Divorce And Its Effects On Children

1296 WordsDec 6, 20166 Pages
50% of all the children born to married parents today, will experience the divorce of their parents’ before they are eighteen years old. Divorce in and of itself doesn’t necessarily harm a child, but the conflict between parents does. A child’s behavior correlates directly with the effects of their parents’ separation. Deep emotional wounds are created before, during, and after divorce and separation. It is rare that you find a child that actually wants their parents to separate, unless the marriage was full of intense conflict and anger. Parents going through a divorce don’t always think about how their child is going to be impacted by it. Children suffer when their parents go through a separation. Divorce increases the risk of psychological and behavioral problems, it makes way for difficulties in the classroom, and the emotional well-being of the child is in danger. Divorce and separation are stressful for all those who are involved, whether it’s the parents themselves or their children. Children who have had parents go through a divorce tend to have a higher risk of psychological and behavioral problems. Many children who go through this, feel like they have lost control. Everything around them is changing and unfortunately there is nothing they can do about it. They feel hopeless. It is very common to see this loss of control turn into frustration, which leads to outbursts and aggression. Children of divorce, especially boys, tend to be more aggressive to others.
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