In the novel The Secret Life Of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd Lily, a 14 year old girl experiences racism for the first time, an encounter that many young people came to know in 1960’s America and an encounter that many people still face today. Racism has been around for so many years and is portrayed in so many ways. Some say that racism was exceptionally high in 1960’s america where relationships were based on color and discrimination was the way of life. lily herself experienced her fair share of racism even though she was a white girl growing up in an era where being white was considered the ultimate privilege. In the beginning of the book Lily very close relationship with Rosaleen. Lily has known Rosaleen ever since she was little, Rosaleen …show more content…
Lily had surprised herself when she first caught sight of the racist things she said in her brain like the time she thought that August was so intelligent and so cultured for a woman of color,”That's what let me know I had some prejudice buried inside me”(kidd 78). Another racist encounter Lily endured is a thing called reverse racism. June was racist towards Lily from the moment she laid eyes on her and Lily knew this very well,”I have noticed that is you look carefully at peoples eyes for the first five seconds they look at you, the truth of their feelings will shine through for just an instant before it flickers away”(Kidd 104). Lily she said this about June because for those few seconds that she was explaining the truth in June's eyes had been revealed, and the revealing was a great dislike for Lily. Lily also went through some racist endeavors with strangers like when she went down to the police station. the police officer kept hinting that hat she was it wasn't normal for a white girl to be staying in a house full of colored people and that she was only lowering standards. Overall The Secret Life Of Bees was a wonderful book on the many encounters a person experiences over such a short span of time and how much a person can grow. Lessons that never leave you and forever impact the rest of your
Prejudice is something that a person’s upbringing will have a large effect on. Lily had grown up in a small town in the South where racism directed at colored people was normal, hence her subtle prejudice because she was unable to recognise that her views were wrong. Kidd hints at this with little comments Lily makes throughout the book. Many of these comments were directed towards Rosaleen, especially at the beginning of the book. When Rosaleen would
The Secret Life of Bees is a heart throbbing and touching novel about a young girl named Lily Owens who goes on a long journey far away to find out the truth about her mother, and in the process, finding herself. Filled with apprehension and self doubt, Lily grew up with her abusive and cold hearted father after the death of her mother when she was just 4 years old. She didn’t know much about her aside from what she was told growing up. Lily grew up with the weight of her mother’s death on her shoulders. Subsequently after her 14th birthday, and having been beaten by her father one too many times, Lily runs away with her nanny, Rosaleen, to Tiburon, South Carolina. After stumbling across August Boatwright’s bright pink house,
Lily shows her non-racist side in the very beginning of the book, after Rosaleen has been put in jail for spitting on a very racist white man’s shoe. She willingly sneaks into jail and attempts to free Rosaleen, but gets sent home with the racist and mean father, T. Ray. She once again tries to free Rosaleen, and this time sneaks into a hospital to free her. Lily is successful this time, and runs away with Rosaleen.
When Lily was invited to stay by August, June simply did not agree with her decision, “This was a great revelation - not that I was white, but that it seemed that June might not want me here because of my skin colour. I hadn’t known this was possible - to reject someone for being white” (Kidd 87). Lily felt resented by June because she did not want a white a girl staying in their house. This was the first time Lily had ever felt discriminated against because of her skin colour. This enables Lily to understand what prejudice was all about. This experience gave her insight into what the black people might feel when they are treated differently because of their skin colour. In the 1960’s Martin Luther King Jr. fought to make the equality between the two different races transpire, “ ‘Evil,’ asserted King, ‘carries the seed of its own destruction.’ Its forces are powerful and stubborn, never voluntarily relinquishing their hold... New obstacles will impede us repeatedly. The consuming force of evil, however, does not exist unchecked. Internally unstable, it is capable of being subdued by the powers of goodness — justice, freedom, and especially love — which remain vital however threatened they may be at times. ‘Looking back,’ King could say as he surveyed the battle against American racism, ‘we see the forces of segregation gradually dying on the seashore’ ” (Roth) Struggles repeatedly arose between the
Once Lily accepts what she has done and learns that her mother's death did not make her a bad person, her conflict can finally be resolved. As a result of resolving her conflict, she is able to mature because of the struggle, just like other people are able to grow and evolve from their own mistakes. This is evident when she admits "Before coming here, my whole life had been nothing but a hole where my mother should have been, and this hole had made me different, left me always aching for something, but never once did I think what he'd lost or how it might've changed him" (Kidd 293). Lily finally realizes that her mother's death has not only affected her, but also her father, T. Ray, and the calendar sisters. Through the course of Lily's struggle, Lily learns a lot about life and matures into a wiser
Sue Monk Kidd’s novel The Secret Life of Bees tells the story of a 14-year-old white girl, Lily Owens, whose life has been shaped around the blurred memory of her mother's death. Lily meets new people and they help her realize who she is and how the world is around her. Throughout the novel Kidd uses Lily’s various situations to express the theme. Kidd uses imagery, symbolism and similes to express the overall theme which is forgiveness and love.
In The Secret Life of bees you can learn a lot from the thematic layer. Three salient themes in this layer are forgiveness, hope and strength. Hope is shown when Zach talks to Lily about becoming a lawyer one day, “I’ve just never heard of a Negro lawyer, that’s all. You’ve got to hear of these things before you can imagine them’ ‘Bullshit. You gotta imagine what’s never been” (Kidd 121). Zach has hope that one day he will become a lawyer despite his skin color and what everyone else says about it. He doesn’t give up because of what society thinks, he stays hopeful. During this time period African Americans had to keep hope that one day the racism
“‘People can start out one way, and by the time life gets through with them they end up completely different’” (Kidd 293). This quote from August Boatwright perfectly encompasses what happens to Lily during The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd. All throughout the novel, the increased maturity of Lily’s character is very noticeable. At the beginning of the book, Lily, a 14-year-old white girl who is living in the South in the 1960’s, accepts segregation without questioning it. By the end, her perspective on life and others changes to reflect a more sophisticated woman. Through characterization, Lily matures as a person because she learns how to face conflicts as an adult and treat people in a grown-up way.
‘The Secret Life of Bees’ by Sue Monk Kidd is a wonderful and beautifully written story. ‘The Secret Life of Bees’ includes loveable characters that each have their own unique personalities. ‘The Secret Life of Bees’ also includes mystery and love, which makes it enjoyable. Although it’s not realistic, it’s still a really good read because of how the characters grow and develop throughout. Erin Collazo Miller’s book review on ‘The Secret Life of Bees’ is right about all of these things mentioned.
People make decisions everyday from simple things like whether or not to eat breakfast or larger decisions like whether or not to take the new promotion at work. These decisions are usually dawned upon us suddenly and we look to others to help decipher which decision is the ideal decision. In The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, Lily Melissa Owens is actuated by a variety of characters to make both ambiguous and venerable judgments throughout the novel. She did not do this on her own for she had people in her life communicating with her to finalize the verdicts on her decisions. Some of the persuaders were T. Ray, May, June, August, Zach, the Daughters of Mary, and even her mother, Deborah Fontanel Owens. Saying that, they all
First of all, The Secret Life of Bees is a 1960’s novel based on a child named Lily, who was bossed around and treated unfairly by her dad T-Ray, which he himself had a black maid named Rosaleen working for him since before Lily was born. Lily and Rosaleen had a very special relationship that had loyalty, trust,
Lily grows up in the South , a region where races are separate. History shows, during 1964, Southern states separated races in all aspects of the community, including black and white hospitals, schools, libraries, museums, etc. Growing up in a racist community, Lily finds herself having some prejudice against the black race.
Rosaleen was Lily’s maid while she was living with her father, T-Ray. Lily runs away from home with Rosaleen. At first Rosaleen doesn’t know where they are going and eventually Lily tells her. This quote is said by Rosaleen when she finds out what is really going on. “I get it. You ran off ‘cause of what your daddy said about your mother. It didn’t have nothing to do with me in jail”(Kidd 53). This quote is significant because it makes Rosaleen think that Lily doesn’t really care about her. Eventually August and Lily talk about Lily’s mother. Rosaleen and August knew about Lily’s mother. This quote is said by Lily while she was getting comforted by Rosaleen. “I wish you’d told me what you knew about my mother”(Kidd 264). This quote is significant because Lily realizes all the secrets that were hidden from her. Rosaleen taught Lily that the truth isn’t always great through keeping secrets from
The Secret Life of Bees delineates an inspirational story in which the community, friendship and faith guide the human spirit to overcome anything. The story follows Lily Owens, a 14 year old girl who desperately wants to discover the cause of her mothers death. Her father T. Ray gives her no answers, which leads their maid, Rosaleen, to act as her guardian. Together, Lily and Rosaleen run away to Tiburon, South Carolina and find a welcoming community. It is in Tiburon that Lily learns many life lessons, including many about herself. In her novel The Secret Life of Bees, Sue Monk Kidd explores a theme of spiritual growth through Lily's search for home as well as a maternal figure.
The Secret Life of Bees begins in the town of Sylvan, South Carolina and tells the story of 14-year-old Lily Melissa Owens. She lives on a peach orchard with her neglectful and abusive father, T. Ray. They have Black maid named Rosaleen who is a companion and caretaker of Lily. The book opens with Lily's discovery of bees in her bedroom and the story of how she killed her mother. The eve before her birthday Lily sneaks out into the peach orchard to visit the box of her mother’s belongings which is buried there however before she can hide them T. Ray finds her and punishes her. The next day Rosaleen and Lily head into town where Rosaleen is arrested for pouring her bottle of tobacco spit on three white men. Lily breaks her out of prison and they begin hitchhiking toward Tiburon, SC, a town Lily had seen on the back of a picture of a black Virgin Mary which her mom had owned. They hitch a ride to Tiburon and once there, they buy lunch at a general store, and Lily sees a picture of the same Virgin Mary on a jar of honey. She asks the store owner where it came from and he gives her directions to the Boatwright house. They then meet the makers of the honey: August, May and June Boatwright, who are all black. Lily makes up a wild story about being recently orphaned. The sisters welcome Rosaleen and Lily into their home. They are then introduced to beekeeping and the Boatwright’s way of life. Lily learns more about the Black Madonna honey that the sisters make. She begins working