not too much.

One just does not wake up one morning thinking that their going to be all sunshine and rainbows out of thin air, nor do they just decide to become a jerk. This usually happens based on what happened in the past, maybe they had a really fun day the day before and were happy about it. Memories are what make us who we as a person. Past trauma could lead one to become shy around others or more aggressive, a strict childhood could make one more strict towards others and always wanting things to be done perfectly. A person's personality is built upon their memories, how they were raised, what friends they had, dreams, and expectations are all things that makes one who they are. My own memories still affect me to this day, I am not great with people as in the past I had trouble speaking. So I prefer to stay quiet and let others do most of the talking. I remember the adrenaline and accomplishment when I first climbed a mountain, to this day I love hiking. The memories I have of being bullied make me stand up to it, as well as the pain that is felt thinking that no one knows what you are going through. I use those memories so that I hope I can anyone going through the same experiences. My own memories even ones from my earliest childhood still make me who I am today and I could not imagine a world where I did not have my memories. Everything a person does in their life

Often, emotions remain bottled up due to the fear of developing a weak and powerless image. Protecting one’s emotions

On the other hand some might say, memories are hurtful. The first reason is, memories are hurtful because they can deeply affect a person. Another reason is, memories are hurtful because they can ruin a person’s relationships. The last reason that memories are hurtful is, memories can haunt people for the rest of their life. However, helpful memories can shape a person’s identity, and character. In the text written by,

When experiencing these series of factors, the individual feels the need to express their capability of power. However, because the individual did not experience any positive role models or influences throughout their childhood, the need to feel power is often portrayed in a negative characteristic. Since the individual was not exposed to identifying the difference between what is right and what is wrong as a child, it is often seen that individuals as such develop negative tendencies when transitioning into adulthood. Most of these individuals decide to take revenge for all the traumatic experiences that they once endured as a child. The need for self-control and adaptation is no longer attainable in many instances as a result of their unfortunate childhood.

Maybe being emotional about a problem, in a way that others might recognize, makes the given problem easier to cope with, because you in turn do not also have to cope with the problem that you do not understand. If you carry with you an aura of dread and despair, will people not recognize these emotions in you? You might not acknowledge so yourself, but part of the problem in concealing sorrow arises from the fact that everyone else carries on the way they did before. Life goes

This article looks at every aspect of bullying and it effects now and later on in life. Although, the article argue how many people who were bullied as a child end up living a total life in physiologist believe rather than some who hasn’t been bully and is in a good mental state. Bowerman reveals that, “Chances are some people still remember the name of that bully who stole their lunch money or pushed them down the stairs 30 years ago.” This details that more of that most people never forget what happen and often have flashbacks that bring back a painful memory. Bowerman also proclaimed,

A ‘life lesson’ commonly repeated is, “Don’t let your emotions control your decisions.”, but without listening to my emotions, feelings, attitude, and thought process, how can I go through my life? Growing up, mainly in my years as a young child, I remember being told to hold back the tears when I was crying, to get up when I was down, and to focus on what made me smile rather than acknowledge what made me hurt. Yes, there is a difference in the reasons to be crying and it’s important to make it clear; there’s crying because you did not get what you wanted and decide to conclude your anger by throwing a fit, but then there is the throat burning, nose clogging, jaw tightening crying that surfaces when

The primary culprit for this is the memory and cognitive biases. Memory biases are flaws in mind that make recall either impossible or it makes remembering a difficult undertaking. Memory bias is also responsible for changing recalled memories. Some of the memory biases include rosy retrospection; suggestibility; reminiscence bump; self-serving bias; cryptomnesia; egocentric bias; consistency bias and hindsight bias. Rosy retrospection refers to remembering the past and trying to make it better than it e.g. recalled one is childhood can get them wish they were a child again but that is not necessary the best thing to ever happen to them. Reminiscence bump refers to a scenario where one can easily remember things that happened in their teen years and early adulthood years but cannot recall what occurred in childhood more so below age four. Self-serving bias refers to the tendency to remember only the good things that happened in one's life and pass blame to others for things that went haywire. Suggestibility refers to memory bias where ideas from the one questioning you are confused to be the memory. Cryptomnesia relates to a scenario where false memories are confused with actual memories. Egocentric bias implies the act of recalling in a self-serving manner e.g. saying that you had better grades than the grades you had scored. Consistency bias refers as making a connection between the past behavior and says that they are similar. Lastly hindsight bias refers to extrapolate present behavior to the past and try to make it look like it was predictable that was the

Every person have different traits along with their different feelings. But sometimes feelings like fear can change their minds. It is a natural fact that whenever a person flashback with tensed past memory, fear will arise in their minds, And same conditions appear when a person is about to kill someone but unfortunately, a criminal finishes his/her infraction. Ernest van den Haag who was an American sociologist and writer once said in his article “One abstains from dangerous acts because of vague, inchoate (beginner), habitual and, above all, preconscious fears". This shows how it allows future teenagers because they look forward towards their parents traits and gains from bad experiences with previous lessons. Fear does change people and

Our past is the reason that we are who we are today. It built us, but sometimes it hunts us down. For example in case of kids who were sexually abused during their childhood, a lot of them don’t even remember anything due to being too young, but after they grew older and started remembering things or having flashbacks, some of them will have problems like anxiety or panic attacks. In this movie Stephan Chbosky shows the struggles of the 15 years old Charlie who were abused by his aunt when he was six, and how he tries to deal with his past and present .

From a young age, I was always told and taught that it is important to sort of “put on a happy face”. Because of this, both on intrapersonal and interpersonal levels, I tend to stifle my feelings. Inwardly, although I may be feeling overwhelmed or upset, I many times force myself to act as if there is nothing going on. I realize that this is a behavior that many people struggle with because of the way they were raised. I