Dong Mingzhu: A Good Leader

In the Qin state, a growing leader was about to prosper. Legends says a wealthy merchant who is acquainted with King Zhuangxiang of Qin came to him one day in the Eastern Zhou Dynasty (770-256 BCE). His name was Lu Buwei. On that day, Lu Buwei had arranged with the king to meet his lovely wife, Zhao Ji. As soon as they met, the King Zhuangxiang of Qin felt an attraction to her. Eventually, Zhao Ji became the mistress of King Zhuangxiang of Qin and in 259

In contrast, during the era of The Story Yingying, the cultural norm for a woman was to be submissive, patient, and passive. Yingying upheld all of these cultural standards. After meeting Zhang for the first time Yingying showed no interest in him at all but overtime Yingying finally gave into Zhang and fell in love and they became engaged. Unfortunately, Zhang had to leave for a year to go take a civil service examination, but he promised her he would come back to her. She waited patiently and after a year, her fiancé returned but shortly after had to leave again to retake the examination. Again she waited patiently for his return, but he never came back. After waiting for years for her fiancé to return, she became eager to

Ming’s name is very indicative of her personality. She is brief and to-the-point; she has to time to mess around. Along with the negative effects of an overly-involved family, positive features came out of the situation as well. Firstly, her performance on schoolwork is very highly regarded. She even manages to surpass Karl’s success. It took Karl two attempts to get into medical school, while it only took Ming one. She was able to achieve this almost entirely because of her family’s involvement. Her family pushed her to be tutored by Karl, and Karl managed to unintentionally push her away from everything except schoolwork. Due to Karl’s abuse Ming never fully matured socially, and stayed away from being sexual. Ming was handicapped socially; although she liked Fitzpatrick she was not sure how to go about talking to him. At one point she asked herself, “was that the kind of thing people said?” and admitted that she “often stumbled across humor” (Lam 2). This can be seen as a positive effect because she was able to fully focus on her schoolwork. She also shied away from anything sexual, somewhat replacing her sexuality with grades. After her and Fitzgerald got their tests back, they went through the notion of “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.” Another positive effect of the extreme family

In the chapter “Waiting Between the Trees” Ying-ying’s past in China that she has kept from her daughter is revealed. When she was young she believed that she was too good for any man, however eventually she realized she had to settle and married an indecent man, despite her being extremely vain. She had given up herself for this man, only for him to

Early in childhood Jing Mei dreamed of finding her prodigy and being a famous Chinese American, mostly because of the views and actions her mother placed on her. Her mother believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America. (pg 405) Her mother was always pushing new tests and talents on Jing Mei. She even went as far as having her daughter Jing Mei models her physical appearance and actions after a child-star Shirley Temple. Her other was always testing her with many different things trying to discover Jing Mei’s talent. Later Jing Mei started to feel like her mother was just trying to make her into someone she was not and started to just fail and not try to do anything right hoping her mother would give up. When her mother died she had realized what her mother had been trying to do. Her mother had only wanted her to do her best. She had then to realize what her mother had

It takes a lot to be a leader. It takes experience, communication, positivity, passion, and much more to be an effective leader. Communication, positivity, and passion are the three most important characteristics to me. I represent all three of these with great pride. I communicate effectively whether it be in the classroom, on

Feng Ru was very interested in industrialization. In paragraph 4, the text states, “He understood that industrialization made the country great, and felt that industrialization could do the same for China.” Industrialization inspired Feng to start learning about aviation. Feng Ru also faced many obstacles and challenges. Feng had to translate all of the information on aviation into Chinese but Feng never complained. In paragraph seven, the text states, “Feng turned his attention to aviation, laboriously translating into Chinese everything he could find.” He also had to relocate and work in a very small workshop. Even though Feng had to relocate because of San Francisco's earthquake, and having to relocate again after setting his workshop ablaze, Feng Ru never gave up. He was so determined to become the first aviator in China. In paragraph six, the text states, “And Feng himself, who rarely finished work before 3 a.m.” In the end, Feng ended up being the first aviator in China. Feng Ru was a hero in his country and even though he died in his last flight, he impacted China in a positive

Wang Lung is very old now and is always sick. He is like the old man in the beginning of eh book because he is always on the bed, lying around without anything to worry about. Pear Blossom gets him food and drinks whenever he needs to eat, and he also walks to the land everyday and sees his land being good. However, one time he realizes that soon he is going to die and that he won’t be able to survive long enough. That is when the eldest son comes to him, and sees his condition which is getting worse day by day. His eldest son buys a coffin for his father. Wang Lugn also decides upon his will as when he talks to Pear Blossom and the issues that are going on in his family, he says that all the money he owns needs to be divided into sections

Often with the gain of monetary wealth, the decline of morality follows closely behind. This is magnified in the lives of Wang Lung’s three sons. The eldest son becomes obsessed with women and is eager to satisfy the desires of the flesh. For the rich, this is a common thing. Once you tire of the beautiful maid

Shen Fu recounted his story of the domestic and romantic events of his life, where Yun, his wife, shapes him the most. The ideal of a wife in the 1700s was to devote herself to her husband and his family, specifically his Mother. The wife was to honor the husband’s family first and think of herself after. In Six Records of a Floating Life, Yun and Shen Fu were immediately attracted to each other. Originally, Yun was described as a respectable woman who follows the confucian ways and this was why she was chosen by Shen Fu’s mother to be his wife. Once married to Shen Fu, Yun demonstrated her devotion as a wife and a filial daughter-in-law. Shen Fu described Yun as a woman who was, “respectful to her elders and amiable to everyone else. Everything she did was orderly and done properly” (Shen Fu 29).

Xiaoqing is a fabulous person, and I know you will think so too! She has many talents, including swimming and art (though she claims to not be at the skill level of Michael Phelps or Picasso), as well as singing in the shower. She plans to improve these talents in the future, and work to become an anesthesiologist-- basically someone who gives pain numbing shots to people-- as well. Her bravery in wanting to pursue a job in which she will be disliked by so many (because really, who likes shots?) impresses one so much it is difficult to discredit her for her fears of bad grades and insects-- the former of which many in this room probably suffer from too. As an adult, Xiaoqing would like to like in San Francisco, as she enjoyed the feeling of the city when she went there.

When she meets Fan Liuyuan, she takes her chances and follows him to Hong Kong. Her decision to leave Shanghai has two implications. Firstly, she wants an escape from her family. After years of following their rules and hearing their complaints about her presence, she finally has a chance to leave it all behind to find her own independence. Secondly, she is strangely attracted to Liuyuan and securing his love and attention is a conquest for her.

No one can get success without having the trust of people on his capabilities because without that he won’t be able to gain enough confidence to take desired actions without the fear of being rejected. Lastly, he must take some steps in order to prove him a leader and also to make him realize his very own potential (Jim Murray).

Family loyalty in China has had a tumultuous past filled with fluctuation between remaining loyal to the state, yet also remaining loyal to blood relatives. In the autobiography that also serves as a biography, Wild Swans, by Jung Chang, this is seen. The book, which outlines the biographies of the author’s grandmother and mother, as well as her own autobiography, gives an interesting look into the lives of the Chinese throughout the 20th century. This book is beyond eye opening, and is truly a raw glimpse into the daily lives of women throughout China, struggling with situations that no human should ever be thrown into. I loved this book and was truly scared about the world that it opened me up to. The book does many things well, but also has its faults. The author consistently and clearly exemplifies the social hierarchy that consumes China, as well as its obsession with cultural stagnancy. The author also gives intense imagery that thrusts the reader into the scene, and creates a new reality showcasing the truths of China. Although both of those things take main stage in the book, there are a few weaknesses in the book. One, asking the question of how she had such clear anecdotes on her grandmother and mother’s life, how did she have such intimate details? The second shortcoming that Jung Chang had a subjective view of China, partly being that she loves China despite the cards it has dealt her. Her life was not short of hardships, but her family was typically

A good leader needs to have many particular characteristics. Some of these are obvious, such as that they care about what you are doing and always puts you before themselves. Also another trait of a good leader is that they always keep promises they make. Some of the subtle attributes of a good leader are that they do not hide behind bad news. Moreover, they are easy people to talk to and they have a good if not excellent sense of humor.