Domestic Violence Narrative Report

The first few years on a relationship, everything seems gold plated and perfect. Respecting, honoring significant others is a given, but unfortunately some feel the urge and need to claim their dominance over the relationship. Unexpected things would eventually start occurring, like physical assaults, diminished self-worth, and sometimes even child abuses are consequences of trying to dominate the members in a household. After growing up in a household where the abusive environment is dominating, people are known to develop trust issues, disturbed and unreal perceptions of reality; the solution may not always be clear, but immediate action is to be taken from the abused party or victims.

I contacted Mason at apartment E-301. I observed the front door was dented and cracked near the deadbolt and the door frame around the deadbolt area was shattered.

The team of individuals who will lead this work include Baonam Giang, NMAFC’s Victim Services Coordinator; AnhDao Bui, Social Services Director; Kay Bounkeua, Interim Director, and Sarah Lau, Fiscal Manager. Mr. Giang was the sole creator of NMAFC’s men group and helps to coordinate all victims’ services at the agency, in addition to running a tae kwon do class for Asian youth. Mr. Giang has two years of formal training and experience on addressing gender violence. Before Mr. Giang, there has never been a Pan-Asian men’s group in Bernalillo County working to address gender violence within local Asian communities. As domestic violence, sexual assault, and other forms of violence are still extremely taboo topics for Asian communities, the formation alone of this group with regular attendees

When I arrived at the residence, I spoke with Mckie, Karly DOB: 08/08/1992, who identified herself as the reporting party. Mckie stated she had not seen the assault but assumed it was physical due to prior event she witnessed. As I was speaking with Mckie she pointed out a vehicle leaving the residence and became frightened. Mckie stated Kirks, Mayan was leaving.

On 11/12/2017 at about 1400 hours, I was dispatched to the area of Maple Pines Avenue in reference to a neighbor dispute and a person possibly armed with a firearm.

I went inside to speak with the female, later identified as Mary Mccarney. I asked Mary what I going on and if she needed our help. Mary stated that her boyfriend (Brent Weeks) and she were having an argument. She stated that he threw glass on the floor breaking it. She stated that he does not do

On Saturday, July 24, 2016, I was dispatched to 4B Baytree Court for a DVPO Domestic Violence Order of Protection Violation call.

I proceeded to the rear of the house where I observed Jeremy COLOSIMO, James COLOSIMO, Jason RUSKUSKI, and Samantha FLAIL. I asked the individuals who was fighting and Jeremy and James COLOSIMO (brothers) advised they got into a scuffle. They indicated the fight was physical and red marks were observed

I would shut my eyes because I knew what was coming. And before I shut my eyes, I held my breath, like a swimmer ready to dive into a deep ocean. I could never watch when his hands came toward me; I only patiently waited for the harsh sound of the strike. I would always remember his eyes right before I closed my own: pupils wide with rage, cold, and dark eyebrows clenched with hate. When it finally came, I never knew which fist hit me first, or which blow sent me to my knees because I could not bring myself to open my eyes. They were closed because I didn’t want to see what he had promised he would never do again. In the darkness of my mind, I could escape to a paradise where he would never reach me. I would find again the haven where I

There are many different types of domestic violence. Physical abuse is the most obvious form, but this is not to say that outsiders always recognize it. Generally, physical violence causes bodily harm, using a variety of methods. Slapping, pushing, throwing, hitting, punching, and strangling are only a few methods. An object or weapon may or may not be used. There is not always physical evidence of physical abuse such as bruising, bleeding, scratches, bumps, etc., therefore, absence of physical marks does not necessarily mean physical abuse had not occurred. Physical abuse sometimes escalates to murder (Morris and Biehl 7, Haley 14-17).

The situation after this worsened as she witnessed him coming back to her address and smashing a glass bottle

Ellie and I lay in our beds, neither one of us knew what to say. In the other room, our host parents were arguing. We didn’t know what about, but we knew it was serious. Then we heard a “THWACK” followed by silence. Ellie and I sat up in our beds and looked at each other, I could tell she was as scared as I was. “Was that? Did he just?” she asked me. Then the arguing started back up again. We calmed back down until we heard it again. “THWACK” We knew then, the noise we heard, was him beating her. We got up, our hearts racing; neither of us knew what to do. We got our nerves together to go get help. When we opened the door to our room we saw the children sitting on the couch crying out for their mother. I could see the fear in their face and I knew something needed to change.

“Every year in the United States there are over 3 million incidents of domestic violence. That means that every nine seconds a women is beaten by her domestic partner” (Findeley). There are many women that stay silent when being abuse by their partners. The consequences of staying quiet when obtaining abuse can be dangerous and can also lead to death. Many women do not recognize the importance of the fact that there is in speaking out if they are being abuse by their partner. No woman should take domestic abuse by their partners. Every woman deserves a healthy relationship; A healthy relationship involves trust, respect, and consideration for the other person. Domestic abuse has gotten worse during the past years and is still rising up. One can see that domestic abuse can occur everywhere. Domestic abuse is considered a crime and woman should not keep silent when being abuse.

I was born and raised in Atlanta, GA. I come from a place where over 70% of black men are raised in a fatherless home, where domestic violence is something that is a way of showing love. Drugs and alcohol are encouraged or pushed on you to do. Most of the uses are raised in the street, because they are the only men in our life that will pay us some attention.

What happened to his angry growl now? Last night when she was trying to express her feelings, he asked her to step inside along with her nonsense. Now look at him, he was holding on to her as if he would never let go. She wanted to shake him out of his sleep and make him realize the connection between them, but knew that she was fated to feel the obvious alone.