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Domesticity: The Cult Of True Womanhood

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The cult of true womanhood or cult of domesticity was a way of life and thinking about women and womanhood that hit its peak around 1820 to 1860. This ideology was perpetuated by both men and women of the time period. It was a harsh separation of men and women’s roles and their spheres of influence, women’s domain was the home, and men’s was the outside world. Women in the cult of domesticity were focused primarily on four ideals, purity, piety, domesticity, and submissiveness. The first ideal, purity came from the idea that women were passionless creatures. In “nineteenth-century Protestant worldview, woman was less tied to humanity’s animal nature than man was, and this lifted her closer to the divine” essentially, because of these assumptions …show more content…

Women were expected to keep a clean house, take proper care of the children and be the perfect hostess. Popular literature such as the Godey’s Lady’s book perpetuated these ideals. Stories about women not leading up to these ideals abounded and they all ended in ruin. Women were expected to be trained in household duties before they were married, and they were expected to train their young daughters as well. All childrearing was done by the woman of the house, manuals written by other women would instruct new mothers on the proper way to raise children. The woman’s sphere was the home, and thus it was her job to make sure that it was running smoothly and a haven from the aggressive pace of the outside world for her husband. Women made all the decisions about the decoration of the home and if there were servants, they were in charge of them as well. Servants were viewed as an extension of a woman, if one’s servants were unruly, it reflected poorly on a wife’s status in the cult of true womanhood. As women began to take pride in their homes and children, industries flourished. Household conveniences such as stoves, carpet, flower gardens, and decorative items became readily available. Children’s clothes became more specified as children were viewed as individuals for the first time. The ideal of domesticity drove these changes and gave women more confidence and control over their …show more content…

Women taught mostly at private schools and were involved with the idea that women were in charge of raising the next generation, and idea that stemmed from the cult of domesticity. These women, since they dealt with children were most likely also subject to being pure and pious. These women would teach all girls and boys up until the age of puberty reading, writing, arithmetic, needlework and drawing. Some schools expanded their curriculum to include geography, history, astronomy, grammar, French, and piano. While the women who taught at these private schools generally had some education, most women of another vocation at the time, domestic work, did not. Women involved in domestic work were generally of the lower class and were often of another race other than white. This was the largest single category of women’s work during the nineteenth century, these women were expected to assist their middle or upper class supervisor in creating the ideal domestic sphere for their supervisor’s family. I the process of doing their job they were upheld to the standards of domesticity that the family they were working for

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